Why is there so much hate for "Fuckboys" ?

[Anonymous]

Now, I might be biased on this, but why exactly the fuckboys get all the hate? And what exactly is the definition of a fuckboy anyway? From what I gather reading pop culture content, if a guy works out, dresses a certain way, and has shallow and limited relationships with many women, he is a "fuckboy", to be made fun of directly and indirectly. I even saw some starter pack memes that said muscles and an undercut style haircut are signs of a fuckboy. Isn't everyone supposed to be independent and self centered these days? It's a fact that the rise of feminism has leveled the playing field somewhat and we men are confused about our roles is modern society. Why do I see online posts saying modern women are strong and independent and should live their own life as they choose, along with posts that ridicule or patronize men who act in similar way by labelling them losers/immature/manbaby etc. Why are we still being judged by the very same standards that is supposed to be obsolete?

[Napoli]

I don't know. I hate the term, it conjures up images of obnoxious 16 year olds.

I prefer "Player"

I like players, you have fun with them. I've learned more about "relationships" and guys from players than from anyone/anywhere else.
Women know who and what they're getting into when they get involved... and they do know - these guys are not hard to spot, even if they can't see it, their friends will, so I'm not sure why there is so much surprise at how it turns out.

I was talking to my little girl's dad earlier about how she'd be able to handle the players, & in fact, she'd be the one doing the playing, and he was like "she won't be getting with any players" ... but it's likely she will at least once. He's a player himself and he'd admit that, so he's kind of being a hypocrite.
I don't think being played is such a bad thing, most people come off a wiser person for it.

[alor1an]

first, a f*ckboy is a player. plain and simple. i don't know about the whole clothing hairstyle thing, that just seems like stereotyping. it's someone who uses someone for sex, usually by manipulating their feelings first, and is completely dishonest about it. second, those kinds of women are @sshats who are angry about men going MGTOW, and don't want to admit that they f*cked up and are the reason that men are going MGTOW. they are trying to justify their sh*tty treatment of men by calling them manbabies, so that they don't have to change their entitled, selfish ways. i still believe feminism and MGTOW are wrong, but i do understand MGTOW's reasoning even if it sucks.

[LynnFTW]

From what I've gathered, from culture and from life experience, a 'fuckboy' is a guy that will message you for a short amount of time, try to charm you in that short amount of time, then ask you for explicit photos or actions. The way of dress derives mostly from generalizations of these guys.

[ElissaDido]

Because they are usually manipulative and opportunistic and liars.
by the way many average looking dudes are fuckboys. It has nothing to do with muscles. Many fit guys are not Fboys.

[Asker]

Being manipulative, opportunistic and liars, they usually get what they want. So why would anybody not want to be that way? These days it's all about individuality and uniqueness and how everyone is the center of their own universe. Why should anyone care about someone else?

[ConsultantIsBack]

"by the way many average looking dudes are fuckboys. It has nothing to do with muscles. Many fit guys are not Fboys."

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[toouglytobeloved]

because man-whores aka fuck-boys are hated and frowned on as much as sluts are in the same way, because almost everyone has a sense or morality and respect for the opposite gender, and hate those who treat them like a toilet.

[DarkHumorRUs]

I always assumed people just mean "manslut" when they say fuckboy. Like a guy who gets around and is therefore probably a douche.

[Asker]

Then why exactly a female slut is independent and confident and to be praised and a male slut is to be looked down upon?

[DarkHumorRUs]

Female sluts aren't to be praised upon.

[BuchitaBuchys]

It's because they lie and string women along.

If a woman were to lie and string a man along for her own personal gain, she is just as vile. Undercover gold diggers.

Besides, many attractive muscular dudes are actually not fuckboys. They tell a woman straight up he just wants sex. That's not a fuckboy, he's being honest about his intentions. A fuckboy is like "naw baby, I'm not talking to any other women. I do want a relationship with you but I'm not ready now."

[Anonymous]

I think fuckboy is on par with vapid, self absorbed bimbo, not with a perceptive, thoughtful individual living their own lifestyle without being a pain in the ass to others.

Fuckboy:

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[Opinion Owner]

Fuckboy equivalent:

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[Mesonfielde]

Eh, the women who get with them just feel guilty the day after that their relationship with males is just as dysfunctional, but blame the other person rather than themselves.

[JohnDoe3000]

I second this.

[Jxpxtxr]

Why is there so much hate for "sluts"?
Same thing, "fuckboys" are just male sluts with a high amount of the golddigger-ness basically.
Society just doesn't like promiscuity and manipulating assholes..

[Maik567]

I think it has become the male equivalent of the word "bitch" at this point.

But I think its pretty ironic if some girls here defend "sluts" and then at the same time talk shit about "fuckboys".

[NotTheFBI]

The first time I heard this term I thought it was someone who 'Fucked Boys' :v
Just call them 'Man Whores' fuck boys sound so fucking retarded.

But a hoe is a hoe so.

[Jager66]

Didn't you get the memo? Feminism was and is for Women's issues only.

[dwright9224]

Fuckboys are the horrible version of guys. Not hating fuckboys is like hating the great guys. And I refuse to respect the wrong type of guys.

[akadatank44]

Fuck boys have no class
Players do and the respect the line this girl wants a relationship I'll stay away.

[Bandit74]

They are bitter because they couldn't get them to commit.

[Fearless_banana]

They are disgusting and sleep around. Have some self respect you know? #WaitingTillMarriage

[lost_alice]

why is there so much hate for 'sluts'? the answer is the same for your question

[Dimmu]

Hate for fuckboy and eliminating the word slut
What do you think?

[jakeofalltrades]

there lies the contradiction that is modern feminism. they only care about women, and nothing else.

[Polocrew]

I've only heard em dissing on here, funny because none of these nerds even made it to first base yet

[Anonymous]

As a girl, we just ask you guys to be direct with your intentions. If you want to just mess around let’s us know so at least we know what we are getting into and not get caught up.

[AleDeEurope]

Fuckboy is the new slut. The tables have turned.

[dudeman]

because women are stupid.