Opinion on Sweden and Finland applying to join NATO in response to Russia Ukraine war?

In my opinion some blame must be put in western leaders and western alliances encroaching on Moscow as a huge reason for this war.
Finland and Sweden joining in the middle of all this is an escalation.
I’m not saying Russia is the good guys, I had more sympathy in the beginning but lost most of since the bombing of the children hospital a few weeks in.
I just think we should really understand why this is happening and what can be done to end it before the nukes leave the silos.

I think Russia and the West need to reconcile our differences.
I think a sort of Pan European military organization should exist but not specifically against Russia; I think it should include Russia as well as Western Europe and North American against China or any other potential threat.
Right now Russia is moving closer towards China and to a lesser extent India and Iran.
Opinion on Sweden and Finland applying to join NATO in response to Russia Ukraine war?
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