I asked a white friend of mine this question out of sheer curiosity.
He said he's just unconditionally not physically attracted to Black Women.
It's odd. He's into pretty much every other ethnicity.
And his girlfriend is of Mexican descent.
The conversation went something like:
Me: "Curious inquiry. Why aren't you attracted to black women?"
Him: "I don't know. I've just never found them attractive. Too dark for me, I guess. I don't really know. I've never really pondered it."
Me: "That's understandable, although I have to take notice. I've seen you acknowledge attraction to significantly dark-skinned women of other non-black ethnic groups. Like darker than some lighter-skinned black women, but never any attraction to these light-skinned black women. Why is that? Do you think it has something to do with facial features?"
Him: "I don't even think it's that. Well, I don't know. It might be. I don't think I've ever really taken the time to observe the differences in the facial features of different ethnic groups and compare my attraction to each, you know? So I guess it's possible."
Me: "So then it's just kind of an instant unconscious write-off?"
Him: "Something like that, maybe. It's like I'm looking at girls in a group, but I'm not really checking out the black ones. It's like 'hmmm, black chick, that's cool', but my mind doesn't really wander any further."
Me: "So it's kind of like a generic, pre-programmed lack of interest?"
Him: "Yea, kinda. Like, I see a picture of Beyonce or someone and I can definitely appreciate the aesthetic beauty of her, but I don't just get the urge to go and do her."
I should probably also note that I'm pretty much his only black friend.
But that was about the extent of it.
There's little scientific insight you'll get into this inquiry without a vast demographic study.
Perhaps someone will answer with a bit more personal insight as opposed to 2nd-party.
Yea it seems like the white teen's perception of black teenage girls are clouded with the stereotype of being loud and obnoxious. Me personally, I couldn't care less about the color of a girl. To a white teenage guy, love mostly comes in the form of blonde and fair or tan skinned with big breasts. I couldn't care less about skin color, hair(just as long as it is a natural color), or the size of breasts. love comes in many different forms and ways. I am philipino tan guy so I'm not refering to white teenage guys as "us or we." You just need to meet a calm and queit guy that is much like u. I think that once you find a guy that has somewhat the same personality as you do, that you will fall for each other regardless of the stereotypes out there
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im brazilian and part italian. I sorry if you had bad experiences. maybe some of the boys you seen are immature or they may possibly be shyer then you to admit they like you. I like all sorts of girls. I like black, white, asian whatever. they all beutiful. black girls are VERY HOT, the very dark skin black girls are just as hot as any lighter skin girl. yes I find black skin girls very attractive like I can find any girl attractive.
some ideas for you to get them to like you. I don't really knwo the situation fully but just try to hang around with them more. right now they at a distance and when they your freinds they will be able to realise how hot you are.
good luck
I think white guys in general are intimidated by the stereotype of black girls (yes loud, violent, etc). Its to where they really don't even try to get to know them. At the same time the lighter skinned ones are seen as the attractive ones. This is prob why you can't get a white boyfriend or an asian boyfriend if that's what ur into.
Do some of the girls like caucasian boys?
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