Should I live by the expectation or the reality? All men are jerkoffs and all women are evil?

I mean the expectation is that women are angel to save men from the ditch and men become the head of flock rule the flock and guide them. But the reality is all men are jerk offs that they hate the entire world and hate their own life and all women are evil try to get comfortable things from men using men for whatever they want and money like crazy. So is this reality I should live in it or I should stay as they expect from ideal male or female?

Should I live by the expectation or the reality? All men are jerkoffs and all women are evil?
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