How to stop my ego and arrogance?

[Anonymous]

I feel like a very important person. I get very angry during even a very little controversy and discussion. I am a very egoistic arrogant person.

[Anonymous]

Personal ego isn't necessarily a bad thing. If you feel that you are entitled/confident enough to say something, then you should say something.

The real problem is when your confidence isn't as authentic as you think it is. You'll think that you have the guts to say something, but in hindsight, you just made yourself look like a clown and everyone is laughing at you.

Can you be certain your ego and confidence are justified? Perhaps you need to take a step back and back down once in a while because it could be an exaggeration.

[Asker]

For some reason, i even cursed at your post and felt like it was an attack to me

[Opinion Owner]

Well, that isn't something I can help you with. Asking a question, and then getting mad at the people who are genuinely trying to help, isn't being a rational person. That's something that YOU need to understand. You have to put in some work, too. You aren't going to change anything overnight.

Good luck with everything.

[Asker]

You are probably a helpful good guy, i guess

[Nominal]

Why do you think you egoistic and arogant? Maybe girl call you like that, because you were not interested to be a clown? XD i had even this situation in life XD so, i can't help you, Go to the psychologist, they should have great questions, and i believe after some work u will find something. Dont be surprized if you fooling your self that you Are the problem.

[HorggleThorp]

Maybe you’re just a prime example of the Dunning-Kruger Affect.

[Bethany22]

Do you think that it is humbling when people are nice to you?

[Asker]

Humbling for me or i think they are humble?

[Bethany22]

to you

[Asker]

I don't treat them bad but i still judge them and think they are inferior to me

[bean2k21]

Your self-importance is obviously you lying to yourself. Think about managers versus leaders. Managers may have people work for them, but leaders have people who follow them. Based on how you treat people, you will never be the latter.

[NathanDavis]

join any MMA gym and practice with them...

if you can keep up... you should start noticing some change before the first two months

[FilmGuy93]

Every time you get to thinking you’re someone important; try telling someone else’s dog what to do.

[BJP21]

Slow your roll, shut your mouth, and simply listen. It will take time and patience on your part to put this into practice.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

A good and hard suffering for a period of time and difficult trials will cure it or significantly cause you to be more humble.

[Anonymous]

Hang a stop sign above your head where you sleep.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, asking that question is the first step. So I commend you for that.

[Anonymous]

It'll happen eventually. Life has a way of humbling people. And if not then you're probably beyond help.

[Anonymous]

Narcississtic personality disorder

[In_Trance]

go to bootcamp

[Asker]

For what?

[In_Trance]

An ass kicking. It'll change your perspective

[Asker]

You look like a rotten tomato

[In_Trance]

you like guys