Guys, how do you know when she is over you?

[RealDeal]

So I would another guys opinion on this.

When do you know your ex girlfriend is over you?

If she ignores your calls? It's kinda a rude thing to do. If she really didn't care, why be rude and ignore?

When you two are dating other people? She is dating another guy so it's okay now to be "friends" or is she trying to make you jealous?

If she responds to your calls, texts, messages and is friendly but it's like artificial, acquaintance, some chit chat?

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+1 y

Oh yea, I know the little things girls do to move on. But I wanna know when other guys know, in their hearts that she is done with you? Yeah probably when she says things like you were a mistake, or when she won't acknowledge you when you 2 see each other

[CristinaBacon7]

I know you've asked for guys' opinions on this. But I just really had to say anyway that if she was completely done with you she would be perfectly nice and normal. That's about it. She would respond to your calls and texts, not necessarily initiate them though. But that depends again on how bitterly your relationship ended. If it was absolutely disrespectful and your attempt to reconcile was mealy mouthed, she'll just not bother to reply and give you the silent treatment. Otherwise, well, she would be polite, warm even, but not overly emotional.. if she valued her relationship with you. You'll just know. Believe me.

Now, there are also times when she might want you back, but she's testing the waters. You'll probably notice the following symptoms for that

1. She takes longer to reply

2. She seems especially cautious and artifical

3. She's suddenly telling you a lot about all the new found, empowering changes in her life

3. She seems giggly and airy whenever you talk to her, in essence, completely different from when you knew her.

Hope this Helps. All the best

[Enneirda]

I totally agree with you I acted that way(your little points) when I wanted my ex back but then I slowly realized that I broke up with him for a reason and started acting back to myself and only talked to him when he talked to me, I never initiated any conversations cause I really didn't want to be rude cause I still wanted to remain friends

[thetheme]

She's done when she breaks up with you. Most women out there think about breaking up for days, maybe weeks before they do it. Girls always have guys waiting in the wings. That's why guys should have girls around just in case. If she responds to you or she wants to be "friends" it's just to ease her "guilt" but usually the "friendship" doesn't last long. It's just to keep you in her life because she is selfish and doesn't really care about your feelings at that point and it's easier on her. Ignoring you is the phase of no contact while she is in the middle of ending the relationship with you. When she's dating another guy, that was the guy she wanted while she was with you. The Jealousy thing is for only if you ended things with her for the most part.

[Konfuzed12]

So why if you're friends with them they tell you how happy their current boyfriend is and how her feelings won't change for him anytime soon... like how could girls say things like this to a guy they once gave their all to..

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

You should never focus on what the other person is doing, that is a total mistake.

Focus on you being over her, that's where your control is.

[dandanny]

If the Guy knew that a month Over a year ago and being a good guy he gave space f to move on and get with new guys (A good guy!), but she still talking trash behind him after all that ...He then needs to let her know one way or another to "MOVE-ON" STOP .It's all over...