Is it weird to tell a doctor you think they're cute?

[Anonymous]

I can't help myself!

How would he feel? Is it violating? Would it put a strain on the medical relationship?

[AviatorTom]

If he's single and available, it may be okay to tell him he's cute and see how he reacts. In all other situations, though, that would be very wrong, and put a strain on the doctor-patient relationship.

[Dutch1987]

Yes, it is weird. Comparable to hitting on a waitress, except his pay is higher. Trying to make advances on a captive audience is predatory behaviour. And no, gender doesn’t matter.

[Asker]

☹️☹️

[Dutch1987]

You can be sad all you want, but that’s how it comes across. I recommend pursuing a relationship with a man that is available and free to make his own choices.

[Asker]

He's a ortho surgeon:)

[Asker]

Ur right. He might get upset ☹️🫤😐. If I really like him I shouldn't do that

[Asker]

Also, I'm not asking him to make a choice. Just harmless flirting

[musicbrain5]

Yes, that's weird and it puts him in a difficult position. This crosses a strict professional boundary and he would have every right not to keep you on his roster of patients.

[SnowedIn]

Yes. Very weird and unprofessional of you. They are there to do a job.

And, yes, you CAN help yourself. You just don't open your mouth.

It's not weird to think it but weird to tell them.

[Anonymous]

better not it won't end well he'll terminate you as a patient. the second woman i loved was my former therapist back in 2015-2017 maybe late 2016. it was a rollercoaster relationship i got transferred to someone else who was a complete screwup. years later she married some guy. after her i fell in love with D--- the third person i truly ever deeply loved. she was my final and last. to this day i still love her even though I hadn't spoken to her in 3 weeks now

[TheorionMage]

Foremost, BEFORE they BECAME a doctor; they were FIRST a human,
and appreciate being considered 'desirable'.
Though societally, ... it introduces hypocritical paradoxical complications.

[BJP21]

Hey, I have a hot looking Endocrinologist, I can only imagine what position she's in dealing with mens sex hormones that are out of balance. she's got to deal with some real corndogs.

[AngryCarl2]

Would you be okay with your doctor hitting on you? What if he was ugly or a woman? Or worst, an ugly woman.

[Asker]

But he's not 😏

[AngryCarl2]

That's not the point.

[msc545]

I hear this occasionally. In my specialty, it's just more data, and I don't mind or take it personally.

[KostasKouvalis]

I personally wouldn't. You go to the doctor because you're sick, not because you're single.

[Asker]

It's not that I'm necessarily trying to hook up. Just for the thrill of it..

[KostasKouvalis]

I feel it would be awkward

[Drumlin2001]

It's weird. And they wouldn't be able to do anything with you as it'll be highly unethical

[TallAnon]

I mean, bit odd to say while he's looking at any intimate places, lol

[es20490446e]

Light headed flirting is okay.

[Asker]

Like? Examples?

[es20490446e]

"You doctor know plenty of details about the body"

[es20490446e]

Leaving the other person guessing what you mean usually works out nicely.

[Asker]

Anything bone related?😆 he's an ortho surgeon

[Asker]

🦴🦴

[es20490446e]

"I wouldn't mind having such bone in my pocket"

[Asker]

What does that mean? 🤔😆

[es20490446e]

That's the point.

[Asker]

I don't think it makes sense lol

[Asker]

Pretty random too

[es20490446e]

The more random it is, the more hilarious it gets.

[Asker]

Nah 😳 I think I'll skip

[es20490446e]

For me it actually works so well.

Just say something that can be misinterpreted.

[Asker]

I need more examples 😮‍💨🤔

[es20490446e]

You have to come up with those in place.

[Asker]

? What

[es20490446e]

It depend a lot on the context and conversation.

[MidnightOwl57]

Ewww 🤢

[es20490446e]

@MidnightOwl57 Just go there, and you will figure it out. Just do something simple.

[MidnightOwl57]

I mean no offense, but do you honestly think these pickup lines would work in this context? They sound a bit cringey. A certain way to embarrass yourself lol 😂

[Asker]

@MidnightOwl57 I agree

[es20490446e]

@MidnightOwl57 That's the point, they are obviously hilarious on purpose.

And they work, they do for me all the time. People laugh stupidly at them.

Intonation is important.

[MidnightOwl57]

Oh ok then lol

[serious]

No I think it is totally fine.

[ChefPapiChulo]

That is stupid

[Asker]

Why ☹️☹️

[bigboy133]

It is against their profession

[Anonymous]

Don't tell him just rub your butt on his dick...

[sarahstar13]

That sounds like a bit much.

[canobiwan]

@sarahstar13 he could be hypersexual

[sarahstar13]

@canobiwan That would be a good reason why.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think it is.