What is most important to you these days?

[fuddly]

These days what i think about

Sex

Money

Affection

My partner

Children

Career

Another

Updates

+1 y

Men say sexWomen say money🙂🙂🙂

Updates

+1 y

My own opinionFirst as always, my kidsNext, affection/ love.. That seems to have evaporated and hasn't been seen in many years

[Anonymous]

I'm having to basically start over with my career (long story). I've always been bad at marketing. I am great at my job. But somewhere "lost in translation" is the "convincing them to pay for all my work" part; that's is the hard part. So I try lots of different things, and my mind is usually on how I can do something better with work; try to come up with something different to offer (and how to promote it). A new angle. Then there's practice time. Researching equipment, perhaps... The rest of my day boils down to just doing the mundane adult chores a lot of people have. But even then, any big "down time" (while, say, getting a tire rotation or waiting for a doctor) I'm trying to do something productive for work.

[AngryCarl2]

I'm too old for sex so I voted money. Old and poor is a bad combination.

[fuddly]

Seriously, is 64 too old for sex

I hope not

[AngryCarl2]

Thanks for MHO!

[catarecute]

money is always useful. can save your life. can feed you and never insults you. never leave you for someone else never make you feel ugly or dumb never cheat can buy you sex love beauty can entertain you. why would you need a man when you can have money.

[fuddly]

Also children cost money

So can't manage without money

And for a guy, attracting a girl costs money

[catarecute]

attracting a a girl doesn't cost money it cost not being a dick. simple

[fuddly]

That sounds right
But in real life a woman gravitates towards the guy with money
Even if he is a dick 🙂

[catarecute]

honestly i dont think so. women who are poor might gravitate towards a man with money. but the rest of them dont realy.

[fuddly]

Well yes
In my experience, nobody has enough money

[catarecute]

i think women prefer love and attention over money. in fact that is why the like money because it brings them love and attention when they are seen walking in their pretty dresses and shoes they feel beautiful and love themselves and get loads of attention.

[fuddly]

You see, already you're making a link from love to nice things which cost money.
So easy to see how things can go wrong

[catarecute]

what i mean is oney is often a compensation for lack of love and affection. that why when parents are not verry loving the compensate by spoiling their kids. if a man is loving to his wife gives her attention. hugs her talks to her nicely treat her like a queen. even if he is poor it will compensate. you should try it with a girl and you will see i was right.

[catarecute]

*money

[fuddly]

The best things in life are free

[catarecute]

i rather a kind poor guy than a rich a hole

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Affection

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’ve always craved it.

[fuddly]

You can't depend on affection

It can quickly disappear in s relationship

And what do you do then? Become single?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I mean affection as Love.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Just love wasn’t the choice in Poll.

[fuddly]

Yes, i understand love the feeling rather than sex
But in marriage it can disappear
But sex can continue
I fully agree it's probably the most important but most fragile

[Hawkes_Lady]

Finding a lover, that turns into the man of my dreams that loves me just as much who wants to spend the rest of our lives together fucking and having the time of our lives however we see fit!

[fuddly]

Affection, partner and sex?

[Hawkes_Lady]

Okay, but that wasn't an option, I had to pick one which is why I went with another. Yes, but then again technically I want it all!

[TrueConfection]

I voted children, which basically defaults to the rest... sex, money, career, etc.

[fuddly]

I get it now

To get children you need
Sex
Money
Career
Partner

Very good, i agree @TrueConfection

[TrueConfection]

That's pretty true. I have the children. That means, I don't have the amount time or privacy I'd like for sex and affection from my husband. I'm always thinking about finances which leads to career thoughts... and back to thinking about children.

[Lliam]

My wife and my home, our health, and enough money to survive.

[thegreenyogi]

Surviving in the best way possible mentally and physically.

[strateguy632]

about " Men say sex, Women say money" that would explain the need for law for no pimp prostitution.

[EmmaMary]

Purely the health and wellbeing of our two children.

[WhitneySnow]

School my boyfriend and my friends. And I guess affection too.

[SPIRIT208]

I’m just focusing on getting through school rn 😬

[genericname85]

my alone time for myself.

[fuddly]

That's a bit like peace of mind
Good one

[Staximus]

My brother and not getting shot at work

[fuddly]

Dangerous job!

[zoe2187]

My kids will always be the most important to me.

[Anonymous]

physical pleasure and being constantly entertained

[exitseven]

Lately it has been my wife.

[Ninania]

Safety.

[fuddly]

That's interesting
Care to expand?

[BobbieBoy666]

My nude time is very important to me. 💞💞

[Paris13]

My Lords. xxoo

[Reem12345reem]

health and money

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Peace of mind.

[fuddly]

Good thinking.

I forgot that one

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

We all too often undervalue it.

[Iron_Man]

My girl she’s out that I have all alone now

[sage2021]

@Iron_Man
Hun... your answer isn't very clear. Did you and your girlfriend break up and now you are all alone? Us that what you mean?

[Iron_Man]

@sage2021 she’s not my girlfriend she’s just a friend Paris

[Iron_Man]

I am doing her a favor she wanted to post in your MyTake

[driven159]

most important is enjoying my retirement.

[Astarlessnightsky]

being healthy

[legalboxers]

happiness

[fuddly]

Gosh that is another one i forgot
Happiness and peace of mind

Thing is happiness is the culmination of everything else being aligned.
So to have happiness you must tick all those other boxes first

Just thought of another one... Health