Why gay men are usually nice but lesbian woman act like assholes?

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Lochlan · Accepted Answer

Why gay gays are 'usually' nice...: Homosexual men identify with an effeminate way of living such as not lifting heavy things, not fixing things, and not cooking outdoors. But, like women, are very conscious of social grace. So, this can range in behavior from gossip (which is where many women here are referring to their more brazen qualities) to warmhearted. The gay men I've come across have a great sense of humor and many are nerdy, which makes it easier for me to carry on a friendship in some way. Of course, there are exceptions... the main drawback to such an individual is unwelcome advances. Underneath it all, I resent a guy straight or otherwise who permits himself to have a poopdick.

Why lesbian 'woman' act like assholes...: They take on the personal qualities necessary to be interested in pursuing women without an expendability crisis that comes with being a man. Lesbians are touchy on the definition of sex and must defend their attraction, in order to do so, they are defensive/compensating in the realm of penetration, which may be why they are 'assholes' sometimes. They probably don't lift heavy things because they are without balls, wear plaid, and enjoy appearing androgynous. Of course, there are exceptions... I've never come across a lesbian that I didn't get along with. They're after the same thing I am, don't care if people think they're a bitch, and because of that quality, which is too few in heterosexual women, deal well with confrontation.

Remember though, all generalizations are in general invalid.

DreamConfections · Accepted Answer

Aside from hatred toward men it can do with affinity. I noticed, that in homo relationships were one person who is "woman", another one who is "man".

So you can meet a gay who has an affinity toward "woman", he'll be nice, kind, etc.
Also you can meet a lesbian who has an affinity toward "man", she'll act like one, more rough, I notice often very short haircut (like in army), she is more aggressive.

GirlScoutsRevenge · Accepted Answer

I've never had a random lesbian grab my tits or ass. Have had rather a few arguments with gay men who think its ok to grab a woman just because he likes to have sex with guys though, so my experience as a whole would be the opposite.

BellePepper · Accepted Answer

The lesbians I've known have consistently been some the nicest and generally awesome people I've ever met. Maybe it's something about your approach that's the problem.

justbanANNAz · Accepted Answer

#generalisation103  @pt1911

AleDeEurope · Answer

That's a stereotype. I do have to say that the gay men I've encountered are extremely nice, they're great people, but I haven't met a lesbian woman, so I can't tell.

crayven · Answer

Yeah curious... noticed that too... dunno why though. Maybe lesbians in their attempt to emulate a "man" are trying to act like they think men act and pick the most assholish aspects?

Climber · Answer

I only know nice lesbians and I climb ans sport with males without any asshole problem. So maybe you met the wrong ones or you have the wrong attitude.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm straight and specilneeds and when I played games like meez vside stardoll and went on a reading site called pulseit I used to get cyber bullied by lesbian bi and penisexual girls they weren't nice to me but when I meet gay guys on imvu and tumbler whattpad they were nice to me

LauraMarx · Answer

we are assholes to you specifically because you are a man :P we are very sweet to other lesbians!

Hello_Lemonz · Answer

I don't know.. I never met a rude gay or lesbian.. they are just chill in my eyes..  But, dude.. Regardless to any sexuality.. Everyone can be buttholes once in their life time.

I_am_repulsive · Answer

Well the gay guys you know are probably somewhat interested in you and hence why they are nice to you. I've hanged out with both gays an bi all together and most of them are just simply down to earth kind of people.

Anonymous · Answer

Lesbians tend to be extreme feminists. Gay guys are still dudes. Problem solved.

XNicholeMariex3 · Answer

Uh... I've met some pretty mean gay guys before... They can be really sassy and stuck up.

beinghandsome · Answer

A lot of them are bigots towards men. Pay them no attention if they are acting like a bitch and move on with your day.

kittykatbrat · Answer

As a bi grrrl who is "semi scene", I have experienced good and bad in both.

Anonymous · Answer

cause gay men got humbled by being constantly rejected by women when they were straight, but got in peace with it with time. lesbians on the other hand became lesbians cause they are manhaters (daddy issues etc) and they are costantly fueled by hatred... .

tomakievil · Answer

Vice versa Met more nice lesbians than gay men. But everyone has a different personality.

CantReallyBeCreative · Answer

Is it so? But ya they are a little rude to straight people.

RainbowFanGirl · Answer

I've met some asshole gay men, and some sweet lesbian people. I guess it all depends on the person.

Cam700 · Answer

Know a few of both gender, and they are all lovely, guess it's the people you've been around.

Anonymous · Answer

some straight men are jerks and deserving of dislike, and some lesbians are assholes and make snap judgments. this is the same answer no matter what two groups you might want to use to craft a similar question.

MadeInAmerica · Answer

I dont really see that however it may because they get hit on by men.

tayoker · Answer

Gays are women, lesbians are men... they just flipped the role

Anonymous · Answer

Gays are women, lesbians are men... they just flipped the role

grahamcracka · Answer

I'd say they are about the same just gay guys sound more... how should I say... fabulous?

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are trying to be "macho", while the guys are trying to be "feminine".

thatkaruguy · Answer

because they are against the man literally

Anonymous · Answer

I actually have noticed this a bit but thankfully my gay asshole of a brother balances things out.

zombiebabe · Answer

stop generalizing! it ain't true

Anonymous · Answer

Because lesbians try to act more masculine

Chick180 · Answer

Haven't noticed this.

Anonymous · Answer

Question of the year goes to Anonymous (25-29).

Chloekeli · Answer

its just great banter

lumos · Answer

Ahhh stereotypes.

Anonymous · Answer

i noticed that. especially the dyke bitches

tenofthepeaks · Answer

you're stupid...

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