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I'm in a relationship for the past two months. We haven't had sex yet and I don't feel ready. He is being chivalrous and is giving me space. He plans to spend the night this weekend even I'm not planning on sex. There's one problem: I can never sleep next to anyone in my bed. Ever.

I like to cuddle after sex or even with no sex. But falling asleep together. No way. I need my space. Kills the romance in my world. I told him I'd sleep on the couch to be a gracious host. He's pissed. Am I the only one?

I've had a guy friend for almost 2 years now.

i feel like we know and understand each other

In the fall we went to an event together, although I'm in a serious relationship with someone else, it felt like a date. He was really chivalrous and something clicked. I realized I had feelings for my friend. Over the next few days I analyzed our friendship (texts, FB etc.) I noted some signs he MIGHT also have feelings for me. I recalled a time he had sent me a romantic song to listen to, and was a bit anxious for me to listen to it. I told him it was beautiful but did not want to probe him for meaning at the time it was sent, or open any doors, since I was in a serious relationship.

After realizing my feelings, I tried to arrange a meeting to talk to him about them. he was unable to meet but really wanted to know what I needed to talk about. I texted him that I have feelings for him and that it would be fine if he had zero feelings back, I just wanted to be honest and figure things out.

his immediate reply was "lol are you serious?" I confirmed, yes. He then said he'd like to forget the matter came up and have things go back to normal. Later that evening he sent a softer more "don't worry about it, it happens" kind of response.

Since then, we saw each other around college as friends a few times, he always held doors for me etc.

Then, over 2 months from when the text exchange occurred he asked me to meet him to help with some school. By this time I had almost forgotten my feelings. When I met him this time he'd had more than a few drinks and was being affectionate (gave me a big hug, kissed me on the cheek, and put his arm around me) I told him I didn't want him to do anything he'd regret while drinking, he confirmed he wouldn't. He kissed me, slow, long, no tongue and alluded to wanting to go further. We have not talked toomuch since. I tried to ask how long he'd been attracted to me and he 'LOL don't ask that type of question" to that. Any insight?