Should I be concerned that my girlfriend doesn’t text me on girls trip?

[MrBlade88]

My girlfriend went to Mexico with her friends. At first she was constantly FaceTime, texting, and keeping me posted. Now she barely responds to me. She reads my texts and doesn’t even respond for hours. She says it’s because the wifi on the resort is bad, but I see her online all the time and she doesn’t respond.

Last night at 1am she was pissed drunk and sent me a video of her totally smashed, talking shots with a guy. The guy looked at the camera and walked away when he realized he was being recorded. This raised lots of alarms. Plus one of the girls Donna is with her name is Sarah. Sarah is always trying to replace her toxic boyfriend and gives her number out to other men.

Please tell me….. Should I concern? Or just calm down?

[Miristheiss]

You should commit to girls who go on exotic girls' trips. I'm sure she is out at clubs, drinking and having guys hitting on her all night and maybe more with all of her wing men friends cheering her on.

Dude, you should just break up and date only women who don't do this "single girl" behavior. If you are going to commit to her and take on any financial and loyalty obligations to her then she should not be acting single and going out to clubs and going on wild girls trips to exotic foreign locations.

You are being a fool to accept this situation as a committed boyfriend. If this is what you have to put up with while you are loyal to her with your commitment then you should never give such a girl a commitment.

Dump her or open things up and just make her some girl you casually hook up with from time to time. You are a fool to give her a commitment.

No, you should calm down. You should have told her you don't commit to girls who go on such trips the moment she brought the trip up. You should just break up with this girl.

[Anonymous]

Yes of course you should. When people get drunk their true character usually comes out. She needs to be held accountable for her actions. Drunk or not she’s an adult, she should know her limit. That’s no excuse. She sent that video on purpose. She knew what she was doing. As for the wifi I call BS. If she’s in Mexico obviously as a tourist you know damn well these hotels have good wifi cause they know that’s what tourist want. When I go home to the Rez sometimes, in the middle of BFE, even I still get service on my phone. Stick up for yourself man. You know damn well if this was you w your boys pulling the same shit you’d be in the dog house. She’s going to try to find a way to turn it on you, to blame you for her actions. I’d be surprised if she admitted she was wrong for what she did. Don’t hold your breath on that one. A lot of women lack accountability. No matter what happens it’s always the men’s fault. I’d consider finding someone else. Especially if she’s got friends like that. Keep us updated.

[strawberrybaby3]

No you definitely have reasons to be concerned. First red flag is her obviously lying to you about the bad wifi connection while seeing her online and just ignoring your messages. Second red flag is her recording herself drunk with other men. Third red flag is her hanging out with other women who cheat.

[ItsChloe1999]

No need to panic. Your worries would be valid if she was on a bachelorette party. If she’s just on a girls trip then there’s no need to worry.

[MrOracle]

A "girl's trip" to Mexico, with resorts and clubs and alcohol and tons of guys? Her cheating on you is guaranteed.

While you can't prevent a woman from going, if it was my girl, she would have known that there would be nothing left for her to come home to if she chose to go.

Assume that she has been having unprotected sex with AT LEAST one man while there. She could have an STD. She could be pregnant with some random man's child, which she would inevitably try to make YOU responsible for.

You had better be taking some serious actions. The laws and courts favor her, so you don't have a lot of time.

This is what happens when you fail to set boundaries and expectations.

[Unit1]

Yeah, at this point with all that, you are getting put in a position, where you shouldn't tolerate this. Send her to Daniel Hernandez AKA Tekashi 6ix9ine and find a proper girl. You are 99% getting cheated on. By now it already happened.

[inhua]

these "girls trip" are just sex tourism in disguise

[rsodders]

I think that you might try being comfortable with your weight and love your body as it is and while I can't see your body the weight you gave is only probably thick. Today thick is good. I like a woman I can hold on to. Be you. All of you

[Luckycharms12]

I would say so any girl I've being with always text or called me asked how day was and stuff like that

[kukukuku323]

Are the girls she went with hoes?

if so...

[MrBlade88]

Just one of them from what I know

[KrakenAttackin]

"Girls trip"😂😂😂. You mean 🍆🍆🍆🍆 trip.

[Elinnnor]

I think You should Have a serious discussion with her.

[BourbonAndBacon]

Sorry bud. It's time to move on

[cloud9vortex1234]

She's fucking other guys.

[Socaljp]

Don't be a chump and ditch the bitch. Come on man