Another girl has a Facebook profile pic with your boyfriend?

[imimim]

Ok, I know I asked a question like this a while ago...but it's still applicable.

Is it OK for another girl to have a profile pic with her and YOUR boyfriend in it? Last time people said heck no. I'd agree. But I have two changes to the question.

1. Does it make a difference if there's another person in the pic as well? Because that's what this girl is doing to me. I think she thinks that makes it OK. First there was one with another guy and now there's one with another girl.

2. If this is innapropriate, and someone needs to make the girl stop it, who stops it? Should I ask my boyfriend to tell her to take it down, or should I tell her myself? We both know her, but she's obviously WAY more of of my bf's friend than mine.

Thanks guys!

[jessthatgirl]

If it is inappropriate then you'll be the one to make it stop. You are the girlfriend and it is affecting you. if you feel that this picture is applying to show that she likes your boyfriend and you have a feeling she likes your boyfriend then tell her to back off. Maybe tell your boyfriend about it and say that, that girl in the picture has a crush on you and your uncomfortable with her display pic of her with him in it. I mean, if the girl was just a friend of my boyfriend and had other people in the picture then I wouldn't mind. I would only mind if I had this gut feeling that she is onto my boyfriend or really likes my boyfriend and making it seem like they are together. That's when I'd confront her.

[imimim]

Ok, yes I do know this girl likes my boyfriend. She repeatedly tried to get him to date her before we were dating. But I mean, maybe I'm being insecure. Maybe a silly picture's not a problem.

[jessthatgirl]

yea maybe it's not a problem but when you around your boyfriend and she's there or if you see her with your boyfriend and she's onto something or what not, that's when you can let her know that she's crossing the line and to stop because the guy is in a relationship with you. There's nothing wrong in expressing how you feel to her because even though she likes your boyfriend she shouldn't act or try to steal him, if that were to occur. for the pic, ignore it for now.

[imimim]

Yeah, it's just kinda hard because I practically never see her in real life anymore. But thanks :)

[jessthatgirl]

you don't see him much? but your still together..

maybe try to catch up with him more and np

[imimim]

No, I don't see HER haha. I see my boyfriend all the time.

[jessthatgirl]

ohhh hahaha I'm sorry. then that's OK. ha ha don't want to catch up with her lol

[imimim]

yeah I really don't, haha

[NYCQuestions1976]

It's just a picture on Facebook. I don't think it really matters.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Thanks for Most Helpful. 👍

[hiiamabat]

Im confused on why you think its a problem?

[imimim]

Well I just think it's weird. This girl had a huge crush on my boyfriend and probably still does. Should I let it go, or should I be annoyed with her here? What do you think?

[hiiamabat]

Hmm...was your boyfriend ever reciprocating to her? I would have to see the situation personally to give a real opinion but if he doesn't act like he's into her like she's into him, I don't see it being a problem. Sure, it would spark some jealousy but I don't think enough to act on it. I think it would be a different story if your boyfriend was putting up his picture as him and her, although even that necessarily would be cause for concern. It just depends on their dynamic.

[imimim]

Yeah, OK thanks for your advice :)

[brandonc308]

It's just facebook in my opinion...