Would you rather be an Incel or a Simp?

[Ectomorph]

I'm a very small time incel who is against the blind hate and violence against women. I just have a bit of that entitlement mindset, but nothing too serious. Despite not getting chics, I refuse to be a simp. To me, a simp has lost his identity.

What about you, which would you rather be?

[NetSapien]

As a man.. I reject both of these labels and you should too. Shit, I reject all labels, but these 2 in particular are the worst.

I won't ever be accept 'incel' at my worst because I can just pay someone for a quick nut. Much less EVER accept being called a simp. Hell, I live a Dom/Sub lifestyle and every female in my life calls me "Master".

I would, from the bottom of my heart, suggest you do away with these idiotic stereotypes and labels as they are nothing but damaging for you to accept for 0 gain. Neither one is ever a choice you should accept. You are a man. You can be gay, you can be straight, you're still a man and should be absolutely proud of that fact.

You should hate and and all violence or hate towards women, I support you in this 1000%, that doesn't mean you should call yourself an "Incel" brother. Ever

[KuroSire]

This is definitely the best answer. I was going to say something along those lines.
There is really no such thing as an "incel". It's a pejorative term created to further demoralize males in a society that is already full of misandry and subversion.
History shows that even hideously deformed or severely handicapped men can find willing sexual partners and and even a dedicated mate if he works hard enough on building himself up. And the reality is that, even for the most handsome men, you will be rejected more often than they will succeed. To that degree, every man is an incel until he isn't, it just takes some men longer to find someone than others.
And, of course, you can always just buy sex, which is pretty bad to have to acknowledge but, it's the reality of the world. So, if we have to accept that incel is a thing it would be better to accept being involuntarily celibate, and focus on other things to enrich your life instead of reducing uourself to some desperate entitled sex fiend (how they want to characterize incels).
It is never okay to be a simp, though, again, every man will simp at some point in their life. Yes, even chads have simped at some point. And again, how long a man will simp will depend kn their self esteem. A man with high self esteem may be drawn in for a sec before realizing what's going on, wising up, and moving on, learning not to repeat that mistake. But, a guy personofied as a Simp will continue to engage in that behavior long past any point of humiliation due to their low self esteem. To simp is human, to persist is pathetic.
Is there any difference between a Simp and an Incel. Yes. They are two diffent states of being. However, I will say this, a person who is likely to persist in simping is also a person likely to be an incel.

But, ultimately, don't accept incel or simp as your identity. They are just temporary phases we may experience in life. You are a man: nothing more, nothing less.

[Dchrls78104]

An Incel. Girls don't go near incels neither do incels approach girls (as far as I've heard). Simps approach girls and enable girls and it ultimately proves unrewarding because the girls don't even respect them but only use and then abandon them. It's always better to be alone than in bad company.

[Ectomorph]

I thought incel do approach females but get repeatedly rejected to the point they get bitter.

Agree on being alone than in bad company. Makes total sense and one still gets to retain one's dignity.

[Uptowngirl88]

Grow up and get some self esteem. You sound ridiculous

[Ectomorph]

Chill, it's just a question to find out which option people in general would rather choose. 🤣

[Uptowngirl88]

You're demeaning yourself

[Uptowngirl88]

I'm js , I'm fine it's your life

[Anonymous]

Every man is by default an incel. This is what it means to be a man. If we work hard we can overcome this condition. Simping is the lowest form of man, worse than our default state

[Ectomorph]

Asexual men aren't incels though. Being born asexual is a bona fide blessing.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol in a sense

[Snakeyes7]

Incel, I'd rather be alone than be with a woman who doesn't care about me.

[Ectomorph]

But do you think simps or incels have a better chance with women if both were of the same attractiveness?

[Snakeyes7]

I'd imagine yes.

[demonics]

Both pedestalize women, simps just need to work on their self esteem, and incels need to work on their physical appearance (save for the "unfortunately ugly" and the handicapable, that are pretty effed in regards to getting girls).

[Ectomorph]

Even normal men pedestalise women to varying degrees. Simply because womem are gatekeepers of pussy.
Only asexuals and homosexuals don't, which I think is a great superpower to have.

[IAMNathanael]

I'm stumped. One is miserable and the other is throwing his money away... neither are anything I want to be.

[Ectomorph]

Hahaha! So pick your poison mate. 😏

[OddBeMe]

At least you know your faults. We all have something we need to fix. Why do you feel entitled with women?

[Ectomorph]

I don't have a strong feeling of entitlement, but a little, yes. Likely because I'm annoyed with myself, with the fact that men has to deal with suppressing our libido, which overtime turns into frustration when one is denied the opportunity of coitus. Overall, I respect women for their free choice, but I need to work on suppressing my libido which is causing me depressive thoughts. The more I ruminate over it, the deeper I get stuck in this echo chamber. It's tough being a man in this aspect, so I've actually contemplated suicide. The only issue is that I'm too much of a coward to end my life, hence I'm caught is this quandry. Lol.

[OddBeMe]

Why do you think you’re denied coitus?

My wife just says not now.

[Ectomorph]

Single here. Denied coitus by life rather. A stroke of bad luck gave me bad genetics, resulting in consistent failure to attract the opposite gender.

Oh well, it is what it is.

[OddBeMe]

Firstly I’m being sincere with you. I like talking to guys who feel this way. Because I’m 10x sure you’re better looking than me. I’m chubby and an asshole but managed to marry a gorgeous fiery Latina who doesn’t mind I finger her asshole.

Would you mind listing your genetic problems?

[EnglishEuropean]

Simps don't get any either so it all comes out the same. The only thing a simp has that an incel doesn't is hope.

[Ectomorph]

Haha, yeah, being either sucks. But if you had to pick your poison, which would you rather?

[EnglishEuropean]

I would rather not be bitter or pathetic.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m an incel but I refuse to blame women for what clearly are my own problems I need to work on

[Ectomorph]

Does that make you an incel then? Without the blind hate and anger, would one still be considered an incel?

[WhiteBoyChill]

I believe so

[Gwenhwyfar]

At least the alleged simps are nice to women

[Ectomorph]

Well, I don't think all incels are hateful. Some can even engage in a proper conversation with a woman without expressing any disrespect.

[Gwenhwyfar]

That’s good. You seem nice.

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Anything other than myself tbh

[IronsKev]

Not entirely sure what they are 😉

[SmokinAces2000]

Neither

[Anonymous]

I would say Simp