What’s a flaw of yours that you want to work on that isn’t physical and how do you think it will alter your perspective?

[DeJjjj]

[WhiteSteve]

Hmmm…I’m mostly very comfortable in my own skin, even in my aspects that are unorthodox and occasionally jarring to other people. I think some people would tell me to “grow up” in some senses, but honestly…. fuck those people, who the fuck are you?😂 I live life on my timetable, there’s no “by this age you should be doing” this, “at that age, you should no longer be doing” that….. I don’t buy that AT ALL. If I want to eat sugary cereal and watch Saturday morning cartoons when I’m 75, goddamnit, I’m gonna do that, and fuck anyone with anything to say about it😝 “Age should dictate your behavior/maturity….. nahhhhhh, bro, absolutely fucking NOT, haha.

I think my biggest thing would maybe being in better control of my emotions and more mentally resilient when I’m playing sports. I’m a total head case, lmao. If I don’t play well, I just start spinning. You can just completely lose me, my conscious mind has left the building. Back when I played football, sometimes I would literally lay down on my back BEHIND the bench, and I’m just gone for like ten minutes, inconsolable. Then the possession would change over and the coaches are all like “Where the hell is Shady?”, and I just wouldn’t be able to get myself together to answer the bell, and I’d miss the whole series. Then usually someone would have to come over and talk me down, which I HATE, because it’s drawing attention to me, and I hate drawing negative attention.

Now, I’m playing hockey these days, which is still new to me so I’m not as good at this as I was at football, which brings this out of me nearly every game I play🤦‍♂️ They already think I’m crazy for fighting and such, I don’t need them thinking I’m crazy over this too😂 And more than anything, I just want to be a better teammate than that.

[NathanDavis]

I've done it... for most of my life

basically, keeping myself on check and being the grown-up I need to be, not just for myself but for others in my life as well

definitely alters my entire life... it has made me the man I am today, and as happy as I am today, more importantly... it allows me to be the better and sometimes best version of myself to the people in my life, which are MY life

happiness

[DeJjjj]

I like your answer. I think a flaw of mines that I want to work on is my insecurity of who I am internally. I overthink a lot. So even with visual proof from people and my own actions that lets me know that besides my looks, I have. So much to offer, that I’m a good person, with good intentions, while also recognizing I’m not perfect so I’m humble but I always overthink myself into believing otherwise. Not because someone else has told me otherwise or my actions proved otherwise but because I have conviced myself other wise. When I receive compliments on my actions and personality it’s always “They’re just saying that.” “They don’t really mean that.” “Why would they mean it? Who am I?” “Yes I did a “good” thing but it doesn’t mean anything.” I have a complex of, I never want to feel like I’m putting myself on a pedestal, I’m humble to the point I will lower my value and devalue what I put out into this world and I don’t know why.

[NathanDavis]

it can take some time... it has taken me years, for sure

[Paris13]

Hopefully After Things I Have Learned After I Split up From My Ex------Strength To Move On. xxoo

[Paris13]

Tanks, Gag. xxoo

[Drew-1990]

To stop being so shy and actually start conversations with new people. Probably give me more confidence and make more friends.

[Squatting_Slav]

Disciplined, with that I'd be way more jacked than I am and successful with my career

[BarryLiverstone]

One of my flaws is being too stubborn