Why are black women going for white men now a days?

[Anonymous]

I know I'm going to get back lash for this question but I'm genuinely curious. It's being said more and more that white men treat black women more nicer and are sweeter. The saying " hard wig, soft life " trending more and more now. What's the truth behind it all

[Altheavas]

I have no idea why it’s such a trends, people should date whomever they wish. I actually cringe by this trend and the videos. I think the trend is coming from black African American women, probably to let other BAAW know that it’s okay to explore and seek love in other race and that it’s okay to date other races. Caribbean people never had that race limitation in dating different shade of people.


Historically, systemic challenges, such as discrimination and socioeconomic disparities, have placed immense pressure on the Black males in the U. S. Many families were divided, leaving a lack of positive male figures. This situation often forced Black women into the role of the main breadwinner, taking on responsibilities traditionally associated with both mother and father, contributing to the emergence of the strong Black woman stereotype. These dynamics reflect broader societal issues. The safety of Black men in society has been a longstanding concern, with disproportionate rates of violence, police shootings, and incarceration.
The historical challenges faced by Black men, including systemic issues and incarceration rates, have impacted family dynamics. The dismantling of traditional roles, where Black men faced obstacles in providing and protecting their families, has left Black women unprotected. Now Black African American are working against all these obstacles by raising and protecting their family. The trauma hasn’t completely eradicated yet but it’s being address.



Either-way, If the white men weren’t interested in her-(the black women) they wouldn’t be together either. The black woman is the only race of woman that usually speak their mind and not submissive to a man that shows her no respect. I’m guessing a certain percentage of white men are raised on how to be a better husband, and we’re raised on how to better treat their women. Once a black woman meet a man that treat her right, that don’t fit her in the stereotypes of a strong black woman, that bring out her soft-side, that brings out her feminine side, that makes her happy like any women from any other race would, if their partner treats her right.
Being called a strong black woman sounds like an insult to make her feel less of a woman than any other woman of different races. After all she’s a strong and resilient woman, that is true not by choice, but by perseverance from all the obstacles she faced. (Mixed with dark sarcasm- White man were always interested in black woman, those horny bunnies had no limit, even during slavery, its was their society order of the new world that didn’t allowed such relationships, however some interracial romance did persevere. The black race DNA has plenty of their enslave ancestors owner’s DNA within them)

I am not generalizing all white man. There are some pretty nasty characters not needed and to be shunned back to caucus mountain, good lordt, I’m glad I only judge people by individual character and not as whole.
Some white man probably is looking for better food and good homemade cuisine with some actual flavor, and taste, not blend, or potato salad, or eating sandwiches for every meal, breakfast, diner, and supper, 😂!
Maybe it’s not all fetishized, I don’t know! 🤷🏾‍♀️


There would be too much to share on this subject.
I can’t speak for white men, Or for all black women, However, that’s a piece of my take of the Increase in international dating.

[Anonymous]

If you're not black you should stay in your lane and not worry what black women are doing. Enjoy yourself with Tyrone while we enjoy ourselves with Brad.

[NamerOfStars]

Well, if all the white guys are going for Asian women (as stereotypes dictate), then it's only natural you'd have a lot of single white women. So they go for black men, and black women go for... let's say Hispanic men, whose sisters go for Indian guys, leaving their women to go for the other kind of Indian guys, and eliminate that stupid linguistic annoyance once and for all (it's not often you can bang a problem out of existence; they'd be fools to ignore the opportunity). Their women, in turn, go for Asian guys, and the circle is complete.

[Anonymous]

Just look at the statistics for your answer. The vast majority of black children don't have fathers in their lives. A lot of black men are gang bangers. Black men represent 7% of the population yet they are responsible for more than half of all murders committed each year.

[ManHater]

because black men don't work and black women want a free ride.

[Cristinaissweet]

I think all women want a "free ride"... and when you say free ride you must mean to be provided for.