Search Results: we are not in an official relationship

Trying to remain friends with an “ex” good or bad?

Hey so same question as usual. meet a guy back in December 2019 we talked for a while and basically established an long distance online relationship for 1.5 years agreeing to be official once the border opens. we...

Emilyrich93

Xper 6 Age: 33

Marriage & Weddings

My boyfriend wants to postpone wedding a year, should I be worried?

My man and I have enjoyed a beautiful relationship we feel equally yoked and had been dating for marriage from the start. We are both very spiritual and religious as well. And so as we felt things moving very deliberately...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm afraid to date? How do I overcome it?

I don't know how to get over this feeling but I believe it's relationship anxiety or commitment issues. Whenever it feels like things are starting to progress in the beginning stages of getting to know each other but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I keep taking things slow and focus on him, talk to him and other people, or move on from him?

I’ve been talking to this guy. We do have sex, I spend the night with him on the weekends we hang out, etc. We were talking for a few weeks and then he decided he wanted to make things official and for me to be his...

Hopeless0126

Xper 2 Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

Is my relatively new romantic relationship over?

Im 25; he is 30, and on August 20th, we met for the first time at brunch and connected quickly as we found ourselves being able to have a conversation and bonding based on shared interests. Back then, he worked a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My friend at work is playing two women off, did u do the right thing?

a guy at work who's a good friend to me, was living with his long term partner rachel who also happens to be a customer of ours. they got together when he cheated on his baby mama with her at a previous company. I always...

Akitax

Xper 5 Age: 37

Why would a man willingly wait for a woman?

Here is some context. I met this guy a few months ago. I went on one date with him, but I didn’t pursue him because I saw some red flags I didn’t like. For example, he goes out drinking a lot, and he posts a lot of girls...

PiinkFalls

Xper 4 Age: 26

Break Up & Divorce

Should I ask my ex if he left me for another girl?

I was in a relationship with this guy 3 years ago. I thought he left me for another girl and I was most devastated by the fact that I thought we had something real. He broke my heart so badly. But I stalked the other...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when you see your ex’s name everywhere?

Hey so I had a situation-ship with someone I guess online for 1.5 years. We both really liked each other and we’re waiting for the border to open so we can officially date. we had an argument at the end of April and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Last time I post here just need some opinions here?

Hey guys last time I post here, she finally told me about the other guy, I told her I wish she just told me that from the beginning instead of saying she liked me still but wasn’t ready for a relationship. Wished her well...

Brokenheart14

Xper 4 Age: 31

Technology & Internet

Which social media site is the Worst of the Worst? Reddit or Twitter?

A response to this question I asked here. Both Twitter and Reddit have the absolute SHITTIEST communities on the entire internet. Both toxic userbases are pretty much identical in how childish they act and behave. But...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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I ended things with a guy after two months, was I right?

A bit of context I was with a guy for two months but he never made anything official with me in that time and never discussed even wanting to live with a partner as he is planning to get an apartment with his friend....

Mel2021

Xper 6 Age: 31

What benefits are there to having a relationship with a woman beyond sex?

I've been asked why I don't date before. My answer is always that I get everything I need out of a woman from meaningless sex, there isn't much else they can do for me. If I need a friend, chances are I'll be able to do...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Commitment issues or he’s just not that into me, orrr something else?

I have never been so confused on a relationship IN MY LIFE. Met a guy. Military. Started off sporadic dates, then onto vacationing trips, making future plans, relationship official. Now total we only dated for about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, why is it seen as a bad thing to cook for a man?

I’m single right now, but when I enter an official relationship, I’d love to make food for my boyfriend. I enjoy cooking and If I’m already making food for myself, why is it a problem to make food for him too?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Has anyone ever dated an avoidant person?

I dated a woman for almost 2 years that I think was an avoidant person. What do think? From the very beginning she would show some interest in getting to know me but then back off. After our first date I texted her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He said this about his ex and told me he misses her. Should I go?

We have been dating casually but admitting to liking each other. It’s been a year... he’s the first man I have been involved with so long I genuinely feel like he was my first love In an argument he jokingly said he...

anonbrunette99

Yoda Age: 27

Do you believe its right to be jealous of your partners past?

Im thinking about ending a relationship i’m in. We have been together for almost 2 years and our relationship has been 50/50 in the terms of beautiful and rocky. My partner has dug into my phone and went back into old...

Anonymous

(30-35)