He said he was on dating site and just wanted to go with the flow. I have known him for 3-4 months now and recently gave him an oral. He called in today (usually he doesn't) cause he found out my friends were stalking him on social media (just for my safety reasons, they didn't ruin his privacy in any way) and asked if we were dating. To which I said no cause he never asked me to be his girlfriend. He sometimes calls me the mother of his kids or little wife. But never asked me to be his girlfriend directly. I fell for him. And he was never in a relationship before but was with a good number of girls? I don't know the number but they are quite a few. I have done so much for him at this point. I never wanted to get intimate with a guy without getting serious but here we are. I even asked him if he knew about my feelings he nodded and went back kissing me. He today asked why my friends were so protective over me and I told him it's cause I get attached easily and then he said that should be start hanging out or texting me less cause I'll get attached which clearly shows he has no idea of getting me attached to him. He has never said it clearly before that he just wanted physical intimacy or physical intimacy only. He said maybe in future he will fall for some other girl and didn't wanted to break my heart. I told him that it won't break my heart and I ll want only his happiness which is true but i can't even imagine him with any other girl. He cares for me for sure but I m not his priority what should I do? And if you think i should detach myself from him, how do I?
Met a guy. I fell for him. but he is not clear about his feelings. He said I am important to him. We even got a bit intimate. What should I do?
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It sounds like you're in a complex and emotionally challenging situation. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and feelings. Since he hasn't been clear about his intentions and you desire a more serious commitment, it might be best to have an open and honest conversation with him about your expectations and feelings. If he's not on the same page, it might be a good idea to consider distancing yourself from this relationship to protect your emotions and find someone who shares your desires for a more committed relationship. Detaching can be difficult, but it can involve setting boundaries, focusing on your own personal growth, and seeking support from friends and loved ones during the process.
He sounds like a huge red flag. Any man that is quick to have sex but says he wants to take things slow relationship wise 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Not reading that essay.
Simple, if he fucked you. And stopped talking to you afterwards. He just wanted sex, and nothing more