How come people don’t care that they are a scumbag and think that’s the other person’s problem?

[Anonymous]

[superchan2011]

Well most scumbags don't actually think their the scumbags. They think that others who call them out are the scumbags. The few that acknowledge that their scumbags usually don't give a damn. If a scumbag cared about being a scumbag I don't think they would be one anymore as they would want to change.

[DreamLife7]

Exactly and what is her definition of scumbag?

[superchan2011]

@DreamLife7 Not sure. I'm noticing peoples definition of scumbag can vary. My definition of scumbag is someone who's just a bad person in various ways. So wife/child beaters, Child molesters, Murderers, Rapists. People like that.

[DreamLife7]

She's referring to a guy who dumped her. Is what I found out. That's why I didn't agree with her now she's mad

[superchan2011]

@DreamLife7 Unless the man was abusive or a cheating dickhead, she shouldn't call him a scumbag just because he dumped her. Some people call others a scumbag simply to be insulting I suppose rather than the person in question actually being a scumbag.

[Asker]

@superchan2011 irrelevant please ignore her she is just an internet troll one of those keyboard warriors.

[Asker]

@DreamLife7 go on to someone else’s post with that negative energy.

[Asker]

@DreamLife7 and I don’t even know what you are talking about you came to the wrong post if you are talking about something that’s not even on this post because I don’t remember chatting with you.

[superchan2011]

Oh shit. Didn't know

[Asker]

@superchan2011 don’t even respond to her just another negative troll.

[Asker]

@DreamLife7 goodbye

[Billlewis]

I think the term 'scumbag' has many different interpretations. For example, I love it when a beautiful woman very candidly tells me that the only interest she'd have in me would be to pay for her dates with other guys, etc. If I find that tremendously exciting, does it make her a bad person? Not at all, in my opinion.

[DreamLife7]

There's no context to your question. What is it regarding?

[Asker]

Scumbag could be anyone who is an untrustworthy person not much to explain.

[DreamLife7]

Your definition of scumbag could be totally different from someone else's.

[Asker]

Usually people who are scumbags don’t ever think that they are ever the problem. Why do you people have to go so into depth about every detail? Like it really isn’t that deep.

[DreamLife7]

I'm not going to agree with you just for the sake of it. I'll give an example, some women say ariana grande is a scumbag because she's a "man stealer". I don't agree because you can't steal someone's man lol. He willingly left his wife for ariana therefore ariana is not the problem

[Asker]

Go read a book

[DreamLife7]

Sounds like you're mad at a guy who dumped you. Get over it you're ugly 😂

[aceleon]

well... the snakes don't get affected by their own venom you know that right?

being a scumbag is bad for others not for you, if it hurts others and benefits you, why would you care about it?

[Asker]

Because when roles reversed they always play the victim. How about treat everyone with respect?

[aceleon]

nah i'll pass
1-respect is earned not given
2- if my respect keeps me from getting what i want or puts me şin situations i don't like, why would i want to respect anyone? isn't it too counter-productive and self-sabotaging? it's like a lion not eating an antilope because he wouldn't like to be eaten by another.

[Asker]

That’s just an excuse to be a sorry person when you’re intentions were already wrong from the start.

[aceleon]

sorry person? i feel sorry for nothing though.
intentions wrong? when did caring about yourself and self-preservasion became wrong?

[BoopBoopBeep]

Nobody wakes up and says I'm the bad guy. Even Osama bin Laden and Hitler were doing what they thought was right. Chances are the scumbag doesn't think he/she is.

[jahaims]

Why would someone care about a world that doesn't care about them.

[laly520]

they r too ignorant

[Asker]

And then those people want to come at me in the comments.