Girls and ladyboys, what is life like being a girl?

[Unit1]

Tell me all about it.

Life as a man is self-ending.

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No one has answered my question. No thanks.

[Account]

It is honestly not as good as you possibly think.
We are afraid to go out at night by ourselves. We always call or message each other (our friends who are girls), if we happen to be walking alone.
The large majority of us have been sexually harassed at least once in our lives if not worse.
We always have to constantly think of how our actions will affect others.
We are not taken seriously regarding mechanical or technical stuff, even if we have the knowledge. We are patronized a lot.
We also juggle multiple roles.
We are viewed as lesser human beings in multiple ways. We are seen as nurturing birth machines.
There are many many disadvantages.
There have been a couple of times in my life when I wished I was born a man, but never to the point of feeling gender dysphoria. I feel alright in my body however there have been times when I thought "Damn they would have taken me more seriously if I was a guy" or "Damn that wouldn't have happened if I was a dude".

Are you thinking of transitioning?

[Unit1]

At last, the type of response I was hoping for.
While many pinks I saw simply mentioned "i love being a girl/woman" i see you do not hold that same fondness.

Incidentally we too sometimes get a few of those things. Like not being taken seriously and being seen as ATMs.

Me and transitioning is unfortunately not a good idea. My body is fully developed and I have too many male features. If I would go for it, I would not look like a lady but like a man in ladies dressing without opting for heavy use of plastic surgeries (not on a bimboficationing level)

[Jennz6]

PM me

[ZS007]

Girls have more expenses there's that but being a girl is good I guess.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

You see them in nyc clubs all the time. Seems like it kinda sucks tbh.

[Unit1]

sucks? how?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Well they're usually standing around awkwardly. You can see how nervous they are about talking to anyone outside their group. I've caught them staring at people before like a deer in headlights.

And some of them seem on the surfice like fairly normal people too.

Last week I was at one of those spots with the gender neutral bathrooms doing bumps and this girl walked over to me. When she asked if she could have some her voice was so commanding and boomy I jumped a little. Which I'm pretty sure they noticed.

I'm also pretty sure they thought I was going to see them as a hot girl and offer a large sum for free.

I've also hired a trans before as a writer and their insecurities turned into big problems. No matter what I did, they felt the need to cause problems.

[Unit1]

Sounds like they have unresolved problems with themselves and need to be sent to therapy. But not for convincing "you should stop wanting to be transgender"

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I don't know much about it. I've gotten to know a handful of trans people and maybe 2 or 3 of them I said to myself "you know what, this makes sense to me, I can see why this person functions better this way. There's obviously something very special/different about this person and they're making decisions that seem logical for them"

I think a lot of these people are confused because maybe they were girls who were tomboys or guys who were especially flamboyant and had a difficult time developing their ego in a way that was healthy. Some people have a straight up identity crisis at a very young age and it sends them all sorts of directions.

But I don't know, I'm not trans. I don't hang out with to many of them so these are just my shot in the dark assumptions from a limited series of interactions.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

But I do think it's a decision some people rush into because most psychologists are actually pretty uneducated about neurology.

[Unit1]

I did an update to this question. Do not feel addressed from it.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Ahh thanks for the heads up 😂

[Jennz6]

Yes, sometimes on a Friday a few come in

[Jennz6]

I know a Trans female that loves a blowjob

[Anonymous]

A "ladyboy" cannot speak on the female experience.

[quickquesocheese]

life is life, you know. i dont really have anything to compare it to. but the only thing i feel like i could get rid of is having my period. Nothing but annoyance with that one, lol.

[Unit1]

Understandable

[Anonymous]

Ladyboys will adamantly tell you they are not girls

[itsannalee]

Ladyboy will never be a girl.

[Jennz6]

@itsannalee💕
I have seen some in the club where I work

[itsannalee]

See what? Lady boy? So that is just dude who dressed up like a girl. Not a girl.

[Jennz6]

@itsannalee that’s right, dressing like a girl

[BobbieBoy666]

I'm a female trapped in a male's body. 💕💕

[Unit1]

Sometimes I have a similar perception.

[Jennz6]

@BobbieBoy666💕
You too?

[BobbieBoy666]

@Jennz6
Yes, yes even though I was brought into this world as a male. Just on the inside I feel all femalely on the inside. But I don't want to go through reassignment surgery. And I love this Boy / Girl feeling.

[Jennz6]

@BobbieBoy666 I wish I could help

[BobbieBoy666]

@Jennz6
😇😇💕💕

[BobbieBoy666]

And when I was younger
I would use the humping method for masturbation I would pretend that my penis was a vagina
and hump anything I could straddle pillows blankets sheets, and I love the friction feeling. 💕💕

[Jennz6]

@BobbieBoy666 did you see the video?

[Jennz6]

@BobbieBoy666
Girls, do you “Pillow Hump”? Which one of you girls sent me the Pillow Bump video? ↗

[BobbieBoy666]

@Jennz6
Yes, and thank you. 😇

[BobbieBoy666]

💕💯@Jennz6

[John_Cobretti]

Is lady body same as trans women?

[Unit1]

yes.

[Jennz6]

You trying to be a girl?

[Unit1]

It's too late for that idea

[Jennz6]

@Unit1💕💯
Why is it too late?

[Unit1]

My body is fully developed and I'm nearing 30 years of age. Too many male features. Body is built like a 100% man. I saw failed examples of ladyboys. If i go for it, chances are i'll be one of them.

[Jennz6]

@Unit1
Try to be happy with yourself

[gatixek710]

“Ladyboys” aren’t girls.

[Jpie555]

Self ending? What the H does that mean?