What's your deepest insecurity?

[Simslover92]

Mines is I feel like I'm not as smart as people think I am and I'm afraid that I will eventually do something really stupid to prove my insecurity right.

[smne35]

That's tough to keep within you, but if this helps you to put that to rest cool, ask yourself this, how did you do in school, did you struggle or was it easy no worry's, are you having difficulty holding your own in most discussion, you understand and follow what's being talked about, do you usually have a solution when asked about solving something do you think you make good decisions in your life, these may seem like basic questions but you would be surprised how many people struggle with done if not all of these, don't ever sell yourself short be humbled but no need to show it be yourself and be proud of you intelligence not shy away from it or have it cause you to second guess yourself, have doubts, always feel and display confidence, it's ok to be smart in what ever way you are that's who you are embrace it with confidence, hope that wasn't over the top, you think, a bit much, remove what doubts you have your only human after all, we all make mistakes at some point

[Simslover92]

Thank so much for this. I truly appreciate it! 😊

[smne35]

Hope it helps, your very welcome

[NathanDavis]

I used to be extremely shy as a kid, and a teen... which would always had me feeling insecure and anxious among strangers... but, not anymore, I got through that over the years...

[Simslover92]

That's great. I'm glad you overcame it! Wish I could say the same.

[NathanDavis]

there's still time (=

[Simslover92]

I know but it seems like it will never happen for me.

[NathanDavis]

I understand, because I felt the same way for a long time... but, it can always get bit better... at least

[Simslover92]

I hope so. I'm trying to get better with being more social but it's not easy. Hopefully by the end of 2024 I'll be more social and less shy.

[NathanDavis]

what about therapy, guidance... have you tried any of that before?

[Simslover92]

Can't afford going to therapy unfortunately.

[NathanDavis]

friends? family? someone close you trust?

[Simslover92]

Yes I have my boyfriend whose trying to help me get out of my shell and it's slowly but surely working.

[Anonymous]

I often question my self worth when people acted off to me, it makes me feel like I’m crazy

[Thestupidusername]

My face

[Simslover92]

I'm sure you have a lovely face!

[Thestupidusername]

I doubt it but thank you:)

[Simslover92]

You're welcome! 😊

[Simslover92]

And you shouldn't doubt it by the way.

[Thestupidusername]

Lol yes but thanks

[AmeerX]

Most girls who are ugly think they are beautiful and then we have girls like these who are truly beautiful and amazing but are insecure. You don't have to feel insecure about yourself

[Thestupidusername]

@AmeerX thank you.. non of you have seen me but alright thank you:)

[AmeerX]

Hey, it happens and you will know you are indeed beautiful even without showing it

[Thestupidusername]

@AmeerX maybe one day.. thanks again

[AmeerX]

Sounds like someone has not been treated well 😅. You weren't bullied were you?

[Thestupidusername]

@AmeerX lol😭 uhm yeah but doesn't matter😂

[AmeerX]

😅 I don't know what to say. I feel sorry for you

[Thestupidusername]

@AmeerX dont it doesn't help anyone:)

[AmeerX]

I know:). Are you a psychologist?

[Thestupidusername]

@AmeerX nope:) not close. Am a personal assistent to a kid with special needs.

Are you?

[AmeerX]

Wow, doesn't he tell you are beautiful. It's really nice what you do. What does he have?

And no, I am not but I just feel like you know how to read a person :).

[Thestupidusername]

@AmeerX i dont lol.. am slcially retarded😂

He has autism, epilepsy and limited intelligence.

What do you do?

[AmeerX]

Oh I hope he is alright. Autism isn't that bad:). I know some people who have autism and they are fine. Epilepsy can be issue but I hope he will be alright. Yes intelligence can be an issue. My uncle's son, my cousin have those. So, they have good care for him.

So that makes you a nurse. It's so cool. And you sure don't seem socially retarded:). Did you enjoy Christmas?

I have been a research associate. I am a Manager and now I manage the family farm and estate 😊. And I have experience with tubewells, orchards and stuff like that. I tried to be a dentist 😅 back in the days but everyone was just not passionate about the profession so I just left it

[Thestupidusername]

@AmeerX nah am not a nurse.
But thank you!

You do a lot! Thats great! You clearly worked hard for it

[AmeerX]

:) yeah, we operated 2 tubewells on solar panels by Christmas ⛄.
But you are also doing a great service. See you are just shy but if you don't try to reach out to others you can't know how they are:). It's really nice to talk to you. And lol, I can be lazy when I want to 🤣

[Thestupidusername]

@AmeerX alright thank you lolll.

I think we all can😅

[Snkrhoss]

I know it’s a common or cliché answer, but it would definitely be my penis size but more so when i’m flaccid. When I’m hard it’s nothing impressive but not terrible. But for whatever reason when I’m flaccid I am extremely small so small. If you were to see it you assume that I likely have a micropenis and would never think it grows as much as it does there’s been a few times when girls have seen me in that state, and it was extremely embarrassing. I remember when I told my wife that I can get incredibly small flaccid more so than normal and she didn’t believe me then I sent her a picture one day, and she was shocked

[Simslover92]

I can understand that. My boyfriend is not the biggest flaccid but when it grows its pretty big for me.

[aceleon]

i guess i fear i have no place in man groups, since i never had any interest in football and cars i never was able to manage to fit in with my fellow males including my own father, it is almost too easy talking with girls but with males even if forming friendships are easy, keeping them together is hard for me cuz i can't talk about this 2 things.

[veganrogue]

Not so much anymore as I'm older and quite comfortable in my skin. But I used to feel really insecure about my height. 5'9" for a guy is 'normal' but I wanted to be at least 6'.

[Simslover92]

My boyfriend is only 5'5 so you should definitely be secure in your height. There are a lot of guys way under 5'9. You're lucky. 😊

[Sonorous]

My looks for sure. Next is probably my intelligence. Next is probably any other perceived masculine characteristic.

[Simslover92]

I'm sure your looks are fine. And as far as your intelligence goes, you seem really smart from the answers you have given on here.

[Sonorous]

Well no matter how much I hear that, my brain will never fully be able to agree with it. It will still be extremely hard on me 🤣 but thanks though, that's nice of you to say

[Simslover92]

You're welcome and I understand completely. That's how I feel about my intelligence.

[Sonorous]

Though my family & friends all say that I'm above average intelligence, I prefer to say that I'm average intelligence. It feels like a safer option. Like there's less pressure on me. It's why I often like to joke about any mental inadequacies I have. 🤣 To release the tension I feel.

[Simslover92]

Same here. My family and friends say the same but I prefer to say I have average intelligence.

[Anonymous]

That I do God's will because it's what he'd want of me rather than because I want to do his will.

I mean don't get me wrong I want to help people. But it's hard for me to do it without judgement a lot of times. Some people are thier own worst enemy. And helping them is an exercise in futility. So I do it knowing full well I'm probably wasting my time.

[kingmaker21]

Success & richness is my insecurity...
So i always make sure I'm successful & rich. Rest i don't have any insecurity.

[kingmaker21]

And relax you don't look smart as you think so no need to feel insecure...

[Simslover92]

Thanks.

[kingmaker21]

Did anyone told you that you look smart?

[Simslover92]

Yeah I get that a lot especially since I'm a Librarian.

[kingmaker21]

No don't take them seriously you're cute sweetheart not smart ata ll.

[Fireguy17]

That someday I will make a wrong decision at an incident that we responded to and someone will be hurt or not becoming home anymore.
It's kind of like the sword of Damaclies hanging over your head.

[Anonymous]

New father here. I've been thinking about Something happening to my girlfriend and having to raise our daughter on my own. I don't know if I could do it without her.

[Simslover92]

Aww I can understand that. That would be devastating if something like that were to happen but hopefully it doesn't.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you

[KrakenAttackin]

I worry about becoming physically disabled then homeless.

[Simslover92]

Same here. That's definitely next on the list for me. I worry that I will lose my job and become homeless.

[sawno]

My burnout in the case it ends up uncurable.

[OddBeMe]

Freud would say sex. If our partners really enjoy it.
Jung would say our reputation, or our persona to the world.

I see a middle ground.

[AmeerX]

I just feel like I do much work even though people tell me I do

[AmeerX]

Don't*

[SoJust]

I dont use before but maybe now I use

[Anonymous]

Poverty