Are shy girls flaky?

[Anonymous]

There's a really shy introverted girl I know that is extremely flaky. We've hung out once or twice and she's constantly agreeing to plans and cancelling last minute (twice now). Do I give her the benefit of the doubt?

[Pampee]

Twice? Ok, let her know you don't appreciate her canceling on you at last minute twice. Next time you talk to her ask her this "How's you schedule looking next week?" Exactly like that and don't add nothing else. She a pick a day and y'all go out. You plan everything out a week before so it won't be no confusion and if she cancel again at the last minute she's probably not interested.

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

Introverted shy people sometimes tend towards flakyness yes (I know I do). She might be fine once she gets over initial nerves though. Perhaps try something low stress until you are comfortable around eachother.

[Anonymous]

Most shy girls tend to be apprehensive and quite fearful in regards to relationships. So it could very well be that she likes you and wants to hang out w/ u, but her insecurities are getting the best of her. Some cases are like that.