Question for the girls who wear mini skirts but don't like guys looking at their legs

[Anonymous]

OK so why wear such revealing clothes if you don't want guys checking you out . its sort of spring here and the girls are starting to wear more revealing clothes I have noticed . I'd had a couple encounters with girls wearing mini skirts that has made me wonder . the first one I saw at the college library , was a cute blonde and she had really nice legs but she seemed uncomfortable that I was checking her out in that area . then I saw a group of girls at bus stop last night and this blonde had on a really thin flower skirt that was revealing and as expected didn't like it much that I checked her out . but she was showing a lot of skin so what did she expect and she was hot as well . I don't get some of these girls why show so much of your legs , thighs if you don't want people checking it out ? anyways these girls should be proud of there body not uncomfortable to show it off

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+1 y

wow this question is getting about as much attention as the hot blonde in the mini skirt I saw yesterday

[bnwsmile]

Just gonna toss you some definitions to get more clarification for these girls you're check out..

Look: to make use of the sense of sight; to see.

Stare: to look fixedly at usually longer than a look

Gawk: to stare stupidly

Ogle: to keep looking (at) boldly and with obvious desire; make eyes (at)

These are all different.

Put yourself in a woman's situation. With the things you hear about crimes involving rape etc, if someone is Staring, Gawking, and/or Ogling at you while you're wearing something comfortable (yet flattering) how would you feel as a woman if you didn't know the person that was staring at you? Do you wonder if they have ill intentions or if they just think you look nice and they're attracted to you?

Women DO wear clothes to get attention but there is a line here. If I want sexual attention I will dress provocatively with a low cut top, bright colors, a sexy up do, tight around my bottom yet showing how sexy my legs are as well. IF I'm wearing this then yes I want attention.

HOWEVER, If I'm in a thigh length skirt, paired with a conservative top, and flats then it means I'm trying to look nice for my job, for a meeting, to go on a date, to just in general wear something that fits for the occasion.

Place is also a factor. If I see some guy I don't know checking me out in a club yeah that's cool. If I'm in a parking lot and he's checking me out on the way to my car then that freaks me out and I get paranoid thinking if he's going to follow me.

Now onto looks. No woman is going to mind if some drop dead incredibly sexy man is checking her out. Same with guys... If a REALLY hot chick is checking you out no matter where it is you're going to be cool with that.

What if the person is mildly unattractive or incredibly unattractive to you? You're probably going to wish they just went away and you'll want them to stop checking you out because there is that feeling of "unworthiness" so to speak.

That being said it's a tough call for your situation. It really depends on how you were looking at these ppl, the time of day, and where it was.

I hope this helps!

Bnwsmile

[Bruce]

Unworthiness..........huh ?..............Oh................I see it depends on just WHOM is checking you out.

[GIntrovert]

Exactly bruce. Men are expected to read their minds, and only check her out if she likes him.

[Misadventures]

Actually, ALL men are expected to check out the hot girl in the mini skirt (she needs that ego boost) but only the ones she finds attreactive are allowed to approach her (because hot guys are mind readers and less-than-hot guys should know their place in the food chain, obviously)

God help you if you don't know what classification you are. Girls are vicious, and the mini-skirted variety are the most dangerous of all.

[bnwsmile]

Perhaps unworthiness was a bad choice of wording. However, like I stated before if you're not attracted to someone and you don't know that person AND he's going overboard with his gawking then YES it will make that woman uncomfortable. It's not JUST not being attracted to that person. It is a variety of things that can make someone feel awkward in this situation. Stop being closed minded and know that it all was said to form a bigger picture.

[Bruce]

'you can't always get what you want" .....the guys you want to look don't look......."But if you try sometimes you might get what you need"..........there is probably a message there........if you don't get checked out by the 'hot' guys.............you are probably not as "hot" as the "hot girl" you see in your mirror............EVERYBODY has an ego........and women who believe they are the 'hottest" woman going,,,are the ones that get dumped on the most.

[bnwsmile]

Bruce, you're looking too deep into what I said and missing what I had actually meant. Read my answer to this question: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/Relationships-Questions/184393-is-it-true-that-every-relationship-has-a-settler.html Hope that helps with my choosing of the word, 'unworthy'.

[Subotai]

Thats the hypocrisy that p*sses me off a hot guy looking is cool. A guy you don't find attractive is a total dog. Just think about how horrible that sounds. What about older men are they creeper lower beings than young toned guys. If you dress provocatively you make it hard not to look. What about that boy in a wheelchair or the boy who just has terrible acne. He is not allowed to be a sexual being but mr hunky prep football player you'd arch your back and stick ur boobs in his face

[bnwsmile]

Lol.. I was defining possibly WHY she was giving him a weird look because he was looking at her. I said nothing about someone of age or in a wheelchair...... ......

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of girls who wear revealing clothes because they do want the attention but not every girl is the same, these girls you are talking about may be "hot" but it's uncomfortable when boys just stand there and goggle at you as if your a piece of meat, deep down we may appreciate it but we wear clothes what we feel comfortable in as well as what's new out in the fashion. I'm a girl my self and I'm quite heavily busted I used to wear revealing tops and dresses, not to get the boys attention but because I liked the style of it, sometimes I used it to my advantage but trust me when a boy stands there and goggles at you it's really uncomfortable. You should just try the suttle approach next time, if you like the way a girl looks have sneaky looks don't make it obvious unless she makes it obvious she's checkin you out as well. My boyfriend asks me the same question, he goes nuts if I'm showing a little bit of cleavage and asks stuff like why you wearing that, do you want boys to stare at you? It's like your saying just because we have breast or nice legs we can't wear the clothes we want to because if we do it means we want attention it's not about that at all it's just what we feel comfortable in.

[kereru]

it often comes across as negative attention, because it makes you feel like you re advertsing something, or giving them a message, that you re not.

I lived in scandanavia for a year, and their they re a lot more relaxed about nudity in general, like families will take saunas naked together there, and its not big deal, and at first I was completely freaked out by it, and thought it was weird and gross and wrong, but once you adjust you realize that its our culture that's more f***ed up about these things.

its just a cultural hang up we have about how much flesh you show and what it means etc. a hindred years ago and still in some countries today wearing a skirt above your ankles would make guys stare...

[DustBallKid]

It's all about the direction of advertisement, per-say that's how I look at situations like this. So a cute girl is walking down the street or in your case the library or bus stop even go so far as a restaurant movies starbucks everywhere. Before you go checking her out so you don't creep her out. Scan the area for a guy she is particularly talking or flirting even inadvertently flirting with a guy. Chances are she would wear something like that for him just pay attention for that link. That's one of the possibility's

She maybe was uncomfortable on how you were checking her out maybe a glance that lasted two seconds to long. But it is important to look and give a smile a wave something nice and friendly sometimes you can break into a nice convo. Getting a number out of getting caught is always fun I think.

And lastly maybe she was looking for a certain type a guy. She might be looking for that muscle meat head or a richy rich. Guys can never really know how or why some women do this but sometimes it could be as simple as her wanting to feel sexy or cute after all it is nice weather out why not be comfortable?

[frankadu]

Prevention is better than cure. If a girl doesn't feel comfortable being checked out, then why wearing such revealing clothes?

I am sure that if a "hot" guy passes by wearing boxers, for example, the girls would definitely be checking him out. What makes you any different? All I know is it's natural for a guy to be physically attracted to a girl and vice versa, and if a girl doesn't want/or like to be checked out, then she should cover her body because it's inevitable that guys will definitely be staring at her legs. The problem is, girls have double standards. They are allowed to do what ever they want, but guys are not...

some of the girls said that if you are not hot, you got to know where you stand and do not approach a hot girl... I think that shows insecurity! They didn't create themselves that way (ugly) it's not their fault that they don't look like your dream guy... and also "is it better for you to be approachable to a "HOT" guy that is a for example serial killer, or an "UGLY" guy that is nice and respectful?

[aaroni666]

Women just have to learn there is literally nothing we can do about the staring. I have an ability to restrain myself but now I think about it, it must be a super power or I am going to develop a tumor from it. I am embarrassed to hang around my friends as they can't help but just gorp but I don't blame them. You have no idea what bare skin does to our brains, it literally scrambles them. It is really funny, especially living in England, all the girls are covered up during the colder seasons and then summer comes and suddenly there are beautiful women around everywhere and it drives us mental. If you see a bunch of guys just driving around in your town in the summer its because underneath their excuse of 'its a nice day for a drive' they're just looking to see girls in skirts. Its just how our brains work. We wouldn't know what to do with you but we do enjoy the excitement. You make us bark, chase our tails and jump up and down but that is when the dog metaphors end though as we don't wet ourselves in the excitement.

I tried so hard for many years to be one of those restrained nice guys you always see 'get the girl' in the romantic comedies. But those films are never an accurate portrayal of how much a nice guy masturbates over all his missed opportunities because he traded in being alpha male for being a gentleman. 'Something about Mary' must have been the closest representation to reality that is of course because it is the only film I can think of off the top of my head that has a masturbation scene in it.

In short - if you're uncomfortable with being stared at because your vagina is 2 inches from sun light then I'd suggest wearing a more traditional skirt. If you're unsure on what to wear to cover up ask your Dad for some advice.

[prepster25]

okay okay. here's what it is. I'm sorry, but I'm going to be blunt. I KNOW that guys will check me out when I wear shorts or skirts just like how I check guys out at the gym. but here's the thing. I don't mind guys checking me out if he is either hot or cute. but I DO mind if that guy is either ugly, not around my age, or is jus HURT. see? blunt. but that's my opinion. its the same if lets say you were at the gym with your shirt off and this ugly fat girl is checking you out. and your thinking I'm shallow?

[miki94]

That's easy. Women want you to look at them. ANY woman is complimented if she gets the guys to look at her.

Now the fact that you might be overdoing it with the staring could make them uncomfortable but, the fact that you looked in the first place counts, and they will continue to wear it because of the "results" they got, even if that result isn't always comfortable. It's still complimenting.

[jdcpa]

Best answer..

[DIPEPDINGOLD]

Ok, yea...women we want to show off our body and usually we are comfortable as we put on a cute skintight dress or mini skirt-- because most of the time...our main goal is to look nice/feel good about our appearance and maybe attract a hot guy or two...BUT NOT...have OLD ass, UGLY ass mother fo's gawking at us. *I'm not reguarding this to you--so don't get offended* But it does come a bit uncomfortable when guys are just staring and staring and staring...at least say "Hi" or something. Its creepy...Its like if a guy gets dressed and ugly FAT girls are just staring at him---If you were that guy...you would feel uncomfortable also...

[tastingray]

Harsh. but thank you, in so many words you've expressed the awkwardness of being checked out for an unnessacary amount of extended time by old creepy farts who shouldn't be looking at you in the first place.

[GIntrovert]

You don't get to choose who looks at you or not, that's not how it works.

[DIPEPDINGOLD]

@glntrovert... I don't remember typing that--hmmm...maybe because I didn't. Yes, we all have eyes...and they are made for "looking" NOT staring. It gets creepy...just my opinion. Don't like it...close your eyes...that's all I can tell YOU. =)

[aiight]

My thoughts exactly.

[edgar334]

Try a new method of getting guys attention. lol I probably sound gay saying that. but I feel for the unattractive guys ( maybe myself when I used to be chunky) . but yea I never make it obvious when I look at woman. I am like a ninja :)

[DIPEPDINGOLD]

OK @edgar....I'm kind of confused but anyways...lol...there are many ways to get a guy or in your case a girls attention. It's 50% Appearence...40% Personality and 10% of something else...I guess...whatever

[masterofthegame]

I think the women are telling you enough . They are telling you to no do this so stop doing it. Eye contact is where it starts and for a women it's one of the most important things. So I would say instead of concentrating on her legs . Just look once at her and keep eye contact. Looking to her body to much gives wrong impression so the best is to keep eye contact and it is the safest to.

I noticed btw the best trick is to look and hold eye contact for 3 seconds after 3 seconds you should start to laugh or you will look like a creep or emotionless person. Oh and last thing after the 3 seconds the girl is most likely to laugh so it's a easy . And from there you go on . But remember don't look to her like a object but look to her face ;).

[Tamikaze]

No girl wants you staring at her or looking her up and down. Unfortunately girls get confused thinking that showing off their bodies will get guys interested in them as a potential date and girlfriend. Instead, it usually gets guys staring and drooling and making rude comments, and that is not exactly boyfriend material.

I personally tell girls that guys can figure out you have a hot bod without showing a lot of skin. I like dressing sexy but I have a boyfriend and I am in no need of toning it down so that I only attract sincere guys who want to get to know me, instead of my legs.

[Subotai]

You gotta admit girls who dress like that and don't want them staring are either dumb or enjoy being mean. Its hard not to look and you really can't get mad when guys you don't find attractive and aren't the target of these lures look too

[Tamikaze]

I will admit they are clueless to what it feels like to have a testosterone drive sex-drive. Girls are also fed a line of B.S. that says it's great to have as much male attention as you can get so they dress like hoochies with the misguided idea that more male attention means you will get a great boyfriend. Also, no one says you have to stare. Even I look at a what other women are wearing but I am not obvious. A casual glance should not cause a girl to get mad.

[OceanLover]

girls like to get the attention of guys that they're attracted to.. but what they don't realize is, they're also getting the attention of pretty much every creep around them.

and dude... don't stare. it's rude. you can look and admire but don't glare at them. that makes them uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

revealing clothes are what is in style. if you go to any major store that young women shop at, you are gonna find mini skirts and short dresses and small shorts in the summer months. its very rare to find covered up clothes. and if its warm weather do you really expect us to wear sweat pants and jeans just so we don't get looked at? also if you are gawking at her or looking up her dress and being extreme about it you're in the wrong. you were probably crossing the line. a lot of guys check girls out but there are a few creeps that make you uncomfortable. we shouldnt have to wear burqas like we're in some muslim country just because we don't wanna deal with a pervert! have some respect its not like you want some random stranger staring holes into your legs

[Asker]

Yeah for sure revealing clothes is in style , its pretty sexy at the moment . although I'm not sure its revealing as a few years as when I was in college back in 2005-6 I remember a lot of low rise jeans that were revealing and mini shirts ( bare stomach area ) of a few years back as well

[kellylizzz]

I think it's stupid when girls wear stuff like that and are shocked when guys check them out. I wear sh*t like that all the time, just because I hate pants, but I know guys are going to look. That's fine, look all you want. I HATE when like, 65 year old men stop their feaking cars though, it creeps me out. I mainly dislike when older guys get really creepy about checking me out. Especially when they're driving. I swear to God, I hope one of them crashes someday because they're looking at jailbait rather than the road. But anyways, yeah, if you whenever I wear sIuttier clothing, I am not annoyed when guys look. It's my fault I'm putting it out there, and I enjoy showing off what I have. That's kind of bad , though, because then everyone thinks you're a whore. That's another topic entirely though...

[Naruto-Chan]

I don't really understand it either. And I'm a female... What I wear depends on my mood.. If I'm flirty I wear more revealing clothes, but most of the time, even if its really really hot like it tends to get where I live, I wear jeans, t shirts or long sleeve shirts and jackets.. Heh. I guess I'm not most girls. I don't care what's in style, and I hate it when they wear revealing clothes and yet blame guys for staring. It makes no sense. If they're uncomfortable with it, they should put clothes on, not jeans or anything, there are cool clothes that are not that revealing.

[m1988]

I don't have a problem showing off my legs cause I think they are my best feature =D and I like guys checking me out, sometimes though... they just give you this creepy perverted leer and it makes you wonder the sh*t they are thinking about you, a complete stranger. A nice little look up and down and smile is nice but when you get to that point it does make a person feel uncomfortable.

[voodoochild]

Damn right you have nice legs :p

[Meedo]

When you show your legs? what do you think guys are thinking about ? In fact what do you think guys ever are thinking about ?!!!! Guys will ''Automatically'' think about feeling them and touching them and sex. This is not creepy , it is biology!!!

[Rahim517]

Better get used to the idea that men are thinking 'those thoughts.' We're all thinking them, every second of our lives. How in the hell do you think these 6 billion people got here?

[HaleyJo]

Even as a girl, I see your thoughts on this. I've never understood girls getting offended or whatever when guys stare when you're showing a lot of skin. A little uncomfortable I can understand since most people don't like feeling like a spotlight is on them, but you can't complain when you're the one who put the spotlight on yourself in the first place. It's always been a peeve of mine when I hear a girl complaining about getting leered at when she's about to fall out of her shirt. As advice to you, try not to be as obvious about it. Wouldn't you get a little uncomfortable if someone was openly staring at you? Even if it was flattering it would still feel like you're under the microscope, wouldn't it? You're not doing anything wrong since anything appealing will draw the eye, just no gawking.^-^

[LEWnB]

Ha, I don't mind at all! I don't show my legs off in a skirt for nothing! I'm tall, and I have athletic, tanned, toned legs. Why not show them off!?!?!?!? I like to know that men think my legs are sexy, so I don't mind at all about being checked out! Now if they stare for a long period of time, it gets a little creepy, just a head turner or a slight up and down is nice. =]

[micgirl]

Well, I know that a guy is going to check you out no matter what you wear and if it shows a little skin then it is just an invitation for him to. But I wear clothes like skirts, shorts, and shirts because they are comfortable, cute, and makes me look cute. But sometimes I just wished guys weren't so obvious with their staring. I mean if ur going to look, I don't want to know that you are looking. It can make you uncomfortable at times.

[Anonymous]

Totally agree! I hate the girls who complain about guys looking at them all creepy. It's like hello I can see your vagina/ass hanging out of your skirt/shorts or I can partially see your nipple coming out of your shirt. Like you said... what did you expect?! Dress like a hoe and you will be stared at like one in my opinion lol. Girls like that are just dying for attention in the wrong ways.

[komar100]

I think that in the back of each girl's mind, she wants to be checked out and appreciated, but may feel uncomfortable with guys staring at her in a very obvious way. So subconsciously, a girl will put on a mini skirt to show off what she's got, but if you want to look , be covert about it

[Allena9119]

you idiott its because like You said

its SPRING TIME

and girls get warm

so they wear not revealing but more COMFORTABLE clothing

they aren't all pornstars

just wishing that a loser like you will come along to check them out

so they can sleep at night saying THANK GOD THAT LOSER CHECKED ME OUT

OR ME WEARING A SKIRT WOULDVE BEEN TOTALLY POINTLESS

its so they are more comfy

I don't wear anything but short shorts and I notice perverts like you all the time

bleh

and I only wear them because I surf everyday an long jeans are very comfy when ur still wet and sandy...

[clovisx]

Perverts like who, every person who can appreciate a woman's legs? That's a pretty broad brush to paint people with. I hope that you are more tolerant of people than that. I could see that response if someone was leering at you and wouldn't leave you alone, but if you're wearing short shorts or a short skirt, chances are normal people will look. They aren't being pervy just observant and appreciative of your form.

[darkknight1x]

You spelled idiot wrong.

[leasha13r]

maybe because we like the way the skirt looks on us bbefore we step outside but once out an everybody starts starin at you in a weird way you might think they're lookin at you cos you look likkea freak...sometimes we don't read guy signals very well! also if you jus stare at us an don't say anythin it get annoyin cose ur hot, you think I look hot so get on with it an speak to me! stop lookin at me as if I'm a piece of nice lookin meat!

[Happyfeet]

Girls like to show off there legs and don't mind if guys look, but however it makes us feel uncomfortable when ugly guys check us out. Then it becomes creepy and we wish we hadn't worn something so revealing at all. If it's a cute guy checking us out, he can look however long he wants. ^_^* That's my opinion.

[justme999]

Kind of bitchy, no?

[WeaponZero]

You do realize you can't just get one KIND of guy to look, right?

[Happyfeet]

Yeah I know that, I'm not stupid. I just answered the question.

Bitchy? maybe, but it's how I feel when I wear skirts.

[xBlossomx]

LOL.

[someonee]

Maybe they don't want to be checked out, it's probably just hot or humid. Or maybe they want to look good but don't want to be "perved". I may be speculating, but that's how I would feel, from my point of view:). Hopefully no girls are offended by you taking a peek at their legs in the future.

xoxo Someonee.

[Tamikaze]

1. A glance and staring are two different things. Sneak a peek, don't stare.

2. The girls who don't like you looking at them are basically communicating that they are not attracted to you. It happens. I am sure the girls who are attracted to you will be more receptive to your attention.

[CubanRaftRider]

I always thought the stupidest thing was the mini skirt and snow boots combination. It doesn't look cute, it looks retarded.

[yasmine]

well it is hot out and just like you guys we don't wanna wear pants and a sweater, plus yeah guys will show there d*** to everyone and let everyone look, but if a girl did that she would be considered a huge whore, men are just "champs" we like to look nice and show off our legs and whateverr else were proud of, but it gets kinda annoying when men don't know how to respect a girl, youknow ?

[lvax06]

they want the attention but, not from certain guys. kind like you want a particular type of girls attention but if you act friendly and once you get attention from the type of girls you don't want.

take for example I have curly hair, lots of girls say they like it ,but I get big black girls that want to touch it. which is not the type I like.

[cougarman_uk]

Some girls are going to like being looked at, some aren't. If you look at a girl and she glares at you, so what? Just ignore the stuck-up b**ch and look at someone else.lol. That's life. There will always be the girl who appreciates the compliment of looking/staring whatever and gives you a little smile. Then everyone's happy. Life's too short to worry about these girls who think that every guy wants something from them just because they're getting an eyeful of what is after all, bare thighs on show. Grow up girls, and get over yourselves!

[HopeIessRomantik]

maybe it was *how* you were looking at her.. I mean , I agree, some girls (including myself) do wear skirts to draw attention to their legs, and I think every girl who does knows the implications of wearing a mini skirt.

I think, those who gave you a dirty look when you checked them out either a) thought you were looking a little too creepy, or b) have that innocent belief that wearing something revealing is not going to warrant any stares from anyone .. which I think is pretty silly. lol.

[jessi-rabbit08]

i might be one one of the only girls who agree with you but I do. Girls do it for attention. At times it might be because its hot but thereare fabrics that are cooler to wear without showing so much skin. I know because I lived in florida for 14years of my life and spent a lot of time in the sun. I stil go for summers.

[ziva123]

depends. If the dude checking you out is your age- it's ok, you should've seen it coming, and be at peace with it. However- if a 50 year old "checks you out" in an inapropriate way- I'd say its .. well.. gross?

[-StillWater-]

Hell yes!

EXACTLY!

[LEWnB]

But, men are men, aren't they? Doesn't matter what age, they're still going to check out a good looking woman. =|

[ziva123]

Doesn't matter. Biologically speaking- men should not be checking out girls that are young enough to be their daughters.

[Meedo]

That just shows that girls have no clue about men!! MEN are MEN! Biologically a 70 year old man can mate with you and get a baby !!! If you want to talk ''Biological''!!

For girls out there ... men .. all men... that have an ounce of lust no matter what age they are will check you out!! Don't be surprised if a 70 year old checks out an 18 year old!!!

[ziva123]

Meedo: Actually, you're wrong. Recent tests reveal that men that old does not USUALLY check out girls half, maybe 3 times younger than them, there's some bitchload of biology in that picture, don't remember it all, but I'll find a link, but I DO remember there's a proven genetic flaw with people mating with people way younger than themselves.

[Rahim517]

That's funny. You have a very childish understanding of sexuality. Men in their 50s will check out any and all sexually attractive women. If a woman is of age, there is very little that is 'inappropriate' about it. You may not be attracted to the guy, but a man will look nonetheless. Just a part of life.

[Cupcakegurl]

Okay you can look but don't stare its so annogying I walked into this stored today and this guy was just staring at me like I was still walking around and he got closer and was still staring now that is what I call creepy I told him to take a picture all ready and he just stopped looking

[shf84]

I don't know why that is. When I wear tights girls stare the do little dances as they walk toward me to lear, they sneak pics with their cell phones the talk about me having "legs up to here" plenty loudly enough for me to hear it. I like attention and I figure their women they have a right to be interested in men but these girls do get a little crazy with it and I wouldn't be surprised if they were some of the same ones that get offended if a guy looks at them in a mini skirt.

[doubleoh]

It's just the way society raised them up to be, even though they won't admit it. Comfortable? You don't see cowboys in Texas wearing anything but jeans in that f***ing furnace. Give me a break. But I won't complain, I like eye-candy.

That whole skirt/Ugg combination p*sses me the f*** off though,

[bnwsmile]

You do know what cowboys did most of the day right? Riding horses and herding cattle. Try riding a horse for 8+ hours a day having their ticks, fleas, and course hair rubbing against your skin. They wore hats to keep the sun off of their head and pants to protect them from long grass, the suns rays, and course hair. They wore them for functionality. Get your facts straight. We do wear things for comfort too but unlike guys we like to look good at the same time. Sweat pants and a beater? ... lol

[doubleoh]

Mhm... right.. is that so?

[littlepig2002]

I love the skirt/ugg combo that women wear.

[Anonymous]

I'm a girl and I never understood these girls as well. Why would you want to flaunt it and be so defensive and uncomfortable when someone stares at you, they should be proud of their legs! I personally like my calves and I'd wear skirts that show them off sometimes, if people stare, so be it I guess. ;)

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Because short skirts are in style. I don't care if guys like it or not, Its just creepy when random guys act like pervs around you. I don't care if guys check me out, I just don't want them to be ovious about it.

[Asker]

Don't want them to be obvivous about it ? how I'm I suppose to look at a girl and make it not obvivous ?

[KERMlT]

It depends on what part of a female you like to look at. Ass men have it easy. My buddy turns the other way before a girl walks past as if he heard his name called. Then he just watches her walk away. Me, I'm into boobs which is the most dangerous of desires. You get eye daggers if you aren't careful. Sunglasses help sometimes.

The mini-skirt thing usually isn't for me though. The women I like are average (size 14 -16) and probably wouldn't wear that. I like em in sweatpants. :-P~~

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

You just do quick glances when she isn't looking, be subtle. Like if you stare and drool like a pig she will mind. like one time durring lunch I was wearing a mini skirt and some creeper said "nice ass" that sure p*ssed me off. Some times girls wear clothes like that when they want to get a guy's attention like if they find that the guy they like is a boob guy they wear low cut shirts.

[mxgurl]

Some women dress for confidence and to get attention. Its only feels comfortable to have a guy stare at you like that when you out on the town, but in a library- that could be kinda creepy. Its nice to have a guy check you out, but never droll.

[Anonymous]

Girls will wear what they will wear, but maybe you should ask a friend if your checking out actually comes across as leering or just outright staring. If you are just staring at the chick without blinking or have a creepy smile on your face, of course she's gonna get nervous. Campus is also a place with really high incidents of sexual assualt, so a girl can't be toooo careful when it comes to that kind of thing.

If you aren't leering or anything, maybe they are just bitchy. Who knows.

[Asker]

I don't think there has been any sexual assualts at my campus during the time I have been here , it seems pretty safe

[Eloquencia]

This isn't everyone, but half the time when girls get dressed, they are extremelly unsure whether they feel comfortable or confident in their outfit. So when I guy checks them out, they aren't sure if he thinks its ugly or that she's hot. And since we're women, we almost never assume the latter.

[rawan]

of course it's for style or in summer it's so hot and you know girls would do any thing for fashion and not all girls wear revealing outfits just to empress guys. and you know girls judge the girl outfit in seconds just while she cross the street

in general almost every girl wear reveling outfit doesn't mind if guys check her out

[Anonymous]

Not only that...but they wear skirts/ dresses up to their thighs,and THEN go bare legged at that...! Nothing looks worse than some girl showing a lot of leg and acts naive...than one showing a lot of pasty, white, bare legs...Geeze,...please put on some hose...ladies

[Anonymous]

there's a difference between looking/admiring and leering and I think you crossed the line

[Asker]

Well she was the one showing off her sexy body , she didn't leave much to the imagination

[Opinion Owner]

Did your mother ever tell you not to stare? it's not polite. like I said, there's a fine line between admiring a girl's body and leering at her body. you were leering, therefore she found it offensive.

[prettyeyes12]

I fell you because I get so sickand tired of hearing females talk about how they hate for guys to stare at them but they are dressed like hookers. If you have all you butt and breast hanging out then it's only natural for a man to stare. A female can cover up and still be fashionable but at the end of the day those females just want any kind of attention they can have because somehwere they hate something about themselves.

[lindseyholtz]

its hot so you gatta wear that type of stuff but if yor starring without saying anything to them its seems pervertede either complement them or keep your eyes off.

[Asker]

You think the blonde would really want me to compliment her on her legs and thigh area ? I don't see that one going over well

[Tamikaze]

I totally disagree with the idea that because it is hot you have to wear a mini skirt or short shorts. You don't. Go to Latin American countries where it is constantly hot. I see a lot of conservative dressing going on, a lot. Men are still wearing suits, women wear longer skirts. There are a lot of cultures where dressing skimpily is just not done.

[useranonymous]

there's "aw, I'm flattered that this guy is checking me out" and there's "where's my mace and how do I get a restraining order?"

If creepy guys look or guys look too long, girls sort of start to get freaked out.

[hesaysim2sexy]

well, we can wear anything we want and what we feel to wear. but we definitely do not like it when guys drool or their mouths gape open seeing us like that. its ok to turn necks but hey please cover your mouth. lol

[mdanley76]

ok either its hot outside, she likes to dress that way but doesn't want guys checking her out all the time, she's not uncomfortable..she just looks that way or she secretly likes the attention but is trying to cover it up :/

[cant_knock_me_down]

girls are very insecure and it can be scary to know someone is checking you out also girls don't want to feel like a slut and many times you do when a guy is looking at you in a certain way

[Reeses-pieces777]

I'm fine with guys looking at me but if they start whistling & oggling (there is a difference)-for the latter, I'm not ok.

[Asker]

I don't ever make noises at them , I do like to look at them

[mitsy]

I don't know any girl comfortable with there body. There is always something that could be better about them. But yes girls wear those clothes to get checked out but we want you to do it secretly

[Hikaruchan]

The reason might be because they're scared you might rape them? Maybe they wanted to feel comfortable or wear something quick? Maybe they just like attention just not undivided attention.

[Mirandalyn]

Because it's not really comfortable to coverup completely expecially because of what you said, it's spring but that does NOT give men a free looksy. That's not why we wear them, we wear them because it's comfortable and unlike men, BECAUSE of men, we can't take our shirts off like you. So excuse us for getting comfortable and not wanting to get stalked everywhere by gawking men.

And also we don't want men gawking at us beceause most men act on it and commit rape.

[Birgitta89]

But still you KNOW... men ARE ALWAYS going to look if you wear clothes like that and if girls don't like that they need to dress differently in my opinion.. and I'm pretty sure they like the attention.

[irishgal]

we sometimes just want you to do it without making it obvious! And we don't just wear them for other ppl. It's sometimes bcos we're making a statement about how we feel that day.

[pateyn1978]

I think a girl should have confidence in herself. and if she does then it don't matter what she shows off as long as it is reason. If I were a guy I much rather have a confident girl than one that hides behind a mask per say. Being confident shows she is happy with who she is . and I think that's important. A lot of times males down girls so much, it crumbles their confidence in themselves.

[Jake_W]

I agree with question asker. It's BS. If you don't like being checked out then don't dress that way.

[The_Box]

The only reason a girl doesn't want a guy checking her out is if he's creepy, basically if he's not attractive.

[Marrryyyyy]

the point of wearing mini skirts is to show off your legs..so the girl just probaby wanted to seem more innocent

[lisa16]

I think most girls know if they wear a mini skirt, that guys are going to check them out. It is creepy if you just sit and stare at them.

[larry69]

Just because a female dresses provacatively Men have no right to look..Unfortunately women feel uncomfortable and as men we must keep out eyes to our selves..but if women look and stare and grab men its mostly ok...so its a double standard!

[voodoochild]

They do want attention. The just don't want your attention.

[BoyWithaToy]

Well lets make it simple, comfortable to wear but, not for you to stare!

[bwachauer]

I agree immodest girls can't complain about being LOOKED at.

[MsNikki_Nicole]

its a style if long skirts came back that's what you would see