I can hear my dad and step mom having sex? What should I do? Its nasty af?

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I'm 15. I was upstairs playing Just Dance on the wii and the TV volume was pretty loud. I came out of my room to go get a drink downstairs and notice my parents aren't in the living room anymore and their bedroom door is shut (this was around 2:20ish) . I have a 19 month old little brother who is currently napping in the room next to me. I heard my parents door slightly shaking, a bunch of fast smacking, the bed bouncing, my step mom moaning and I heard my dad grunting. There was also a weird smell by their door. (I walked past their door to get to the kitchen). It's was so gross, they are so loud! The smacking won't stop either. I just went back down again to return the cup and there's was no smacking but my step mom was still moaning and I heard footsteps and the smacking started again as soon as I came back up the stairs.. Its 2:47pm. EWWWW! I was making loud noises while slamming the cabinets, coughing and stomping up the stairs but they are still going at it. I don't know what to do!! This is gross!!!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am so so sorry! I'm your age and I have the same problem with my mom. She will make excuses for herself and pretend like I make a big deal out of stuff. But if it's a big deal to then it should be a big deal. It automatically became your business when you heard them. Your father is being disrespectful to you by ignoring your signals and having sex when your at the house. It sounds like they have plenty of time to do it when your not there. I suggest having a serious sit down discussion with him. This is not acceptable.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Leave them alone. Let them have sex. You wouldn't be here if it wasn't for your dad playing a part in it. They probably assumed you were busy playing your wii and your brother was sleeping so why not. Its their house and they can have sex whenever they want regardless if you like it or not. Go back and play your wii

iamdesperate · Accepted Answer

They have the right to enjoy sex but not so loudly that disturbs you. If you are in open discussion with them, just mention at a suitable time without getting them annoyed. I believe the sound must have made you restless.

sunshinechyk · Accepted Answer

Tell your Dad you heard them having sex last night. Either suggest they might want to tone it down or put some music on to mask the sounds while kids are in the house. That should embarrass him enough to tone things down.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well there is nothing that you can do. They are lost in pleasure aside from knocking on their door few things would make them stop. All you can do is ask them to try and be a bit less noisy. Their parents they can't always control themselves just like teens can't always control themselves. If they go on for to long knock and ask them to keep it down cause it is so late and you need to sleep. Your lucky that your not in the city in and apartment. I used to be able to hear all 4 neighbors having sex the walls were so thin.

treshonbrown4 · Accepted Answer

grab your speaker, place it right outside their door, turn it up full blast and play where da hood at by dmx

Anonymous · Answer

That will teach you to come out of your room! lol Seriously, it's just sex and everyone has it. Time to grow up a little. If it bothers you, don't put yourself in the situation where you hear them. Put on headphones or stay in your room. Just don't focus on it or pay it much attention.

SadpersonT · Answer

Damn this has happened to me so often. Don't talk to them about it first of all. Go to your room and play music or whale noises, if you have headphones use them. Just try to ignore it. Good luck. If you need to, go on a walk outside.

Guy_No1 · Answer

seriously, you didn't have to take the glass back to the kitchen, you wanted to listen to what they're doing, you're mad coz its not your mom, And if they want to have sex morning noon and night, then it's their business not yours, go and listen to music with your headphones on,

Paris13 · Answer

Do what I Used to Do when I was 13, and I could not Bear to Know that my Boyfriend was Watching this Sexy Show on TV, that My own Mom was Watching... I would Stick my Head in my Bed, deep Under my Pillow and Block it Out.
Good Luck. xx

Mrbulldog98 · Answer

Sit outside and start moaning, mock what your step mom is saying and have your phone ready for when they come out to yell at you, say your recording them and putting it on the internet. that should get them to stop!!

OneWish · Answer

Stay upstairs and play just dance. If your brother wakes up, have him play with you or do something with him. Let your parents have sex. Its their house.

Neverrrmore · Answer

You let them have sex. It's their roof and sex is natural. When my daughter is 15 in 5 years, I hope I'll still be having sex too.

CheerGirl38139 · Answer

Hey good for them. It's their house. Be glad that your dad is happy 🙋

dihydrogenmonoxide · Answer

listen to music or get out of the house. sex is fun and let them do their thing. it's really healthy for their relationship.

ysabi · Answer

Son there should be no? After the sentence its nasty af 😟😟

ItzRoxxii · Answer

Why are they doing this in the middle of the day? Thats so rude of them. They know your awake.

Anonymous · Answer

Ewww!! That is gross!! Bang on their door and tell them to shut the fuck up!!

Anonymous · Answer

Why the hell are they doing that when they know you are home and awake? That is so wrong! I would go bang on their door or stomp on the floor above them.

Hashirama · Answer

I've been here so many times, i've heard my parents doing it, even my older sister... what helps is headphones or leaving the house

CoCoCilene · Answer

I think you like hearing them have sex because you keep coming out of your room to listen to it

Centurion20000 · Answer

Put some headphones on and hold your breath.  Not your house; not your rules.

NOTYOURBABYTONIGHT · Answer

you wouldn't be here if it wasn't for them having sex...

Anonymous · Answer

I would go outside and ring your doorbell and keep ringing it forcing them to stop having sex ad answer the door

ForeverSunset · Answer

I think they are making you another sibling lol

This_is_my_username · Answer

Lol tell them to shut the fuck up

Anonymous · Answer

wear headphones n listen to loud music

2shredded · Answer

lol I'm sorry

Anonymous · Answer

Lol Why its disturb u?

nath2316 · Answer

Haha

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