Do some men think curvy/thick women are easier?

[msunknownx]

I know a few people are sheltered and because of their culture or race they're confused about what curvy/thick women are. Anyone can be curvy whether they're thin or thick meaning they have an hour glass body type. Thick is when you have ass, thighs, hips and breasts with a waist line and no stomach and no love handles. Thick isn't overweight or obese nor is it thin. It's a nice size in the middle. I'm a thick and proud by the way lol. But anyways I've noticed men online that would NEVER have a chance with me in real life or their dreams feel comfortable about flying with me. Is this because I'm not a stick figure (which I would never want to be) and they feel I'm an easier target? Because I'm VERY picky and even down to the race I only date athletic black men with abs lol.

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+1 y

I meant flirting not flying lol.

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+1 y

I don't want anyone on here. White men aren't my type and you're entitled to your opinions. I'll be on a date soon with my sexy black boyfriend. 😂✌

[JosyJosy]

I don't think they do. We're just like other skinnier people, just more meat on our bones, is all. We're still people. The same rules apply

[abundantlyrich]

Online men are not real men

[abundantlyrich]

Thanks for mho

[Massageman]

Not easier - just curvier. Curves are nice. I like curves. I like hourglasses. See Dick. Dick sees the curves. Dick is happy too.

[Cress]

People online are just filled with unfounded confidence.

[msunknownx]

Lol you're so right.

[Allie_Oops]

Men don’t think you’re easy because of your size. They assume all women are easy until they find out we have standards. Then they call us stuck up picky bitches just because they didn’t meet the standard.

[Allie_Oops]

In order for me to be strawmanning, I’d have to refute an argument not presented. Except that argument is all over G@G that women have too high of standards and that men will take sex if is offered so easily. It’s literally all over the website.

Maybe before you throw out big words, you should learn what they mean first.

[JimRSmith]

Yeah, of course some think that. It's a stereotype, so some people believe it.

[chriscdi]

Answering your question, the shape of your body isn't what makes you look like a easy person, its usually your attitude, sometimes it can be your face, maybe you look like a easy person to talk to so they go up to you, its not really a bad thing, it could just be the guy too, maybe they see you as a chill person they can go up to, its not the body shape, of course if the guy isn't well looking and they know it, the look of a girl would be sorta intimidating cause they might be "too good for them" or "out of their league"

[KingAra3]

It's all opinion based, it wasn't so much of the girls rather how I was doing myself. I've been with girls thick and super petite, never did I think thick girls are easier to get. However when I was playing football I noticed it was way easier to get girls and thats because I had that confidence. And no I don't think it was because girls like athletes more. I wasn't some first string wide receiver, I was a second string nose guard. Most girls dont even know what that is, I'm not super cut, nor am I extremely built, definitely wasn't the strongest, I just had the mentality that if I wanted a girl I would have a good shot and I would have her. Maybe it was just a high school thing but I'm sure it wasn't

[Koki11]

Well I guess I have an hourglass figure and I'm in a country with thick woman lol. In my country Im skinny the rest of the world I'm hourglass I don't really care either way weight is no big deal coz most African blacks are thick soooo... Being skinny means u are sick so lol I look sick to most n I'm no Victoria Secret mind u
I think it differs country to country

[Drinkingcoffee]

It’s because your body type is celebrated right now and many girls get surgery to get it.
It’s prevalent in porn and is prevalent in half naked instagram models. Subconsciously, men are associating your body type with sex even if you’re dressed in nuns habits.
It’s not that they think you’re easier, your body reminds them of porn and sexually suggestive advertisements.

[JayParris]

No need to humble-brag on an internet forum. We get it. Lots of men find you attractive and try to flirt with you, and you have so many options that you can be picky.

Just be honest on your dating profile. State exactly what you want, and most men who aren't what you want will know to pass you over. I thought that's what dating sites were for: finding exactly what you want by weeding out what you don't.

[miramiraonthewall]

I dont think its an overwhelming norm that keeps thicker girls from getting in serious relationships, but I do think body type can be one factor of many that men read as easy or sexual. There is a "good girl" body type for some men, which may also be about how he wants people to view his partner. He may like the image of the slim girl on his arm over the thick curvy girl. A lot of this is impacted by cultural beauty preferences, for sure

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I don’t think they’re easier but I go into every encounter or challenge with everything I have because I never underestimate anyone or anything.

However, I do try harder when it’s a woman who carries all the physical attributes I love such as curvy in the right places and pretty face.

[ThatItalianBastard]

No I don't believe so. Personally I can't speak for all guys but the one's I see don't really see curvy girls as "easy". The reason why guys pursuit curvy girls is because they find them desirable, and I can't deny that because I find curvy woman attractive as well.

It all comes down to preferences. And the types of people who interact with you. I don't deny that there are guys out there that think thick girls are easy, but I doubt all of them share that mindset.

[aa180]

Finally, a girl who's thick and prefers it that way, instead of envying dem stick figure twigs that everyone seems to love so much.

Anyways, to answer your question, no I don't think they're easier just because they're thick. They're definitely hotter, but whether or not they're easy just comes down to each individual, regardless of their body type.

[Lovvyyy]

My guess is, much simpler, they feel like it is less ashameful to be rejected behind a monitor than straight up to your face. I've noticed the same thing you described also happening to me.

[msunknownx]

Most of the men online seem really weird too. Like you can tell nobody wants them in real life lol

[Lovvyyy]

This is gonna sound very stereotypical, and it is, but that very specifically applies to either Indians or neckbeards.

[Fuentes]

Nah i prefer thick women they turn me on more but land whales NO but i woudn't mind messing with a land whale because i would think of them as easier lol depending on my mood hah especially if they matched wiith me on tinder oh well hahaha but nah i think of thick women the same as skinny nut that doesn't mean depending on my mood i won't try and hook up with them haha

[silvermoon84]

Body shape and size has nothing to do with being easy. It’s more about your attitude and the way you carry yourself. Most men understand this concept however there are SOME men who think all women are easy simply because they’re perverted jackasses.

[TheManOfQuestions]

I don't actually have an answer for anything, but that woman in the sample pic/thumbnail was really pretty, lol.

Either ways, I wouldn't think someone is easier because of their body type. More on their personality or how they present themselves.

[Penelope_]

From experience yes, I once had a guy come up to me and say “with tits that big you’re gonna give me a squeeze aren’t you?”. Another guy slapped my ass and told me it was no big deal and I should be used to it. 🤔

[SpiderLady]

That's horrible. You should have slapped him in the face and when he gets shocked tell him, "you should be used to it."

[Penelope_]

@SpiderLady ikr and haha good idea! I was only 14/15 though I was so scared

[Dionigi]

No, we just think you are sexy af, so we can't stop ourselves from flirting with you.
Now that I know what you like though... I would never flirt with you lol

[ClauseViter]

Body type doesn't matter but cultivation does. Is the body atrophied, underdeveloped, crude, without strength and flexibility?

I cultivate my body, as such, I'm only interested in other people who do so as well.

[markscott]

I don't think any woman is easier because of her shape.

[Logorithim]

In answer to your question, no. And even if a woman does have lower standards, I still treat her with the same respect as any other.