Why are black women so mean?

[Sakurachii55]

I'm black myself but I've notictdd that I've gotten the most harm from black women. When it comes to bullying or random people it's almost always a black girl, and not just that but it's a pattern too it seems like it's always a bigger black woman that wants to bully me too. Today for example a black lady drove up to me on the sidewalk, vroomed causing me to shake and drove off while laughing and saying " scared as s". Then i went to pop eyes after my work shift and this older heavy set woman noticed my hat and said "hmph burger king are you ashamed to wear that hat? That's bad advertisement" and her husband was laughing. What are your opinons?

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I would like to also mention that once I've picked up my nephew from school and this group of black children were behind us. They were really young like 9 and this one little girl was like to me (she was on the phone) this girl keep staring at me she look like she got aids ( i was looking at her because she kept cussing)

[AleDeEurope]

Maybe they reason most people that are mean to you are Black women is because most people around you are Black women? Lol
Black women as a group aren't mean, or nice, the group is formed by individuals who are either mean, nice, dumb, smart, ugly, hot...

If you spend one week in a neighborhood that is mostly White, you'll wonder why most people who are rude to you are White...

[JDavid25]

Shoo, well the first one sounds like girls from the hood.. A lot of people from the hood can be pretty mean spirited period.. I was walkin and some guys did a drive by with a water gun on me, and they drove off.. Then some dude ended up sayin "yo scary a$$".. LOL.. He sounded like he was far away behind me so he obviously didn't see the water gun sprayin at me..

[Sakurachii55]

It's a mix of ghetto and proper people where i live

[JDavid25]

Yeah that's how it was where I live too.. But yeah the first girl was just mean for no reason.. Some angry chick who like to mess wit people.. No second chick just seemed like a joker.. Who happened to notice the hat you were wearing..

[JDavid25]

Yeah, like people say.. If you mostly hang around "Black" people.. You'll get the most ish from "Black" people.. Like me.. Been around them all my life, still am, and I get the most mess from them.. Plus, "Black" people are very critical of other "Black" people..

[Sakurachii55]

That's what i noticed too

[JDavid25]

Haha true.. I think it's a cultural thing all around.. "Black" people always trynna go ham on somebody even if they are strangers.. LOL.. xD.

[JDavid25]

Thanks for MHO! :)

[vishna]

The last one was hella random. The first lady was just a huge psycho bitch.
That stereotype is really harmful. And it sort of makes sense you are most often in bad situations with other black people since you are black and live among other black people. Most person to person drama is done in by the same ethnicity

[vonasaurus]

sounds like these people are just human scum; it has nothing to do with their race.

i grew up in a very diverse area and learned at a young age that assholes come in all colours.

[Keleesi]

For those the second scenario, was did you have your hat on?

[Sakurachii55]

It was a burger king hat

[Keleesi]

But did you have it on a weird way? Did you wear it backwards or something?

[Sakurachii55]

Nope

[Keleesi]

It depends on where you live. If you live in a black neighborhood, and everyone is like that, than I can understand your scenario. Saying that all black women are mean is a disgusting stereotype, whether they live up to it or not. Strangers tend to do something weird to other strangers just to entertain themselves. One of my teachers would wave to someone on the street just to confuse them, so it's not always against that person.
Other times, people see you as a target because you're 1) an attractive young black girl who older unattractive black woman are threatened by ( of course this could happen with an older White/Hispanic woman, this tends to happen with people within your race) or 2) Make yourself too easy of a target, so being insecure, or shy. It shouldn't happen regardless, but that's how it is

[Mari1d]

I work with a group o black women who are very mean and are manipulative. They work in cliques and trys to establish a pecking order by doing whatever they can to keep up drama around anyone that appears to show the talent to advance. I an black and try to maintain a Christian attitude. This women lie, bully and try to target me to create drama to damage my reputation because of my educational and management experience. It is extremely exhausting and stifling. They are always analyzing, criticizing and putting false out information based on their observations of people’s situation. Most of them are in no position to do so because of their work ethics and immoral behavior at work! I push back when they are purposely interjecting themselves into my business! But I also try not to create a bad environment by being cold or unfriendly. I try to keep the drama at a minimum by keeping the episodes to myself except when they are giving customers the runaround! My manager is a wimp and will not confront anyone about anything. I think the biggest problem is the manager are hiring friends and people they know! One of the managers had a lot of conflict with her staff in one of the other departments. When they finally quit or was let go she hired whites and her department seems quite and professional! I am proud to be a black women who was raised by a woman strong black mom. I have eight siblings including five sisters! I have never experienced any thing like this! I don’t believe it’s because they are black but rather their upbringing! Most are single women who are always talking about relationships failures. We can be strong and kind. We don’t have to conquer everyone and everything. I have to remind myself not to get in the mud with them? I recover and show humility with strength! I go to church with black women and it is a different situation! It is the life experiences that fashions the behavior but it is something that is very difficult to deal.

[John_Doesnt]

Stories are anecdotal evidence. Your experience or the experiences portrayed on the news do not reflect what the actual black community is like.
In science we never make a broad claim like that based on personal experiences.

[Sakurachii55]

Of course not all black women are the same but you don't think black people are the most agressive culturally?

[John_Doesnt]

No, psychologists have done literally thousands of studies on differences between racists and have found there is almost no correlation between race and how a person behaves.
I'm not being "politically correct" I'm being a scientist. If science found credible evidence that black people are the most aggressive than I would agree with you.

[Anonymous]

You mean why are some women so mean? I'm black and people tell me all the time that I have a beautiful spirit. Also, I've met women who were mean as hell and they were black, white and Asian. It's not a race thing.

[Sakurachii55]

I think it has to do with how they are raised, that's just the trend for me and maybe some other people when it comes to black women being aggressive

[Opinion Owner]

So you've had rude encounters with just black women? I can't say the same.

[thesixthhotdog]

they got psychological problems same goes for the indians

[Mufc123]

Not all black girls are mean u can't generalise like that some from every race are mean n nice n same applies to men

[helloitsmethere]

Gurl, you have been hanging out with the wrong set of sistas...

[johnmichaei]

because they think they can say anything to people their is a word for them

[Anonymous]

You live in the ghetto or something?