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This person (25F) and I (23M) have been talking. She works as a supervisor at my nearest grocery store where I live. During the many times we've seen each other very rarely will she smile or initiate a "hi" (but I'm not saying that doesn't totally exist). Most of the time I go out of my way to chat with her. I know some things about her via the answers she gave me to my questions. She's a Gemini, I'm a Capricorn. But that's pretty much the only thing I know personally about her. She didn't even ask about my last name, what ethnicity I am, or my phone number or social media info. (She knows very few things about me other than the fact that I used to work at Whole Foods and that I am now taking online school.) I recorded a few TikTok videos jokingly talking about how I met this girl and made some jokes about a particular, really cranky guy from a commercial that sells pillows. I told her jokingly that I was his godson, she said, "Oh yeah! I remember you!"

But lately, she's kinda been ghosting me, limiting to just short chit-chats. I don't think she's all that interested. She's likely lost all interest in me. Even today my aunt honked at me as I was JUST going to talk to this girl, but she didn't even notice me or the car honking.

I did ask if she's down for the gym or the movies, she said while she appreciates me asking her out, she cannot go out.

With that said, I gave her some flowers/roses on Mother's Day and she really appreciated it. But she didn't say anything when I hid a Valentine's Day card inside with some chocolates in a bag.

Sometimes I feel like an a—hole for not going out of my way to talk to her today. But few days ago I was exiting the store, she was just glancing at me for a second and didn't even do or say anything. I feel left out, excluded, psychologically burned out because of her betrayal. She acted so f—king nice to me.

So here's the situation, basically this girl and I started talking platonically online. We're both pretty bad texters. We spoke for about a year until we met in person. We had two fantastic dates where she expressed desire to have a relationship with me.

In the time since those dates, she told me that she doesn't want a long distance relationship but has said she wants us to contact each other if we are ever in each other's area. The communication has totally died to the point that she doesn't respond to my incredibly occasional texts. I recently graduated from law school and she couldn't even be bothered to send me a congratulations text when I told her.

There's bad communication and then there's this... this is just pathetic and insulting.

Part of me wants to call her out on this and ask if she wants me to stop texting entirely, the other part thinks I should just assume she wants me to piss off and just let things go.

Hello girls, I'm sorry but this will be a little bit long, I recently saw a girl I went to school with and we spoke about school and we had a little argument about something, I am talking about something that happened at high school, there was one girl at my class that we hated each other, we never spoke like regular classmates but always showing that didn't really like one another, and to be honest I always used to harass her even if just walking across her I would throw her a word like stupid or ugly or just bad morning instead of saying good morning... And don't get this wrong sometimes she did answer to speak back at me for the things I call her but we can say that she was pretty much harassed by me. So one day she was standing at the yard with her 3 friends (girls) and I passed next to her and called her stupid girl, so after 10 minutes when the break is over I went back to the class and almost everyone is there and just when I came in she came from behind me and pulled my pants and underwear down, exposing me and it took me like few seconds to realize what has just happened to me while I'm standing there with my pants and underwear to my ankles in front of everyone laughing so hard at me including her and she yelled "haha everyone look how tiny his penis is".

I pulled my pants back up and went home immediately and didn't come to school for 2 days. After that obviously I never mocked her or made fun of her again and never spoke to her again, even when she annoyed me sometimes (like calling me Mr. Small penis) but that was really few times not a lot... Some of the classmates (especially girls) thought she was right but exposing a man's genitals and penis could be the worst hit you could ever land on a man...

So girls, was she right?

Hello girls, I'm sorry but this will be a little bit long, I recently saw a girl I went to school with and we spoke about school and we had a little argument about something, I am talking about something that happened at high school, there was one girl at my class that we hated each other, we never spoke like regular classmates but always showing that didn't really like one another, and to be honest I always used to harass her even if just walking across her I would throw her a word like stupid or ugly or just bad morning instead of saying good morning... And don't get this wrong sometimes she did answer to speak back at me for the things I call her but we can say that she was pretty much harassed by me. So one day she was standing at the yard with her 3 friends (girls) and I passed next to her and called her stupid girl, so after 10 minutes when the break is over I went back to the class and almost everyone is there and just when I came in she came from behind me and pulled my pants and underwear down, exposing me and it took me like few seconds to realize what has just happened to me while I'm standing there with my pants and underwear to my ankles in front of everyone laughing so hard at me including her and she yelled "haha everyone look how tiny his penis is".

I pulled my pants back up and went home immediately and didn't come to school for 2 days. After that obviously I never mocked her or made fun of her again and never spoke to her again, even when she annoyed me sometimes (like calling me Mr. Small penis) but that was really few times not a lot... Some of the classmates (especially girls) thought she was right but exposing a man's genitals and penis could be the worst hit you could ever land on a man...

So girls, was she right?