Are there any INCELS willing to explain their thought process?

[Macnelon]

I never really understood it but maybe it was the man being interviewed.

[Lionman95]

I´m not an incel anymore but I´ve considered myself for some time. I think the problem for many guys is that they are not attractive from according to society´s view on male attractiveness plus they have a low self-confidence.
It´s easier to say that all women are picky and women will never pick you if you made similar experiences.
There are guys that why so ever never had good experiences or friendships with women. I wouldn´t consider myself an incel because I don´t hate women and the term is negative labelled.
I´ve never been in relationship, I´ve never even been on a real date. I´m 27, virgin never had a girlfriend. I´m an average looking guy tall but thin.
As probably most people my age I tried dating. Which ended either in being ghosted or being told: I really like you, but I just consider you to be a friend. Online dating wasn´t successful either I spent a lot of money for nothing.
I know that people can´t be made to love another and that finding true love is hard for everyone, it´s just harder when you feel like it comes easy to everyone besides you.
All of my buddies are either taken or have been in long-term relationships before, the same situations comes with all of my male cousins.
I´m the only one in my family and my circle of friends that has never been in a relationship.
I think the biggest issue that makes guys becoming incels is that either society or social media makes them feel like there is no true happiness without a relationship.
Like you´re not a respectable person if you´re single all your life.
That´s why so many guys kind of act frustrated under females posts also on GaG. They had bad experiences with women in the past and now they portray every woman as bad.
I came to terms with the fact that I´ll probably never find a relationship because not every person is attractive for one and maybe I´m not.

[Macnelon]

That really put things into perspective thank you. Though I’d stop doubting yourself, there’s a person for everyone. Seriously, I've seen objectively unattractive people in long term relationships. Just wait for the right woman dude, and keep a positive outlook and you’ll be surprised. I have faith<3

[Lionman95]

Yeah I also know average people that are in a relationship. I´m working on getting a positive mindset I and having patience is the best for now.

[torossia1171]

I'm 26 and white and 5'4.5 ft tall and I would think I'm an incel because living I the usa is difficult if you want a girlfriend when you're not a big older taller muscular aggressive dickhead, I do have a picky taste in women as prefer women to be older and taller than me and who are plus sized or slim if they're tomboys. I don't harbor any misogynist or racist ideology like a stereotypical incel, what annoys me the most is that the west has a toxic beauty culture where the women want men to look like channing Tatum will smith but on steroids. I may have aspergers but I watch what I say to keep a social vibe going.

The west currently has a culture of socially abusing young slim white males, especially ones who are high functioning autistic, making us seem like we're not even people, western women perpetuate this by assuming all white young and slim men like me are like Elliot rodger and avoid even communicating with us even if it's detrimental for them like of you're in college classroom for example.

I think I have basic social skills but it's the woman's part to be social and interact if she wants when most of the time they want even if they're all alone and it's just sad and pathetic.

The reason white young slim males are incels in the west is because the culture likes to abuse us, the reason why men in India and China are incels is because of a gender imbalance and those countries have a history of abusing their women and being harsh to them.

[Anonymous]

They are a group of people who need to learn how to implement the "sour grapes" mentality to their poor dating life. They say they want sex, hence the name meaning "involuntarily celibate". However even if they get sex from just anyone who is willing to, it won't stop them from feeling like their life is meaningless. It would make them feel much better if they have an actual partner, someone of the opposite sex who is happy to see them, sex will only be further affirmation that they are into them.

TBH, I think it is messed up that they are considered a terrorist group being that it is the only one consisting of members who were not there on their volition. I swear calling them one will only make them more likely to be one in the future using the mentality "I might as well be a terrorist if I will get called one no matter what I do".

Can you imagine what would happen if the media suddenly came out saying "women who can't have sex with men are terrorists"? Feminists would be calling society to a screeching halt.

[SmokinAces2000]

It’s not much thought that goes into being an incel, it literally means “involuntarily celibate” which is a fancy way of saying a group of guys that are mad that they aren’t getting laid

[moviedude714]

I believe a lot of incels were raised or brought up the wrong way by their parents, wrong type of friends in their adolescent years

[Anonymous]

I think you are misunderstanding what an incel is. It's someone who is involuntarily celibate. They just can't get laid. There is no thought process to it. Not sure what you're looking for here.