Search Results: how can you tell if a guy is just shy

Guy told his friends he thinks I hate him?

I overheard a guy from work telling his friends how he thinks I hate him. However he is the one who acts like he hates me, ignoring me and stuff. Why is he talking about me behind my back? Once in a while he kind of...

freshman

Xper 5 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

What does this mean?

So I matched with this older guy on Hinge. He messaged me and told me that he really finds me attractive and wants to get to know me more. He’s twice my age. We chatted a bit and then he gave me his number. We texted for...

Sarahdelacruz

Xper 5 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

Why can't we remain friends now that she knows how I feel about her?

Two years ago I experienced love-at-first-sight for a woman at work, she made me behave completely out of character; where I'm normally extremely shy regarding women/dating/relationships she would somehow break down my...

AzuraSheep

Xper 1 Age: 38

Dating

Can someone help me?

Context: There is a friend of mine that invited me to go out for dinner with me. We went to the same boarding school together two years ago. Our first year at the boarding school, told him that I had a crush on him but he...

prettygirlsup

Xper 2 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

What to do or think of this?

So this guy at work when I first met him he said I looked really mean and I told him I thought the same to which he explained he is shy. We have good conversations once I can get him to talk and we laugh together, but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why do guys say they want to be friends with you and then don't do friend-like things?

There is this guy I've been hanging out with for about 3 months and he established from the beginning that he wasn't looking to be in a relationship he wanted to be just friends ( he told me that because I'm a natural...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is he interested ir just playing?

Me and this guy at work started talking for these past few weeks. He was the one who started talking to me via text, asking about something i had told him at work. I answered his question and he only texted me the next...

Anscarc

Xper 1 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

Why do they do that?

Okay so I have faced this thing probably many times, I am a shy girl and I blush a lot also I joke a lot, one time there was a guy whom I had crush on and then next day I was in a festival and when he looked at me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Did I mess up any chance I may have had with him?

So I took a liking to this guy. We had good conversation, laughs, always hug when we see each other etc and you can tell that we liked each other. The feelings were mutual and they showed. The thing is, we would only...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Do you guys think this is rude of me or is it justified?

There’s this cute girl that I can tell has a crush on me and I like her too. The thing is, she’s shy, quiet and sort of introverted so any interaction we have had has been because of me. I speak first, I always give her a...

Martymart

Xper 4 Age: 27

Guy's Behavior

Why do you guys think my crush has suddenly given me the cold shoulder?

I was crushing on a guy I worked with. We would speak hug and talk every time we saw each other. Even yesterday, we had our normal greeting and conversation but yesterday was also the day he came back from suspension from...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

How to make an advance at my girlfriend?

So a bit of information about us, I'm (26 M) an expat living in a foreign country in South East Asia. I go to the gym 9 times a week and have a rather high income although not in the top 1% or anything like that. My looks...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean if a guy responds like this?

My good friend wanted to introduce me to a family friend of hers that she thought would be a good match for me to date. I met him yesterday as she introduced us and we got along really well and there seem to be a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Should I be hard to get after making out with my crush and if I should be hard to get how can I be hard to get?

So I’ve had a crush on this guy for like two months now. But I don't know if he knew that already bc like a month ago his friend found out that I liked him. And I don't know if he told him or not but then his friends kept...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Should I be hard to get after making out with my crush and if so how can I be hard to get?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Am I reading the whole situation wrong?

I’m talking to this guy and we have a great connection through text we’re flirting and everything is great. Then we meet up. He barely spoke to me and he was just so quiet. After a while he just completely left me to hang...

domo0906

Xper 6 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

We never dated, but he tries to make me jealous with his new girlfriend?

I know this guy from the gym for a couple of years. The gym has co-ed classes, and he's one of the instructors. He's in his late 20's, I'm in my mid-30s (but look younger, from what I've been told). It seemed like we were...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Would it be weird to follow his Insta after several years without talking?

So I met this guy about 5 years ago, i really liked him in a romantic way and could definitely tell he was feeling the same, that was very obvious. But back then we were too young and shy to do something about it, so we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Can outgoing guys become shy and quiet around girls they like?

This one guy is shy and quiet only with me. Let's call him Eric. Eric has no issues talking to others but around me he becomes quiet. The only time Eric really talks to me is when we are either alone or if we are at a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Does he love me or am I just a one time thing?

I had a crush on my best friend we been friends since the age of 17 /18 I guess he knows that I had a crush on him but he never seemed to reciprocate feelings back towards me his friends keep talking about how me and my...

ZainabAli123

Xper 5 Age: 32