Do some men think curvy/thick women are easier?

Question

I know a few people are sheltered and because of their culture or race they're confused about what curvy/thick women are. Anyone can be curvy whether they're thin or thick meaning they have an hour glass body type. Thick is when you have ass, thighs, hips and breasts with a waist line and no stomach and no love handles. Thick isn't overweight or obese nor is it thin. It's a nice size in the middle. I'm a thick and proud by the way lol. But anyways I've noticed men online that would NEVER have a chance with me in real life or their dreams feel comfortable about flying with me. Is this because I'm not a stick figure (which I would never want to be) and they feel I'm an easier target? Because I'm VERY picky and even down to the race I only date athletic black men with abs lol.

JosyJosy · Accepted Answer

I don't think they do. We're just like other skinnier people, just more meat on our bones, is all. We're still people. The same rules apply

abundantlyrich · Accepted Answer

Online men are not real men

Massageman · Accepted Answer

Not easier - just curvier. Curves are nice. I like curves. I like hourglasses. See Dick. Dick sees the curves. Dick is happy too.

Cress · Accepted Answer

People online are just filled with unfounded confidence.

Allie_Oops · Answer

Men don’t think you’re easy because of your size. They assume all women are easy until they find out we have standards. Then they call us stuck up picky bitches just because they didn’t meet the standard.

JimRSmith · Answer

Yeah, of course some think that. It's a stereotype, so some people believe it.

chriscdi · Answer

Answering your question, the shape of your body isn't what makes you look like a easy person, its usually your attitude, sometimes it can be your face, maybe you look like a easy person to talk to so they go up to you, its not really a bad thing, it could just be the guy too, maybe they see you as a chill person they can go up to, its not the body shape, of course if the guy isn't well looking and they know it, the look of a girl would be sorta intimidating cause they might be "too good for them" or "out of their league"

KingAra3 · Answer

It's all opinion based, it wasn't so much of the girls rather how I was doing myself. I've been with girls thick and super petite, never did I think thick girls are easier to get. However when I was playing football I noticed it was way easier to get girls and thats because I had that confidence. And no I don't think it was because girls like athletes more. I wasn't some first string wide receiver, I was a second string nose guard. Most girls dont even know what that is, I'm not super cut, nor am I extremely built, definitely wasn't the strongest, I just had the mentality that if I wanted a girl I would have a good shot and I would have her. Maybe it was just a high school thing but I'm sure it wasn't

Koki11 · Answer

Well I guess I have an hourglass figure and I'm in a country with thick woman lol. In my country Im skinny the rest of the world I'm hourglass I don't really care either way weight is no big deal coz most African blacks are thick soooo... Being skinny means u are sick so lol I look sick to most n I'm no Victoria Secret mind u
I think it differs country to country

Drinkingcoffee · Answer

It’s because your body type is celebrated right now and many girls get surgery to get it.
It’s prevalent in porn and is prevalent in half naked instagram models. Subconsciously, men are associating your body type with sex even if you’re dressed in nuns habits.
It’s not that they think you’re easier, your body reminds them of porn and sexually suggestive advertisements.

JayParris · Answer

No need to humble-brag on an internet forum. We get it. Lots of men find you attractive and try to flirt with you, and you have so many options that you can be picky.

Just be honest on your dating profile. State exactly what you want, and most men who aren't what you want will know to pass you over. I thought that's what dating sites were for: finding exactly what you want by weeding out what you don't.

miramiraonthewall · Answer

I dont think its an overwhelming norm that keeps thicker girls from getting in serious relationships, but I do think body type can be one factor of many that men read as easy or sexual. There is a "good girl" body type for some men, which may also be about how he wants people to view his partner. He may like the image of the slim girl on his arm over the thick curvy girl. A lot of this is impacted by cultural beauty preferences, for sure

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

I don’t think they’re easier but I go into every encounter or challenge with everything I have because I never underestimate anyone or anything.

However, I do try harder when it’s a woman who carries all the physical attributes I love such as curvy in the right places and pretty face.

Lovvyyy · Answer

My guess is, much simpler, they feel like it is less ashameful to be rejected behind a monitor than straight up to your face. I've noticed the same thing you described also happening to me.

ThatItalianBastard · Answer

No I don't believe so. Personally I can't speak for all guys but the one's I see don't really see curvy girls as "easy". The reason why guys pursuit curvy girls is because they find them desirable, and I can't deny that because I find curvy woman attractive as well.

It all comes down to preferences. And the types of people who interact with you. I don't deny that there are guys out there that think thick girls are easy, but I doubt all of them share that mindset.

aa180 · Answer

Finally, a girl who's thick and prefers it that way, instead of envying dem stick figure twigs that everyone seems to love so much.

Anyways, to answer your question, no I don't think they're easier just because they're thick. They're definitely hotter, but whether or not they're easy just comes down to each individual, regardless of their body type.

Fuentes · Answer

Nah i prefer thick women they turn me on more but land whales NO but i woudn't mind messing with a land whale because i would think of them as easier lol depending on my mood hah especially if they matched wiith me on tinder oh well hahaha but nah i think of thick women the same as skinny nut that doesn't mean depending on my mood i won't try and hook up with them haha

silvermoon84 · Answer

Body shape and size has nothing to do with being easy. It’s more about your attitude and the way you carry yourself. Most men understand this concept however there are SOME men who think all women are easy simply because they’re perverted jackasses.

TheManOfQuestions · Answer

I don't actually have an answer for anything, but that woman in the sample pic/thumbnail was really pretty, lol.

Either ways, I wouldn't think someone is easier because of their body type. More on their personality or how they present themselves.

Penelope_ · Answer

From experience yes, I once had a guy come up to me and say “with tits that big you’re gonna give me a squeeze aren’t you?”. Another guy slapped my ass and told me it was no big deal and I should be used to it. 🤔

Dionigi · Answer

No, we just think you are sexy af, so we can't stop ourselves from flirting with you. Now that I know what you like though... I would never flirt with you lol

ClauseViter · Answer

Body type doesn't matter but cultivation does. Is the body atrophied, underdeveloped, crude, without strength and flexibility?

I cultivate my body, as such, I'm only interested in other people who do so as well.

markscott · Answer

I don't think any woman is easier because of her shape.

Logorithim · Answer

In answer to your question, no. And even if a woman does have lower standards, I still treat her with the same respect as any other.

NatashaJ · Answer

I think so one fat guy hit on me on okcupid to take his virginity he said "please your fat too take my virginity".

ChronicThinker · Answer

Guys online will take a pass at anything. Take it from a skinny, white-ass redhead.

madgoat · Answer

People are very free with their opinions online. Do you see the same in real life?

jurgenmeister · Answer

Not necessarily, but curvy girls have more attractive bodies so they get more attention, that’s probably why people think that?

winterfox10 · Answer

curvy women are sexy, it has nothing to do with whether or not we think they are easier targets.

zagor · Answer

No. But I don't find that look at all attractive so I don't care.

Lloyd1985 · Answer

I love women with curves, I like someone to cuddle.

gowtham12 · Answer

But I really find thick curvy women very attractive

Nahid1707 · Answer

Some yes but not me. I am respectful and more careful with girls.

Zeekyt · Answer

Maybe some guys. For me it's just a feature that's extra hard to resist. Also, the risk for trying online is practically nothing.

Kinzpounder81 · Answer

Thick curvy girls are sexy, if you got it why not love it and flaunt it

Letitgoogoo · Answer

I've never heard of such a thing

CanadianGirlx23 · Answer

I like thick woman with curves and an ass

adolescentswede · Answer

Not in general, could exist excemptions

4465loveyou5577 · Answer

I've noticed a lot tend to feel that way

skateranon123 · Answer

There is no correlation

Piteka5 · Answer

Easier to look at, at least

rahul_24 · Answer

I never knew curvy women are easier

niceguyantonio · Answer

You like that chocolate dick...

polo4400 · Answer

Absolutely. Curves are sexy

berwise13 · Answer

Size dont make you easy

JustCallMeLeon · Answer

No i dont.

Danielleo · Answer

have fun

LightxSoul2 · Answer

Yeah

Victor1212 · Answer

Yes..

Yamboleca · Answer

Nope

Seppelson · Answer

No absolutely not

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