XOXO?

[f15x28]

Is it ok for a guy to end a letter or email with "XOXO", or is it unmanly?

[x9354]

Girls only say that it's cute and cool because it's a sign that YOU are putty in their hands -- whipped if you will. After a while they will take advantage of the pathetic whimpering lost puppy that you are! Don't do it dude. You must remain the master of your domain, and masters don't DO hugs and kisses on paper (only in the bedroom, or the back seat of your car).

[aussie90]

I got to say I disagree with that because in situation where your looking to just have a quick fling with a chick it works, they like it and their isn't a relationship long enough for you to be a "pathetic whimpering lost puppy". Even if it is a more serious relationship its used more as a little "saying" that's easy to finish of a txt, to actually say it that would be a diffrent story.

[niceguy14]

It might be a little unmanly, but most good girls like that sappy stuff. My girlfriend loves it when I tell her stuff like she's the only girl for me and all her friends agree sappy guys are there favorites.

"life is like a box of chocolates, you never know wat you'r gonna get"

(Forest Gump)

[JeVousAime]

See that's what society has come to - people are asking "if it's ok" to do ordinary, normal things!

There is nothing wrong with expressing yourself, and if you want to end a letter or email in "XOXO" then you do it!

If your friends think you're 'gay' - Ask them if THEY'RE in a relationship and when they say no, you can tell them why!

=]

[A-R-Norman]

Ah, screw what people think--you express yourself in any manner you desire! Make no apologies, and if you take heat, tell people to kiss it where the sun don't shine. You only live once, besides, if it is just between the two of you, and your lady friend doesn't mind, go for it.

[nobodygirl]

Girls think you're sweet. Guys think you're gay. And you probably shouldn't care what guys think about 'xoxo' unless you ARE gay.

[Anonymous]

I think it's sweet to end an email like that, I don't think too many guys put that when ending a convo with their girl friend, so it kinda shows what kind of effect she has on you, who cares if it's "unmanly" (frankly I don't think so) but if she likes it or not.

[Claretica]

To tell the truth I'd think it is great to do that.

I personally go xox love from *my name*

or *hugs*

to any girl I really see, to be nice.

Lol but don't do it to guys.

[MizzRosa]

That's just gay...I understand if he put I love you baby.

[Fourleafclover818]

No, that's cute. Why does it matter if its unmanly? She won't judge that from an email and its not like your friends are reading it to judge.

[lolypop]

Girls will not think it's unmanly... unmanly is when you are scared of a spider... but XOXO is a sweet thing... so go for it!

[hostkeep1]

Unmanly. Say, "love ya babe" or something. It's a little on the cute side but...

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

"love ya babe" isn't something that the kind of guys I like would say. It all depends on the girl. There's nothing wrong with putting hugs and kisses at the end of a letter, it doesn't make a man seem unmanly at all, just more appealing in my opinion.

[jaclynjune16]

lol, I would find it funny if a guy gave me a note with xoxo on it :)

[SexySamantha]

It's not unmanly. It means hugs and kisses. Men hug and kiss too.

[misspl123]

yup yup it's super okay.. I think you're unmanly if your scared to do it.

[Anonymous]

It's not unmanly it's cute and it shows a girl that you really like her. So go for the XoXo girls love it when a guy thinks of her that way!!

[dewt2]

Dude get a grip if you like it do it. if people make fun of you let them, you might just get more girls that way. oh and lol just don't do it with boyz. =)

[Anonymous]

No, I think that's cute because it shows they are a sweet person.

[Anonymous]

Its a little gay

but we love it when guys show their emotions

so basically if its to your new girlfriend or like as a joke or something its cute but done in the wrong situation. Its gay

[Denzil]

It depends on what kind of man you want to portray yourself as.

[Anonymous]

Well I think it's actually cute when guys write that but I would prefer more of "Love ya" or something.

[DeanW]

I'm leaning toward unmanly.

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

No! ;p