Who annoys you more, right wing men obsessed with masculinity, or left wing feminist men that worship women?

[Deserter2]

[WhiteSteve]

Men who need to tell you how masculine they are, probably aren’t that masculine, or at least not secure about it.

I mean, we’re dudes, most of us do it to some degree. I like to think I’m above it, but I guarantee the next time I’m playing hockey and some shoving breaks out on the ice, you can bet your last buck I’ll be right in the middle of it telling some other guy that he should run upstairs and put his PJs on, cuz he’s about two seconds from going beddy-bye, lmfao😴💤💤💤 I like to think it’s genuine, but either way, I’m being kind of a gorilla in that scenario.

So, I mean, we all peacock around in some form or another, but ideally you should keep it to a dull roar. Nothing wrong with being a man about your shit, I’m all for it, but being a man is about way more than being strong and tough and no-nonsense. Being able to be soft is being a real man. I’m fully aware of how fucking corny that sounds, but I stand by the sentiment😂

I guess my issue with hypermasculinity —well, first off, so much of it is fraudulent, just to begin with— …. but my issue is that I feel like guys betray their own true feelings and organic reactions, and instead take on some much worse position on something, and it’s all done in fear and avoidance of some other guy remotely-possibly pointing at you and yelling “ha-ha…PUSSY!!!”, and the onlooking crowd bursts into laughter at you….

Hypermasculine bro’s nightmare

Don’t be this guy😂

(Sorry…. the 90s were a different time😅😅😅 But it illustrates the point😝)

But I just feel like it’s that very fear that pushes people into some dumbass social and political beliefs. I hear more dudes defending these idiotic, piece-of-shit positions with an overall theme of “I’m not a soft little bitch!!! NOBODY better call me a soft little bitch!!! I’ll fuck you up, bro!!! I’M A MANNNNN!!!” And it’s usually way more aggressive than the opinion really calls for, but they have to be so solid in it that they’re extra as fuck about shit. Can’t just carry a gun, for instance…. they need a window decal letting you know they “wish a motherfucker WOULD”, lmao. I can’t adopt a Bichon Frisé, I need a Pit Bull! I can’t drive a Prius, I have to drive an F-150! I can’t have empathy for people, I gotta say “suck it up, buttercup!”

It just fosters a bad social environment, having people with those attitudes. And the contrived and performative nature of it makes it feel that much more unnecessary. We don’t need to be taking these stupid directions, we’re CHOOSING TO, because meatheads need to keep up their tough guy veneer🙄🤦‍♂️

I’m not sure what you’re describing, about the left wing feminist guy character. I suppose I could envision a caricature of a guy like that, something of a proverbial internet White Knight, and just doing too much, laying it on too thick. But even in that extreme case, I don’t see the societal harm in it. Respecting women as equals in society is just being a normal person, it’s silly for it to even be a matter of question or debate. I don’t envision a scenario of a society OVER-respecting women, personally.

So I guess I’d go with the right wing hypermasculinity being an overall more societally damaging phenomenon, based on potential for negative impact if overdone.

[Anonymous]

A masculinity man may be loud, but he takes care of himself and those he deems his. A woman almost always demands others aid her directly or indirectly

[Gwendoline]

Seems to be a YouTube thing. Basically they making content but need clickbait to get views. Like have you ever seen that show fresh & fit? They bring on these very silly narsasitic, and unintelligent women they find on only fans, tik tok and instagram that are desperate for attention that have radical views and are outspoken and their whole show is about how they easily outsmart them.

[MzAsh]

Men obsessed with masculinity. It’s unattractive and annoying.

[Anonymous]

left wing feminist men like Doug Emhoff and Sean Diddy love beating the shit out of women. that's what a feminist man gives you. don't forget Harvey Weinstein too

[Juxtapose]

The macho guys who are full of themselves are way more annoying. At least you can bully the feminist dudes into shutting the fuck up.

[Anonymous]

The former. Feminist men are cool if they’re not lying.

[Deserter2]

They most certainly are not cool, it's a mating strategy for weak uglies

[Opinion Owner]

Some are sincere

[NathanDavis]

I don't care for either