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I recently got acquainted with a colleague from another division - he the softwares engineering and is stereotypically geeky and a bit socially awkward. I know he finds me attractive but I can’t tell if he’s actually interested.

I reached out to him for a chat on the pretext of getting advice and he readily gave me his time but was quite nervous during the convo. Had some trouble looking me in the eye, stuttered / shook a bit while taking to me and left abruptly after the convo ended. He also looked me up on LinkedIn before and after the conversation.

I was going doing my best to be friendly but don’t think it really worked. If I didn’t know better, I’d think I offended me. Is he intimidated by me or does he actually like me?

28F, just leaning towards bad luck. I’m very introverted & not the friendliest but I don’t think I’m intimidating. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, it’s not like I’m a runway model yet guys just never approach me. I’m told guys look at me but they never do anything about it & I’m too shy. I know there’s nothing wrong with me, most women seem to get guys so easily. That’s why I’ve been on and off the apps since I was maybe 18, getting matches has never been a prob. Convo always fades, ghosting, lack of interest (goes both ways) & some guys who are crazy. I’ve tried a lot of them, usually I stick with Hinge. It’s always a pattern of the guys I want who don’t want me back & the ones that want me I don’t like back. For maybe the past year I’ve become less and less interested, I reply to matches/msgs every couple of days? Even when I was more engaged it still led to the same pattern of no success. A few people have said maybe I’m asexual (haven’t had sex or masturbated in years), assume I’m gay or I’m unsure of what I want. Maybe they’re all wrong & simply I haven’t found the right person? I dated someone for a few months back when I was 23 & after dealing with someone I felt like I settled for, I decided I’d rather be alone vs be with someone I am not crazy for. I’m kind of at the point where I’m apathetic & I just feel too old to be bothered.