Why do women treat gay guys so differently?

[Anonymous]

[mandyfire98]

Because they're not a threat. Less aggressive towards us. More likely to truly be our friends and not try to act like our friend just to try and sleep with us. Then complain about being in the friend zone when they never wanted to be friends at all.

Gay guys don't do any of that to us. We don't have to worry about them pulling shit because they aren't thinking with their dick.

[Asker]

Do you think they would sleep with you if you asked them?

[mandyfire98]

Absolutely not. They're gay. Like in the same bed, sleep? Nothing sexual?

[Still-alive]

"Do you think they would sleep with you if you asked them? "

lol this is a serious question?

[Asker]

You don't think a good portion of them are bi?
If you said to them "Come here, I want to suck you d***." You really expect they would say no?

[mandyfire98]

Gay men would absolutely say no.

Are you straight? Would you say no if a guy asked to suck your dick?

That's how a gay guy looks at it. Like a straight guy would view other men giving them head.

[Asker]

That's not the same. A better comparison might be: whether or not most men would do it with a lesbian, and the answer is, yes they would.

[Still-alive]

Lol so much insecurity and projection in his replies here

[Asker]

@Still-alive Nice try. There's no need to try and attack me. Nothing insecure about asking a question.

[Still-alive]

lol sure 'just asking questions'

why do you need gay people to be bi so bad? why can't they just be gay?

[Asker]

@Still-alive I'm not trying to portray anyone as anything. I'm trying to understand the situation and this requires exploring the nuance. Assuming that there are no gay people who might actually be bisexual, that is called black and white thinking, and is a sign that there is more to the situation to be discovered.

What do you think?

From your perspective, what percentage of gay men do you believe have slept with a woman? (Studies I have read say about 40%).

What percentage of gay men would refuse sex with an attractive woman?

I'm interested in your thoughts on this.

[Still-alive]

nope not engaging with this. you are a troll. im outta here

[Asker]

@Still-alive Back to attacking me? Okay. See ya!

[Asker]

@Still-alive It's very conspicuous that you can't answer these simple questions.

[mandyfire98]

Gay people aren't bisexual. Bisexual people are bisexual.
Gay men do not under any circumstances want to do anything sexual at all with women. Not one bit.

You asked about GAY men in your question. Not bisexual men.

My answer is coming from a woman who has gay friends and also bisexual friends.
I am bisexual, myself. Gay guys don't talk to me or treat me the same as bisexual men do. Totally different energy completely.

[Asker]

You are absolutely kidding yourself if you believe that there are no gay men that develop feelings for women or eventually become bisexual. I understand that gay men don't pursue you. I'm sure that makes them feel less threatening. But how many of your gay friends would refuse sex with you if you slid into bed with them and offered? That is the question.

www.theguardian.com/.../gay-man-attracted-to-women
www.vice.com/.../

On a side note: I do apologize if any of my earlier comments came across as disrespectful. Not what I meant.

[Likes2drive]

Like their girlfriends I guess since they are not interested in them sexually

[laraWM]

I don't think I do

[Asker]

People do a lot of things they are not directly aware of.

[laraWM]

Yes I guess so but I can't relate

[chilldude33]

They are "one of the girls"

[jahaims]

Because they aren't trying to fuck them obviously

[Abbycado]

We do?

[Asker]

Yes.

[Asker]

www.psychologicalscience.org/.../...-suggests.html

[Abbycado]

Well boo hoo for you I guess. I’m going to mute this dumb post because it’s obvious you’re looking to start shit.

[Asker]

Okay, then. Didn't mean to trigger you.