He's still friends with his ex on facebook. Should I tell him that it bothers me?

[Anonymous]

I'm dating this guy and he's still friends with his ex on facebook. I don't know how often they talk over the phone, but he did call her a "pseudo-friend" and a whore. He also said it's awkward that he still keeps in contact with her because he's not friends with any of his other exes (so obviously it was her idea to stay friends).

Now to the point...every time he makes a post of facebook, she "likes" it and it really makes me jealous and annoyed. Should I let him know that this or try to ignore it? I don't wanna make a big deal out of it. I trust him, but she just annoys me.

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His ex is in a relationship with someone else and she's moving in with him in December. And from what he tells me, I don't think he wants to get back with her 'cause she sounds crazy.

[Anonymous]

You know, I know you said she, but it also takes him to continue this thing. I don't think your boyfriend is completely innocent. He's calling her a whore yet continues treating her like a friend. Either he's lying to you, or he's being a d*** to her.

[TheBentDude]

Facebook is a social tool. If your current boyfriend wants people to see that he’s still talking with his ‘ex-whore-girlfriend’ then there is a serious problem in your relationship. He should show you more respect than that!

[Asker]

Well he rarely uses facebook and from what I can see, he doesn't initiate or respond to her posts and "likes" on facebook. As far as phone calls go, I don't know.

[TheBentDude]

You need to come to terms with this situation. You need to set some boundaries. There is no additional information or comments you need to say. You're either finding excuses for his behavior or finding reasons to ignore conflict. It is disrespectful to you.