Do you think this meme is actually true and relevant in society?

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inhua · Accepted Answer

it's called the Halo Effect and Devil Effect

studies have been made to show that positive traits are automatically attributed to attractive people and negative traits are automatically attributed to ugly people upon first encounters.

it's for the same reasons why frogs and spiders scare us but kittens and puppy dogs don't. it's hardwired into our brains with be afraid of such things but because men are suppose to be brave, we tend to be less scared of "creepy" things.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/PxuUkYiaUc8

handsome + flirting = charming / ugly + flirting = creepy

handsome + confidence = hot / ugly + confidence = arrogance

handsome + kind = gentleman / ugly + kind = manipulative or grooming

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

No. If someone makes something into a sexual issue that’s not. It shows whose minds in the gutter.

7Phoenix7 · Accepted Answer

Sometimes, if a woman is attracted to the guy that gives her compliments on the way she looks she won’t mind but if a guy she doesn’t find attractive does it then she’s offended (unwelcome sexual advances they say?) I think it’s true for some women but not all of us. Any guy that has complimented me at work has gotten a simple thank you from me. The only time I had a problem was when one of my coworkers slid his hands around my waist and pulled me into him from behind while no one was around. I asked him not to do that as it’s inappropriate and he stopped… no need to report

Red-Blaze · Accepted Answer

Honestly I know how some may see it, but there is more then just there look here that changes it
First guy has hand in the pocket flinging the second one with the comment, seems like his just walking by and commenting
The second guy has a hand on the cubical, standing as steping foward and stright facing in
Both give very diffrent vibes from body langrage more then body shape

But if we ignore that and say that its only on looks then ya pepole are sadly pron to be more fogiving to a good look person over a less handsome one and that is sad and true

Spongebobssocks · Answer

No I think this is whats made up in media not in real life. I've seen women be harrased by men they would consider attractive if it wasent for what he did. But the image above is just a compliment. I wouldn't think anything off it.

Harrasment is like threatening to rape someone or walking straight up behind her and grab her butt.

If a worker said that to me (in your pic) i would have just answered with "thanks bro" if I wasent intressted. And then move on

IAmAzzurra · Answer

Absolutely not. I work with a guy who actually looks like the guy in the second photo, and he has so much. Charisma and so much confidence & self assuredness that we have all, at one point, had a bit of a thing for him.

JustMeL120 · Answer

Yes so true. Thats what i keep telling other girls. Just cuz a man is young and nice lookong doesn't mean he is not a massive perv.

Nikki1989 · Answer

That is not reality at all. That is the kind of nonsense incels spew all the time.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

This one is relevant for you

menina · Answer

Yes, I think it's true and relevant, even though it's sad and unfair.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

Haha yes, that meme is a classic incel meme, one of my favourites.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It could be possibly not to sure?

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