What is a flaw that you have?

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flaw not redflag, there's a big difference and i think there should be a holiday to celebrate flaws on humans because if you think of it, flaws is what makes people unique so peoples differences should be celebrated rather than shunned, its why society has one perfect expectation and its why so many people chase it and not expressing themselves how they should so it inspired me to this question, what is one of you flaws?

Sonorous · Accepted Answer

Probably my disinterest in being involved with people even though I still have an urge to be near people.

My brain: Oh no!
Me: What?
My brain: We feel lonely.
Me: We do? Uh okay... what now?
My brain: I don't know. Let's just go be near people.
Me: Alright fine with me.
My brain: Oh MY GOD A PERSON!
Me: still smiles & nods
My brain: Here's some PAIN! PAIN! AND MORE *throws* PAINNNN!!!
Me: Oww wtf dude! Stop! I thought we were lonely! Let's go hang out without doing all of that!
My brain: Hear me, mortal, for I am the voice of divinity. Your feeble brain shall heed my decree. Apologies are but dust before my will, for I now bestow upon you a wretched condition known as hyperacusis! Behold, as the simplest of sounds inflict upon you unbearable torment, rendering you averse to the very fabric of social existence! For the humans are a species of cacophony, and your fate is sealed. Yet, do not be deceived, for even if your affliction were to wane, the bleakness that engulfs your perception shall forever taint your view of existence. Life, once vibrant, shall forever be obscured by the agony you have endured!

Me:

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

I don't see anything through over fear. I've written 4 novels as part of a series, and I know these books would do well if I published them. The characters all have these fears that hold them back from living, and I know these novels would be relatable, as well as the characters.

Only I would write a book about people needing to face their fears, and I can' even do it! lol.

I just freeze up though when it comes to making any decisions that could change my life. I'm an INFP, so that probably explains a lot too!

Alli39 · Accepted Answer

Oooh questions my therapist would enjoy lol

Though apparently I tend to make too many excuses for other people's behavior. I always assume if someone acts poorly towards me that it's my fault. Which. Is like. Not how it works. Even more the case with people I'm close with. I'm literally in therapy currently because I kept trying to fix a friendship that ended up being emotionally abusive. I thought I was the one that had done something wrong and kept making excuses for every time I got ignored or he refused to tell me what he was upset over. Turns out it's actually not a valid and healthy emotional reaction to gaslight and give the silent treatment, among other things. It's actually really toxic 😮

I put really high expectations on myself a lot of the time, but don't apply the same standards to other people, because, of course, I'm aware they're unrealistic, but then turns out badly for the obvious reasons.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Great q. (Probably another one you will not answer, lolol. Naughty Mori.)

I'm mercurial. It's based on several/many things. No one can predict what I will feel when. I try to just insulate and incubate when I'm not good, then emerge when I'm energetic and optimistic again.

But I think my main one is I am very affected by negative things, and tend to see them and not be able to easily unlock myself from being affected by them. I do all sorts of mental tricks (and gymnastics) to try to focus on any positives, or things that are fine and aren't wrong or broken or shitty. But it's really difficult. Intellectually knowing or rationalizing some things doesn't necessarily negate or nullify the feeling of it.

Anonymous · Answer

A few of them.

1. I'm a "planner". I set goals! probably too many of them. I've had my life planned out from 25 to retirement. I'm OK with spontaneity so long as we plan it.🤣

2. I'm truthful. And I've learned repeatedly that telling the truth will cost you repeatedly in this life. If you want to get anywhere you have to get comfortable with lying. I can't! My personal honor means more to me than that.

3. Even though I'm driven to succeed I'm not materialistic. What people own does not impress me. Who you are and how you treat people does. Once again, if you want to get anywhere in life you cannot be this way. But that is just not the way I'm wired.

menina · Answer

Great question! I agree with you.

I'm pessimistic. Every time I'm about to try something new or different I'm always thinking about the worst outcomes. I'm always prepared for the worst, not for the best.

LostandFound__x · Answer

I’ve been told this before and apparently it’s keeping things to myself, not communicating and then comes an outburst

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I'm judgmental.  I think I'm better than others.  Can be immature at times.  Can be lose lip at times.  Those are the ones I can think of the top of my head that I struggle with.

gothbxtch · Answer

i’m clumsy, stubborn, and i can’t take criticism

Meropatrick · Answer

I delay things that are important i dont know the exact name of this action but i think it procrastination?, 😅

KatherineJ · Answer

I have a tendency to be a bi**h when I need to be.

OddBeMe · Answer

I don’t value blood relatives, and they see that as a flaw. But whatevs. Also time management.

AaronKrieger · Answer

I like to be in control quite a lot, which I didn't even realize until a friend pointed it out to me a year ago, lmao. It's not to the point it's toxic 90% of the time, but it's definitely there.

Tomisworthless · Answer

I’m quiet and reserved and never talk and people don’t value or respect me plus I’m pretty ugly

nolabels · Answer

I've been known to jump to an incorrect conclusion or two (thousands, lol) in my time here on this Big Blue Marble.

SnowedIn · Answer

I strive too hard to do things right (I'm avoiding saying perfection) and I avoid conflict

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I can be stubborn to a fault.

exitseven · Answer

I have anger issues.

douride2 · Answer

I am sometimes to trusting of people.

alice55 · Answer

I m pretty possessive

Anonymous · Answer

Not my vagina.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

I can be stubborn

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