What do it mean when a girl says "you can't handle me?"

[Anonymous]

That always confused me what is to be handled?

[Veruschka]

to me... it means she is not into you so she is putting it on herself... that way you can't make excuses of ways YOU can change... Or... the girl is unstable and knows this so she isn't looking to get serious and that's her easy way out...

but... girls are all different... if she is saying that to you more than one time... back away and don't let feelings get anymore involved.

[madikriske]

well, I'm a big partier & most guys can't keep up with my party life & they can't handle me. or that's how it is for me. maybe not the same thing for your girl.