1. A glance and staring are two different things. Sneak a peek, don't stare.
2. The girls who don't like you looking at them are basically communicating that they are not attracted to you. It happens. I am sure the girls who are attracted to you will be more receptive to your attention.
well it is hot out and just like you guys we don't wanna wear pants and a sweater, plus yeah guys will show there d*** to everyone and let everyone look, but if a girl did that she would be considered a huge whore, men are just "champs" we like to look nice and show off our legs and whateverr else were proud of, but it gets kinda annoying when men don't know how to respect a girl, youknow ?
they want the attention but, not from certain guys. kind like you want a particular type of girls attention but if you act friendly and once you get attention from the type of girls you don't want.
take for example I have curly hair, lots of girls say they like it ,but I get big black girls that want to touch it. which is not the type I like.
Some girls are going to like being looked at, some aren't. If you look at a girl and she glares at you, so what? Just ignore the stuck-up b**ch and look at someone else.lol. That's life. There will always be the girl who appreciates the compliment of looking/staring whatever and gives you a little smile. Then everyone's happy. Life's too short to worry about these girls who think that every guy wants something from them just because they're getting an eyeful of what is after all, bare thighs on show. Grow up girls, and get over yourselves!
maybe it was *how* you were looking at her.. I mean , I agree, some girls (including myself) do wear skirts to draw attention to their legs, and I think every girl who does knows the implications of wearing a mini skirt.
I think, those who gave you a dirty look when you checked them out either a) thought you were looking a little too creepy, or b) have that innocent belief that wearing something revealing is not going to warrant any stares from anyone .. which I think is pretty silly. lol.
i might be one one of the only girls who agree with you but I do. Girls do it for attention. At times it might be because its hot but thereare fabrics that are cooler to wear without showing so much skin. I know because I lived in florida for 14years of my life and spent a lot of time in the sun. I stil go for summers.
depends. If the dude checking you out is your age- it's ok, you should've seen it coming, and be at peace with it. However- if a 50 year old "checks you out" in an inapropriate way- I'd say its .. well.. gross?
That just shows that girls have no clue about men!! MEN are MEN! Biologically a 70 year old man can mate with you and get a baby !!! If you want to talk ''Biological''!!
For girls out there ... men .. all men... that have an ounce of lust no matter what age they are will check you out!! Don't be surprised if a 70 year old checks out an 18 year old!!!
Meedo: Actually, you're wrong. Recent tests reveal that men that old does not USUALLY check out girls half, maybe 3 times younger than them, there's some bitchload of biology in that picture, don't remember it all, but I'll find a link, but I DO remember there's a proven genetic flaw with people mating with people way younger than themselves.
That's funny. You have a very childish understanding of sexuality. Men in their 50s will check out any and all sexually attractive women. If a woman is of age, there is very little that is 'inappropriate' about it. You may not be attracted to the guy, but a man will look nonetheless. Just a part of life.
Okay you can look but don't stare its so annogying I walked into this stored today and this guy was just staring at me like I was still walking around and he got closer and was still staring now that is what I call creepy I told him to take a picture all ready and he just stopped looking
I don't know why that is. When I wear tights girls stare the do little dances as they walk toward me to lear, they sneak pics with their cell phones the talk about me having "legs up to here" plenty loudly enough for me to hear it. I like attention and I figure their women they have a right to be interested in men but these girls do get a little crazy with it and I wouldn't be surprised if they were some of the same ones that get offended if a guy looks at them in a mini skirt.
It's just the way society raised them up to be, even though they won't admit it. Comfortable? You don't see cowboys in Texas wearing anything but jeans in that f***ing furnace. Give me a break. But I won't complain, I like eye-candy.
That whole skirt/Ugg combination p*sses me the f*** off though,
You do know what cowboys did most of the day right? Riding horses and herding cattle. Try riding a horse for 8+ hours a day having their ticks, fleas, and course hair rubbing against your skin. They wore hats to keep the sun off of their head and pants to protect them from long grass, the suns rays, and course hair. They wore them for functionality. Get your facts straight. We do wear things for comfort too but unlike guys we like to look good at the same time. Sweat pants and a beater? ... lol
I'm a girl and I never understood these girls as well. Why would you want to flaunt it and be so defensive and uncomfortable when someone stares at you, they should be proud of their legs! I personally like my calves and I'd wear skirts that show them off sometimes, if people stare, so be it I guess. ;)
Because short skirts are in style. I don't care if guys like it or not, Its just creepy when random guys act like pervs around you. I don't care if guys check me out, I just don't want them to be ovious about it.
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Don't want them to be obvivous about it ? how I'm I suppose to look at a girl and make it not obvivous ?
It depends on what part of a female you like to look at. Ass men have it easy. My buddy turns the other way before a girl walks past as if he heard his name called. Then he just watches her walk away. Me, I'm into boobs which is the most dangerous of desires. You get eye daggers if you aren't careful. Sunglasses help sometimes.
The mini-skirt thing usually isn't for me though. The women I like are average (size 14 -16) and probably wouldn't wear that. I like em in sweatpants. :-P~~
You just do quick glances when she isn't looking, be subtle. Like if you stare and drool like a pig she will mind. like one time durring lunch I was wearing a mini skirt and some creeper said "nice ass" that sure p*ssed me off. Some times girls wear clothes like that when they want to get a guy's attention like if they find that the guy they like is a boob guy they wear low cut shirts.
Some women dress for confidence and to get attention. Its only feels comfortable to have a guy stare at you like that when you out on the town, but in a library- that could be kinda creepy. Its nice to have a guy check you out, but never droll.
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Girls will wear what they will wear, but maybe you should ask a friend if your checking out actually comes across as leering or just outright staring. If you are just staring at the chick without blinking or have a creepy smile on your face, of course she's gonna get nervous. Campus is also a place with really high incidents of sexual assualt, so a girl can't be toooo careful when it comes to that kind of thing.
If you aren't leering or anything, maybe they are just bitchy. Who knows.
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I don't think there has been any sexual assualts at my campus during the time I have been here , it seems pretty safe
This isn't everyone, but half the time when girls get dressed, they are extremelly unsure whether they feel comfortable or confident in their outfit. So when I guy checks them out, they aren't sure if he thinks its ugly or that she's hot. And since we're women, we almost never assume the latter.
of course it's for style or in summer it's so hot and you know girls would do any thing for fashion and not all girls wear revealing outfits just to empress guys. and you know girls judge the girl outfit in seconds just while she cross the street
in general almost every girl wear reveling outfit doesn't mind if guys check her out
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Not only that...but they wear skirts/ dresses up to their thighs,and THEN go bare legged at that...! Nothing looks worse than some girl showing a lot of leg and acts naive...than one showing a lot of pasty, white, bare legs...Geeze,...please put on some hose...ladies
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there's a difference between looking/admiring and leering and I think you crossed the line
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Well she was the one showing off her sexy body , she didn't leave much to the imagination
Did your mother ever tell you not to stare? it's not polite. like I said, there's a fine line between admiring a girl's body and leering at her body. you were leering, therefore she found it offensive.
I fell you because I get so sickand tired of hearing females talk about how they hate for guys to stare at them but they are dressed like hookers. If you have all you butt and breast hanging out then it's only natural for a man to stare. A female can cover up and still be fashionable but at the end of the day those females just want any kind of attention they can have because somehwere they hate something about themselves.
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1. A glance and staring are two different things. Sneak a peek, don't stare.
2. The girls who don't like you looking at them are basically communicating that they are not attracted to you. It happens. I am sure the girls who are attracted to you will be more receptive to your attention.
I always thought the stupidest thing was the mini skirt and snow boots combination. It doesn't look cute, it looks retarded.
well it is hot out and just like you guys we don't wanna wear pants and a sweater, plus yeah guys will show there d*** to everyone and let everyone look, but if a girl did that she would be considered a huge whore, men are just "champs" we like to look nice and show off our legs and whateverr else were proud of, but it gets kinda annoying when men don't know how to respect a girl, youknow ?
they want the attention but, not from certain guys. kind like you want a particular type of girls attention but if you act friendly and once you get attention from the type of girls you don't want.
take for example I have curly hair, lots of girls say they like it ,but I get big black girls that want to touch it. which is not the type I like.
Some girls are going to like being looked at, some aren't. If you look at a girl and she glares at you, so what? Just ignore the stuck-up b**ch and look at someone else.lol. That's life. There will always be the girl who appreciates the compliment of looking/staring whatever and gives you a little smile. Then everyone's happy. Life's too short to worry about these girls who think that every guy wants something from them just because they're getting an eyeful of what is after all, bare thighs on show. Grow up girls, and get over yourselves!
maybe it was *how* you were looking at her.. I mean , I agree, some girls (including myself) do wear skirts to draw attention to their legs, and I think every girl who does knows the implications of wearing a mini skirt.
I think, those who gave you a dirty look when you checked them out either a) thought you were looking a little too creepy, or b) have that innocent belief that wearing something revealing is not going to warrant any stares from anyone .. which I think is pretty silly. lol.
i might be one one of the only girls who agree with you but I do. Girls do it for attention. At times it might be because its hot but thereare fabrics that are cooler to wear without showing so much skin. I know because I lived in florida for 14years of my life and spent a lot of time in the sun. I stil go for summers.
depends. If the dude checking you out is your age- it's ok, you should've seen it coming, and be at peace with it. However- if a 50 year old "checks you out" in an inapropriate way- I'd say its .. well.. gross?
Hell yes!
EXACTLY!
But, men are men, aren't they? Doesn't matter what age, they're still going to check out a good looking woman. =|
Doesn't matter. Biologically speaking- men should not be checking out girls that are young enough to be their daughters.
That just shows that girls have no clue about men!! MEN are MEN! Biologically a 70 year old man can mate with you and get a baby !!! If you want to talk ''Biological''!!
For girls out there ... men .. all men... that have an ounce of lust no matter what age they are will check you out!! Don't be surprised if a 70 year old checks out an 18 year old!!!
Meedo: Actually, you're wrong. Recent tests reveal that men that old does not USUALLY check out girls half, maybe 3 times younger than them, there's some bitchload of biology in that picture, don't remember it all, but I'll find a link, but I DO remember there's a proven genetic flaw with people mating with people way younger than themselves.
That's funny. You have a very childish understanding of sexuality. Men in their 50s will check out any and all sexually attractive women. If a woman is of age, there is very little that is 'inappropriate' about it. You may not be attracted to the guy, but a man will look nonetheless. Just a part of life.
Okay you can look but don't stare its so annogying I walked into this stored today and this guy was just staring at me like I was still walking around and he got closer and was still staring now that is what I call creepy I told him to take a picture all ready and he just stopped looking
I don't know why that is. When I wear tights girls stare the do little dances as they walk toward me to lear, they sneak pics with their cell phones the talk about me having "legs up to here" plenty loudly enough for me to hear it. I like attention and I figure their women they have a right to be interested in men but these girls do get a little crazy with it and I wouldn't be surprised if they were some of the same ones that get offended if a guy looks at them in a mini skirt.
It's just the way society raised them up to be, even though they won't admit it. Comfortable? You don't see cowboys in Texas wearing anything but jeans in that f***ing furnace. Give me a break. But I won't complain, I like eye-candy.
That whole skirt/Ugg combination p*sses me the f*** off though,
You do know what cowboys did most of the day right? Riding horses and herding cattle. Try riding a horse for 8+ hours a day having their ticks, fleas, and course hair rubbing against your skin. They wore hats to keep the sun off of their head and pants to protect them from long grass, the suns rays, and course hair. They wore them for functionality. Get your facts straight. We do wear things for comfort too but unlike guys we like to look good at the same time. Sweat pants and a beater? ... lol
Mhm... right.. is that so?
I love the skirt/ugg combo that women wear.
I'm a girl and I never understood these girls as well. Why would you want to flaunt it and be so defensive and uncomfortable when someone stares at you, they should be proud of their legs! I personally like my calves and I'd wear skirts that show them off sometimes, if people stare, so be it I guess. ;)
Because short skirts are in style. I don't care if guys like it or not, Its just creepy when random guys act like pervs around you. I don't care if guys check me out, I just don't want them to be ovious about it.
Don't want them to be obvivous about it ? how I'm I suppose to look at a girl and make it not obvivous ?
It depends on what part of a female you like to look at. Ass men have it easy. My buddy turns the other way before a girl walks past as if he heard his name called. Then he just watches her walk away. Me, I'm into boobs which is the most dangerous of desires. You get eye daggers if you aren't careful. Sunglasses help sometimes.
The mini-skirt thing usually isn't for me though. The women I like are average (size 14 -16) and probably wouldn't wear that. I like em in sweatpants. :-P~~
You just do quick glances when she isn't looking, be subtle. Like if you stare and drool like a pig she will mind. like one time durring lunch I was wearing a mini skirt and some creeper said "nice ass" that sure p*ssed me off. Some times girls wear clothes like that when they want to get a guy's attention like if they find that the guy they like is a boob guy they wear low cut shirts.
Some women dress for confidence and to get attention. Its only feels comfortable to have a guy stare at you like that when you out on the town, but in a library- that could be kinda creepy. Its nice to have a guy check you out, but never droll.
Girls will wear what they will wear, but maybe you should ask a friend if your checking out actually comes across as leering or just outright staring. If you are just staring at the chick without blinking or have a creepy smile on your face, of course she's gonna get nervous. Campus is also a place with really high incidents of sexual assualt, so a girl can't be toooo careful when it comes to that kind of thing.
If you aren't leering or anything, maybe they are just bitchy. Who knows.
I don't think there has been any sexual assualts at my campus during the time I have been here , it seems pretty safe
This isn't everyone, but half the time when girls get dressed, they are extremelly unsure whether they feel comfortable or confident in their outfit. So when I guy checks them out, they aren't sure if he thinks its ugly or that she's hot. And since we're women, we almost never assume the latter.
of course it's for style or in summer it's so hot and you know girls would do any thing for fashion and not all girls wear revealing outfits just to empress guys. and you know girls judge the girl outfit in seconds just while she cross the street
in general almost every girl wear reveling outfit doesn't mind if guys check her out
Not only that...but they wear skirts/ dresses up to their thighs,and THEN go bare legged at that...! Nothing looks worse than some girl showing a lot of leg and acts naive...than one showing a lot of pasty, white, bare legs...Geeze,...please put on some hose...ladies
there's a difference between looking/admiring and leering and I think you crossed the line
Well she was the one showing off her sexy body , she didn't leave much to the imagination
Did your mother ever tell you not to stare? it's not polite. like I said, there's a fine line between admiring a girl's body and leering at her body. you were leering, therefore she found it offensive.
I fell you because I get so sickand tired of hearing females talk about how they hate for guys to stare at them but they are dressed like hookers. If you have all you butt and breast hanging out then it's only natural for a man to stare. A female can cover up and still be fashionable but at the end of the day those females just want any kind of attention they can have because somehwere they hate something about themselves.