Disliking other people because I've experienced too much hurt from people in the past. How do I get rid of this emotion of disliking others?

[Anonymous]

[Squatting_Slav]

This comes from a place of lacking self-worth. The best thing to do is acquire self love, treat yourself to things, do things solo, things you enjoy, build yourself up to the point where you believe in yourself so much no one can kick you down. A f*ck those who have hurt you let them go, view them as worthless to even waste time thinking about. Once you build up that self belief, you will attract like minded others

[Asker]

But when I do have some confidence people hate me and I can’t make friends. I don’t know what to do anymore.

[Asker]

Thanks. I just don’t know what to do… I want people to like me.

[Squatting_Slav]

Insecure people hate seeing comfidence, use it as fuel. Humility with confidence is important though

[Asker]

Okay. But I am also insecure. Should I fake it until I make it?

[Squatting_Slav]

We're all insecure some just manage to work with them better, I wouldn't fake it at all. Embrace your insecurities and demons instead of suppressing them because they'll always be there. Just set them on the backburner it's what I do, if that makes sense

[Asker]

Yes, it makes sense. Thank you. I will try to do this.

[Squatting_Slav]

No worries, you got this

[Asker]

@squatting_slav 😊

[ClassicDropout]

Well the easy way is to realize that everyone is different and that you can't apply one person's faults to another just because they look the same or have the same gender. It's a dick move to pull out that card, but objectively it makes sense. The harder way is to take it slow and try and build healthy but casual relationships with people until you're ready to confide in them and treat them as friends. I don't know just my two cents