I got stood for a date up by a coworker...Help Please!!!

[Anonymous]

So I've gone on a couple of dates with my coworker. Friday night on our date he says that he wants to see me again Saturday night. He calls Saturday. I call back thirty minutes later...no answer. Called again a couple of hours later... No answer and no call back since.

My questions are... Did I really get stood up since we didn't set a specific time for the date? My boyfriend says no, but I say yes because he stated he wanted to meet up and never called. Matter of fact haven't heard from him at all since our last date. My other question is how do I handle this when we see each other at work? I know professionally, but personally? Ignore him, confront him, I'm so confused. Never been stood up before. Guess there's a first time for everything. Sad part is I really liked him and I thought he liked me but guess not. He tried to get with me for months so I'm surprised he's acting like this.

Any advice is appreciated.

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+1 y

Sorry... My guy friend... just friends since childhood, nothing more. Not actually a boyfriend lol.

[MachineMan]

My boyfriend?

Don't assume you were stood up, maybe he had an emergency, or his phone was dead, or he was really feeling ill. Don't get to worked up about it ask him tomorrow what happened? He will probably give you a good excuse, if he doesn't then look for someone else cause you deserve better. Just my 2 cents.

[Anonymous]

Your dating a coworker and you already have a boyfriend? If you slipped the "my bf" phrase to him at anytime then it's so obvious why he's not calling you back.

[Asker]

Good point, but just a typo. I meant to say best friend not boyfriend. Although my best friend is a guy, he does not know that yet.