I like older women and men as friends they are wise and caring but I’m attracted to people my age. And if I can manage to not be an a$$hole at my age I know other people can too, so I just expect reasonable behavior from people my age, rather than looking for older people.
I think of young people figure they can just date young people when they are older, it really is damaging as it removes the incentive to be decent “now”
I think it’s important to hold young people account for their herwviir at their age and not give them an out like “ oh everyone is immature at that age” bc they will embrace it. We are only the way we are until we are expected to be better than we are.
Anyhow, attraction wise, physically, older people are older. I’ll date them when -I’m- older. 🤷🏻♀️
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Not nearly as many as some would like to think. Most women like guys their own age more.
Probably cos males aren't manly anymore. Well not the new generation anyway. Most boys/teens today are balless fairy boys who are afraid to approach or talk to a girl (myself included)
So the older guys 35 plus still have that old school masculine way where they're actually brave and manly and masculine that's probably why girls are more attracted to them than the new generation of snowflake fairy boys
In general no. What you're talking about is a stage that some girls have because they haven't fully matured yet. Or they may just be psychologically stunted.
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Can't help it, I have an intense sexual attraction to older men (check my past question). It has nothing to do with my perception of their cognitive or psychological structure, I just have an impulse reaction to how they look. Of course, my interactions with another person dictates how my attraction progresses, but I have an off-top attraction to the physical traits I believe are commonly attributed to older men.
I think they are as they perceive them to be more mature and stable which the regular guys their age aren't. As they say, girls tend to mature early than boys they seems to look for older men.
Used to be like that in my teens and twenties, had big crush on older men still I am by the way, but added to them younger men as well
In late teens or early 20's, guys my own age seemed obsessed with gaming or partying, not interested in girls so much, so yeah the older guys, mid 20's and up were more mature and serious about life.
I personally don’t base my attraction toward people off of their age. There are lots of nice and polite people that I know and have come across of all ages.
I have no real exclusive preference for men up to 35 where I would draw the line. And love a man approximately within a year difference who thinks he's better than I.
It is the same for me I am in my early 20s. I feel that's true. Also, I'm drawn towards them more.
It's pretty common. In general girls mature faster than boys so they like older guys. Also when they are in their late teens early 20's, older guys have jobs, their own place, a car and money to take them out.
Age is just a number and I don't base my relationships on numbers...
I have found that younger guys my age are like that. Older guys seem comfortable with themselves
I think in general we are because men mature slower than girls on average.
i like older guys, they're just more confident and that's hot, i've crushed on soooo many of my teachers
Young teens will always be attracted to older people who can buy them drugs and beer. That’s why we need make sure this shit never happens. Ironically not bc of drugs and beer, but sex assault.
They are big time. Especially this new batch of 18-25 year olds. They don't even hesitate to call me DADDY. I've noticed it with TONS of them.
It certainly is with me. I have a number of girls 16-21 who want to date me and I’m old enough to be their father. I like it though as most of the girls want to fuck.
Some are---I happen to know one or two such women---and some are not. It's all relative and nobody's business but the two people involved.
Absolutely they are not. There are a few exceptions but the vast majority of young women are not attracted to much older men.
Well yeah they are on average more mature and are more established which makes them a more appealing mate
most of time i like my guy to be older than me even months older
Depends on how old. Probably not older than like 25-30
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