Why are beautiful white women beginning to prefer black men?

Question

I've noticed the past couple months when I go out to the mall or other social venues that I'll see many more white women with black men than I would have seen say 15 years ago. Additionally, the women are usually very beautiful and aren't at all, at least anymore, the stereotype of being fat or trashy. It's rather discouraging considering that as a relatively good looking white guy, I'm unlikely to get a girl the same caliber.

What do you think the reason is for this trend?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That's not true at all. According to marriage statistics, most people end up with people in side their race. There is a mix of beautiful and ugly (and everything in between) white girls that date interracially, not just all of one side or the other. Considering that black people make up about 13% of America's population, black guys must be dating a couple of white girls at a time. lol and if they're letting that happen, who wants them anyway? Maybe you're insecure and happen to notice those couplings more than the several other white-white couples that you looked over before them?

If I am missing these signs and you are correct, might I suggest a hot Latina?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's not all about looks. Black men or well at least the more civilized ones will dress in cool hip cloths and I'm not talking gangster. Women tend to find a guys style much more appealing than his looks. Of course there are some ground rules in the physical looks department. But in general women prefer how a man carries himself.

And this trend is increasing because a lot of the social stigma of interracial dating has gone. Also there isn't as much media attention on a mans looks as there are on a women's looks. Like with men it's only muscles and height. But for a women it's skin tone, height, breast, ass, lips, eyes, hair and etc.

peace-love-couture · Accepted Answer

Why does it matter to you who goes out with who?

I don't understand the pathetic obsession with race on this site. Get over it. Chances are you had no chance with the beautiful girl to begin with. So don't blame her racial preference on your stupidity.

There's more to relationships than race or ethnicity. Perhaps you choose to use race as a crutch but not every other person in the world does.

pr3ttybr0wn · Accepted Answer

it may depend where you live but from what I've seen beautiful white women date black men if they are rich or famous. if the black man is a regular guy then the girl...well...lemme hush lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

From reading this I have the feeling that you are a black dude pretending as a white dude?

Roman01 · Answer

When you're now living in a society where white people, especially white men, are constantly being demonized as all being racist or white supremacists, this tends to make some white people hate their own race and skin color and feel guilt for being white.

When every commercial or movie you watch promotes and forces interracial relationships down our throats, especially relationships between white women and black men as being the ideal relationships, this tends to indoctrinate white women into wanting to be in such relationships, especially when their friends are in such relationships. White girls also know that if they reject any black man who wants to date them, they will be called a RACIST! Nothing, and I mean nothing scares and intimidates white people more than being called a racist. So there are forces who use this as a racial political weapon against white people.

When you have an adult film industry that promotes the idea the black men are racially superior to white men who have a bigger penis, this tends to make white women want to experiment for themselves as if male worth all comes down to having the right skin color and penis size.

When white people are being brainwashed that ONLY white majority countries need to be multicultural and multiracial because white majority countries are racist and supremacists, again, this causes white people to feel guilt and shame for being white. So white people begin to take steps that will eventually lead to their own demise. Racial mixing and having their countries overrun with the third world until white people become a disenfranchised minority is what's happening and will continue.

There are many white people in the US and in Europe who literally hate their own race and skin color due to being guilted and shamed for being white who buy into all of the racial propaganda and stereotypes in which evil people
in power help promote to both adults and children. Is it any wonder you have white girls today who will ONLY date black men while they have no problem racially discriminating against their own race as if white men are worthless for being white.
Something ironically they would be labeled racist for if they ONLY wanted to dated white men.

We are living in truly sick times where racial hypocrisy and double standards are now institutionalized into the fabric of America. Anti-white racial hatred is everywhere and celebrated. It's in the MSM and social media. It's in the public schools and universities. It's in the movies and TV shows and commercials you watch. All designed to cause racial hatred not only amongst POC but also in white people themselves. No telling what will happen to a white minority living under such conditions in the coming decades.

Ilovehotblondes · Answer

I often see a lot of people say that only fat ugly stupid white girls go for black men.
I wish it was only fat ugly white girls with low intelligence that date, marry and breed with black men.
Sadly it's the exact opposite. It's always the most beautiful and most intelligent and always natural very blonde with bright blue eyes and very fair skin, very Nordic white girls that go for black men.
I know many very beautiful and very intelligent natural blonde blue-eyed white women who are with black men.
I know a lot of people say blondes are dumb.
That however is far from true.
Natural blonde blue-eyed white women are definitely not dumb.
In fact they are very intelligent.
They are the most intelligent women on the planet.
Most beautiful too.
However they are also the most naive and too trusting and friendly for their own good.
Sadly their naivety and being too trusting is why so many very beautiful and very intelligence nature blonde blue-eyed white women end up falling for black men.
Tragically, the most beautiful and most intelligent natural blonde blue-eyed white girls I know are all with black men.

It seems the blonder, bluer eyed, fairer skinned , more beautiful and more intelligent a natural blonde blue eyed white girl is the darker and dumber the black man she goes for.
Blue eyed natural blondes are the most intelligent and of course the most beautiful.
However they are also the most naive and most trusting.
Therefore the most easily brainwashed despite being so intelligent.

Natural blonde blue eyed women being so naive and trusting combined with the Jews brainwashing them into believing opposites attract and that it's good to date, marry and have kids with black men lead many very beautiful very intelligent natural blonde blue eyed white girls to love and prefer the exact opposite of them.
Unfortunately this is why the blondest, bluest eyed, fairest skinned, most Nordic, most beautiful, most intelligent white girls almost always end up going for the darkest, ugliest dumbest, laziest most vile looking black men.
Even more sad most of these girls are not sluts at all and are actually very nice sweet and innocent.
That's another reason they end up falling for black men. They are just too nice to reject them and white men too afraid to ask them out out of fear of being rejected.

Tragically the most beautiful most intelligent , blondest, longest haired, bluest eyed, fairest skinned, whitest white woman I have ever seen- an absolutely drop dead gorgeous Swedish girl who has the shiniest, silkiest, healthiest, mist beautiful natural pure platinum blonde hair that is so long it reaches all the way down to and onto the floor (she always wears it down too), and her eyelashes, eyebrows, are pure platinum blonde just like the hair on her head, the lightest, bluest, brightest, most beautiful eyes (her eyes are so blue and so bright they're bluer and brighter than the bluest skies), very beautiful extremely fair skin (the fairest non-albino I have ever seen), the most beautiful innocent looking face, mot beautiful whitest smile, and a perfect body, large natural boobs, was straight A+ student in school and college, valedictorian, top student in school and college, and allowed to graduate early because she's so intelligent, also very hard working and very successful - is sadly married to and have kids with the darkest ugliest black man I have ever seen.
Absolutely heartbreaking as she is absolutely perfect in every way except for the fact she's married to and has kids with a black man.
What makes it even more heartbreaking is the fact that she's actually a very nice innocent and sweet girl.
She's also not a slut at all either.
She's actually and has always been very against promiscuity and sex before marriage.
In fact she's by far the nicest sweetest person I've ever known.
She's helped me with so much and taught me so much
Though this may have made her even more susceptible to falling for a black man.

Anonymous · Answer

I think its the trend for these days to be dating a black guy, I live in an area where its mostly Hispanic culture, and let me tell you, I have heard girls "obsessing" over black guys, particularly the tall muscular ones, "thug" looking ones, so-to-speak. I think the indoctrination comes from rap music and the fact that the music industry has a lot of slang (particularly with black men) that encourages women to think, "hey if everyone is doing it, maybe its worth something to look at" , and/or because white women want interracial babies.

some of the slang that i have heard:
to describe a "person on the side"- Side n***a
to describe a close friend (Lots of other meanings as well not just friend) -n**a
to describe a white woman that loves black men in particular -snow bunny
to describe the opinion that black men are "irresistible" - once you go black you never go back

These are to name a few.
In conclusion, I think that our culture (the little that the U. S. has) has grown to make it a trend to date black men particularly the type the kind that i have described above, I don't claim to be racist, bigot or prejudice (if you don't know the meaning of the other two then you need to get educated) but dating black men because its a trend then that goes to show how dumb people are in the US and why i think some people despise interracial relationships. But i don't think people need to stop dating interracial only because its a trend. I don't hear anyone making up slang words for any other ethnicity group that describe those particular type of men in a positive way or describe (in this case) a white woman to be attracted to white, Asian, Hispanic men.

I don't claim to be a researcher though i research and i think im observant enough to make these opinions just like everyone else. So dont bash on me calling me all these "racist" names or say that im insecure because it would be dumb of you to do so as this is an opinion.

Rottz · Answer

It's the dumbing down of society. Look at the way those women dress, act, and what type of music they listen to, what their hobbies are -- They are trash.

Don't worry too much, Bro. It's a fake perception, fake reality created by the people that own the media, and entertainment industry. The reason why that industry is anti-White, is simply because they come from the Middle East, they are not White.

It is called Kalergi Plan. They are trying to indoctrinate everyone to lower their standards and accept the Black. They want to wipe out the European White race by mass immigration. London is 45% White today. Not just White Europeans, but the whole world in general. They know the mixing of Black lowers the IQ. The average IQ of Africa is 70.

Once the Whites are wiped out, the tribe from the Middle East will be the Pale Ones: "The Light unto the World". Read their Holy Books.

They promote all this mixing, but back home they promote the opposite and purity.

Jimmylover · Answer

Nobody will probably give you the honest answer so I will. The reason this is becoming more prevalent is that women have been forced to open up their options for a relationship that they hope might turn into something serious. Marriage is starting to die in the western world because of feminism and obviously in the western world the majority of people are white. This means more and more white men are turned off by the idea of marriage because at any time your wife can take away your house and your children and maybe even half your pension on a simple whim and the courts will completely allow it. Divorce is completely stacked against men and it is very common since the rates are now about 50%. With more and more white men declining marriage and just wanting to hook up or date only or even become celibate women must include other types of men in the equation because the number of women that want finial security through a partner is still very high even though they make their own money now. Men produce more than they consume and women consume more than they produce and this has always been the reason women have desired a man along with wanting offspring. It has much more detail than this but this is the entire reason in a nutshell. Period

MrSwish · Answer

It’s definitely a “trend”/fad. However pop culture has always made black people appear as whats cool and knowing whats “cool”
Mixture of things come into play in my opinion, from hip hop being the most popular form of music. (Kids from the suburbs speak like they are about to spit bars now). Females from ages 12-30 are treating Megan the stallion and Cardi B like exemplary figures. Every few years gets replaced by a new female artist practicing the same norms. To porn glorifying the bbc”
The young white “woman” (18-35) and definitely older ones probably grew up seeing black guys as exotic”, wouldn’t know how their dad/grandparents would feel she dated one.
Today, I truly feel like some white women think they are doing some sort of social justice by dating a black. They think they are sticking it to their racist ancestors and They think they are pushing the envelope in doing so, even if it means putting up with things that she would not tolerate from anyone else (THIS)
But ultimately they just want to date the fictitious guy Megan the Stallion talks about in her songs. 🤷‍♂️

Anonymous · Answer

Its probably because white women notice black guys as out performing white guys in all sports. It might also be because black guys in rap care a lot about getting materialistic crap whereas white guys don't. It could also be because the media has constantly been bashing white men in movies and commercials. Also supposedly black guys have bigger you know what. The fact that suicide is in the top 10 causes of death among white guys makes women see us as being weak. Also white women think that a lot of us white guys are like Steve O from jackass and Beavis and Butthead. Also the media makes white men look bad by depicting us as narrow minded.

It can't be for any other reason then what I've stated.

Camilus · Answer

Sorry black troll dude, but I've noticed the exact opposite.

When white women first started dating black guys in big numbers back in the early 90's it was good-looking white women. Now the only women I see that are really still chasing black guys are ruthless and toothless, and typically pudgy as sh*t.

realkerry · Answer

Look everyone is different ,
This site flashed up on my phone mysteriously but I've been dating a black guy since July he's a rapper , i broke up from a long term relationship in may with a white south African guy who was an alcoholic , i even had the chance to be with a famous white rapper who just always kept asking me for money all the time funnily or not , so when i lost my beloved nan to corona i realised love is way more important than money because it just feels so good , he calls me his vanilla dream and actually asked me to marry him saying im one in a billion and he loves my mentality , so some of these comments are crazy , love is love ots not about the color of someones skin its about how you both click , my current boyfriend was my best friend and im happy , he makes me happy i make music for him and elevate him , thats all that matters , there will always be people that wanna break us up but he knows what he likes and so do i , xxxxxxx

G-Daz · Answer

I get the feeling you are a black troll?

If not then why does it bother you, you arn't dating them so why do you care? some white girls date out, at least they're open what's stopping you from dating other races too or you want to live within you're small box? pay less attention to what someone else is doing and more to yourself smh...

bradeddy32 · Answer

because white men are chasing after the Asian women.

perhaps just stick to your own, stop complaining about how white women can be difficult at times and be a man, then maybe white women won't have to date non whites.. I mean it's really not that hard to get along with white women. most white men need to start acting more manly and stop acting like little bitches. hit the gym more, try to have at least 2 white kids.. keep white people around.. because we are fading away quicker than necessary.

stop letting others make you feel like you're racist for only wanting to date within your own to preserve your traits.. Blonde and Red hair are fading away along with blue and green eyes. all because you have a bunch of tools who overuse the word racist. there's no reason for whites to be targeted the way we are..

also, for you black dudes out there.. not every single white woman wants you.. just like not every single Asian woman wants a white man..

Sparks32 · Answer

Because white people are told that they are born racist and some white girls think if they can bone black guys they will be redeemed some how. plus there was a Japanese guy who asked they're girls which races they would date and when they preferred a fat white guy over a fit black guys, Blacks got incredibly abusive and ass hurt. but i suspect they will be guilt-ed into sleeping with black people too soon enough.

Anonymous · Answer

They are not. White Females are the most racially loyal group of people that exist. Even more racially loyal than White Males. The reason why you believe this is because black men + white women is constantly pushes in advertising, television, media, and all forms of entertainment. This creates the perception that you are describing when the truth is that the kind of white females that date black men are generally not the kind that White Men go after. If you want an explanation of why this portrayal of black men plus white women is so prevalent then just look at who owns the advertisement/media companies.

Screamo-Lu · Answer

Mmm, it happens, but not that frequently. I don't know if I'd consider it a trend.

Anonymous · Answer

Because we're supposed to be living in an era where color doesn't matter so much.

Girls aren't all being hounded by their parents to bring home a straight-cut white boy anymore, so they'll date whatever person they like.

Skin tones be forgotten.

DiamondKutt · Answer

That's their preference. Do you like white girls? If so, why? Because it's your preference.

Anonymous · Answer

Black guys are not afraid and know how to please a woman. 15 years ago? Based on your profile Your at most 24 lol

lolli · Answer

Maybe they don't like white guys.  Does that seem self hating to you?

LoveBambi · Answer

Next time you see an interracial couple like the one you mentioned, ask them why they're together.

HornyPerv · Answer

I think it really is because blacks tend to have bigger dicks. I always over hear girls saying, "does he have a big dick?"

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