Guys: Why like her Facebook picture then unlike it?

[misssouthernbelle]

It wasn't a glitch. He liked my photo the same minute I posted it and I kept refreshing my page because I couldn't believe it - as I have suspected he likes me, but he hasn't said - and after 6 minutes, he unlikes it. Why?

[NoblesseOblige]

Why do you place so much importance on such a insignificant act?

[misssouthernbelle]

I just want to know. I find the behavior odd. I wouldn't do that, thus I'm seeking answers.

[NoblesseOblige]

Sounds like he knows you'd read into it, just like you are now, and didn't want you to think he likes you.

[misssouthernbelle]

I wouldn't read into it - my engaged guy friend likes my pics all the time - if he hadn't sent so many mixed signals all semester. Perhaps him and his ex are trying to work things out. He said women always come to him. I think he's very shy and insecure despite his cocky facade, but I can't really read him. I think - the disliking of the pic - was more about him than me. It's a picture. If I was just a friend, there would be no hesitation to like it. The line would be drawn in his mind. Same thing with guys I know are friends. I don't care if I like their picture, as I know there is no other implication behind it. He had a gf back home all semester. I kept things platonic and fought my attraction to him because I'm an honorable lady who isn't a relationship wrecker. He comes and tells me he broke up with her. Tells me he wishes she was like me, pours his heart out to me, asks if we're hanging out next fall, and then, does this over summer break. Just trying to figure things out.