What does it take to be a rude person?

[Anonymous]

Like how do y’all do it? How do you go out of your way and be a total asshole to people and not feel guilty? I need to know your secrets. Because, honestly, I want to do that. I want to treat people like shit and not care if I hurt them.

[Malgarak]

I always found all of this kinda ironic. I never liked people, or liked being social, I'm no doubt quite the introvert. And for me, I see so many people being rude, thoughtless and overall just dumb with how they behave. I remember I looked up the word Anti-social once, since I was Anti (-social), but every trait of someone Anti-social was how I perceived everyone else. So to me, social people fitted Anti-social behavior, which is pretty ironic, but kinda true no doubt. People are more self-absorbed, thoughtless and narcissistic than ever, it seems. It's just me me me.

As for what it takes, it takes nothing. It requires a lot of you, to be a good person, but to be an evil person it requires nothing. You have to put in so much effort to truly be good, you need to be patient, understanding, wise, thoughtful, caring, perceptive and so on. To be bad, require no effort.

[blackgaletiger]

The key to being rude is not involving yourself emotionally in others’ affairs. Think of yourself first is also important as selfishness will help build that confidence in doing what you want and blocking the consequences. There is no ‘we’ in life. Everybody is in it for themselves. No need to hold back your words or regret as you are not responsible for how others perceive your words or actions. Those who come off as rude are very cut and dry. Very straight forward and get to the point.

[Spuen]

Im just an asshole to people who is being a pain in my ass. Thats why i dont feel guilty about it

Also, people call it "being rude". I call it "having boudries". And my boudries are good for me, so being rude is a way to not let others step over me. Why would i feel guilty about it, about taking care of myself?

[Anonymous]

The only people I'm an asshole to are people being assholes to me or to someone else right in front of me. Then, I don't feel bad about it because they deserve it and were going out of their way to be bad people. That doesn't mean someone having an opinion I disagree with. Everyone is entitled to that. If you want to take your anger out on people just for having differing and viewpoints, just know that you're making the world a worse place for you and others.

[exitseven]

It just comes naturally. I think I was born this way.

[NathanDavis]

lmao...

[phraseology]

You've got it down pat. I'm pretty sure you could teach a master course in it.

[Makeushiver]

No, you dont. You're too cool.

[dudeinohio]

Bad way to go through life.