Do you think life is harder for men? Why or why not?

[HawkPerception]

What is your opinion on this video?

[KrakenAttackin]

Just think of all the women dying on battlefields, in coal mines, and every other dangerous and arduous job...😏

[Unit1]

Considering that men are committing 2-4x more often suicide than women

[Flatmanlewis]

I think we are all born into a variety of circumstances. As a general rule each of the two sexes has their own challenges and obstacles to overcome but I really think on the balance it’s about an even break. It also matters where you were born socioeconomicly, in what country, and things like your attractiveness and personality. I think it also varies from decade to decade, in about 5 year increments.


What I mean, is I think the late teens are harder for girls than for boys. I think 20s are harder for men than women but I think women have it far harder later in their 30s.


I’ll spare you all the lengthy breakdown but a very simplified example: being a young single woman in her 20s means plenty of opportunities exist but a young man has to work harder to find a good woman who’s interested. Two decades later, as a single 40yr old woman you’ll find fewer options but as a man you will probably have plenty. There are similar “flips” in life at each five year spread as it pertains to careers, relationships, and the real challenges kick in if you get married, start a family, and such.

[Tinat]

I believe that life can present different challenges for both men and women. It's important to recognize that everyone's experiences are unique and can vary based on various factors such as culture, society, and personal circumstances. While there may be certain societal expectations or pressures that can affect men, it's also important to acknowledge the challenges faced by women.
Ultimately, it's about supporting each other and promoting equality for everyone. 🌍

[HawkPerception]

This sounds ChatGPT generated 🧐

[Tinat]

That's MyAI!🤭🤣🤣🤣
I just created a Snapchat account and that was the first question I asked it🤣🤣🤣

[Tinat]

🙊That's MyAI!🤭🤣🤣🤣
I just created a Snapchat account and that was the first question I asked it! I think 🤣🤣👍

[Tinat]

Sorry double reply 🙈

[Tinat]

This is crazy 🤣 How do I posted two almost the same replies? 😭

@HawkPerception I'm so sorry 🙏

[HawkPerception]

So it was AI? I was right? 😂

[Tinat]

You were right 😅
Before I did it, I had a feeling that you would catch me. My intuition was right 🤣
You are smart I respect you more♥️

[HawkPerception]

Haha thanks 😊

And now that I've confirmed it, you made one other comment with AI. 😂

It was the one on freedom of speech. Sounded like a bot the entire time 😂

[Tinat]

🙈 Yeah. Two of them 🙂
It just gave me almost exactly what I wanted to say, so... Yeah. Sorry about that. 😃

[HawkPerception]

Hey if it helps you phrase what you want to say, by all means use it. It's a tool. Just make sure that you don't rely on it too much, or you'll lose your creativity 😂

[Tinat]

I usually don't like it, to be honest. A lot of people that I know use it. I mean, it just happened and I am glad you caught me 🙂.
Thank you.

[NathanDavis]

nope...

because I have never lived as a woman before so I definitely can't really tell how it is and how hard is or it isn't

in fact... even as a man, I have not gone through the many difficulties and hardships that other men have experienced that were different than my own

so... I just really don't feel like I want to tell anybody that their problems are easier than mine... or aren't

[Friendlybro79]

What I think is it's hard for everyone and often times many of us are worried about separating each other into groups to find ways of who's the biggest victim or who has it the worst. It's frustrating to me and a waste of time. Go and try to live your best life and remember we will all have struggles at some points.

[LaurenM1997]

No it’s not hard for men you guys don’t have periods or have to give birth

[Flatmanlewis]

So that’s the only thing that’s hard about being a woman? Nothing else in life can be difficult except those two things?

[LaurenM1997]

@Flatmanlewis of course there’s rape and all that but I’m saying the basic stuff that happens to us woman like I said periods and birth and yes there’s other things obviously

[LaurenM1997]

Please don’t come at me because I was only stating my opinion

[HawkPerception]

Have you been raped? Have you been pregnant?

Also most women after having a kid feel extremely fulfilled and it gives them a new sense of purpose in life. So I wouldn't exactly say that giving birth is a negative. Yes you have to go through 9 months of your body being taxed, and then pain for a while on the day you give birth, but that is extremely temporary. The benefits outweigh the negatives.

Our biology is different, but I don't think that makes your life much harder honestly.

[Flatmanlewis]

Won’t come at you just neither of those things seem that serious. Sure, creating a life is not a small thing, but every single woman I know including my mom, wife, and sister, have has multiple and speaking is as nothing but a positive experience. And periods, I mean…it’s not the end of the world. Seems like a very low threshold to declare women have a harder life over.

[Flatmanlewis]

I mean, relatively speaking anyhow, I think men l have is much harder across the span of world history if this is the only thing that we’re to qualify as being hard for a woman. Which is why I ask if that is all their is. My understanding of history would’ve included much, much, more.

[LaurenM1997]

There’s complications to giving birth and pregnancies

[LaurenM1997]

And no I haven’t been raped or been pregnant but I still have periods

[HawkPerception]

My point exactly. You haven't even experienced the part you claim is hard about a girl's life and even when or if you do, it's a temporary part of your life

[LaurenM1997]

It is hard being a girl having a period that’s non stop hurting and also makes me angry and all the other stuff I’ve been through a lot of stuff people don’t know about not rape or pregnancy but I won’t go into detail

[LaurenM1997]

I shouldn’t have commented there’s snowflakes after me claiming I don’t know anything which I do

[LaurenM1997]

Know stuff

[LaurenM1997]

And I am a girl so I know my stuff

[HawkPerception]

I don't know why you're saying we're snowflakes. We're not offended by what you're saying. We're just debating with you. You seem to be the snowflake that's offended by our rebuttal. If you can't handle opposing opinions, don't bother posting an opinion to begin with.

[LaurenM1997]

Oh my god I am not a snowflake I am not hating on anyone it’s the other way round try being a girl and come back to me then you’ll know what I am talking about. 😤

[Flatmanlewis]

No snowflakes here. This whole website is about posting opinions. That’s kind of the point. I think women have it tough - no doubt - but if periods, babies, and ‘I’m a girl so I know’ is the argument I just don’t see it. We have a national history of drafting and sending 18yr old men to die in wars; we incarcerate men with sentences several times more than those for women for the same crime; men top the list of murder victims, workplace deaths, and suicide. Men have harder time fighting for their parental rights and are legal obligated to provide for a child yet have no say on whether that child can even be born. Just as women can be raped, men can be falsely accused of rape or sexual assault and at this point can’t even look in the direction of a girl in a gym without being labeled a perv, even if he’s just looking to see if a specific machine is open.

Not saying women don’t have it hard, but I just think periods and childbirth sure don’t rise to the level that makes that a harder life than men.

[LaurenM1997]

@Flatmanlewis but you don’t understand! Childbirth can lead to complications

[Flatmanlewis]

No doubt. But since pregnancy is a choice, modern medicine eliminates most of those complications, and only about 60% of US women ever even have a child (and those numbers are steadily declining for the last 30 years) it’s makes it hard to call that a universal difficulty for women.

[LaurenM1997]

I didn’t block you i unfollowed you. And as for me being a snowflake it’s disrespectful.

[Flatmanlewis]

Look at my post. I agree that men and women each have their own difficulties. I just think it’s about an even break. I don’t think either has it that much worse than the other over the span of a lifetime.

[HawkPerception]

I should have taken the screenshot of it saying specifically you blocked me 😂

[HawkPerception]

Oh look I can comment now, whereas before I could only communicate through my update. You're a clear liar.

[LaurenM1997]

I am not arguing ok goodbye

[LaurenM1997]

I should have taken a screenshot of you saying I don’t know how tough it is to be a woman when I clearly do

[Flatmanlewis]

I’m here for the dialogue. I respect you have an opinion. I just see it differently. Isn’t this the whole point of GaG?

[LaurenM1997]

If you don’t like what I say then block me I don’t care about what you think of me

[LaurenM1997]

I am not a liar ok

[LaurenM1997]

If you want blocked then you are heading the right way for it

[HawkPerception]

I'm telling you a fact. I could not respond to what you said earlier, so either you blocked me accidentally when you unfollowed me or you're lying.

[HawkPerception]

But please by all means go ahead and block me. I don't need a snowflake that can dish it but can't take it in my posts

[LaurenM1997]

For goodness sake I am not lying I accidentally blocked you 🙄

[LaurenM1997]

Can we just forget about it

[HawkPerception]

That is literally what I just said...

[HawkPerception]

But I find it hard to believe you accidentally blocked me. You have to go through 2 steps to block someone. It's kinda hard to do that accidentally. So I'm calling you out on your bs

[LaurenM1997]

Please can you take back what you said about me being a snowflake I am not one of those I am not a troll

[HawkPerception]

You called me and Flatmanlewis snowflakes when we were just debating with you. I can tell that you're easily offended, so I called you a snowflake, so no I'm not taking it back. Don't dish it if you can't take it.

[LaurenM1997]

I apologise

[LaurenM1997]

Please forgive me

[HawkPerception]

Done. We're good 👍🏼

[pethouse]

Depends on a lot of things specifically where they live. What a lot guy don’t understand is that women especially in third world countries are more like to be physically and sexually abused considering it’s a social norm. Like the Middle East for instance.


Other factors include economic, social class, and beauty as well. It all really depends on the individual and what life really throws at him.

[exitseven]

Yes, they have more responsibilities and less control over their lives.

[genericname85]

of course it is. they have less opportunities of generating income and less opportunities of finding a partner than women have.

[BonzoInBitburg]

This whole industry of making videos telling men how hard life is for them is embarrassing. Cowboy up and get your shit together and life gets so much easier.

[laly520]

no

life is hard for everyone even for babies

[WhyohWhy69]

Dude, grow up. Stop with men vs female thing. Lame.

[HawkPerception]

If you have nothing of value to say, don't bother making an opinion. And you have the audacity to tell others to grow up 😂

[BlissfullyCurSed]

I can pee while I am standing. No, it is not any harder🤣🤣.

[Apple1996]

Life is hard for everyone

[Cazaputas]

No, we are superior in all aspects.

[Still-alive]

Red pill stuff…

[noohair]

Well men kill themselves more.