Are today’s women actually opposed to good men?

[Anonymous]

Because it feels like they are. It’s become very difficult to even converse with women over the things we need to be talking about, quite frankly. We’ve become so politically divided, there’s been so much brainwashing, it’s insane.

I just watched a video, some guy disguised himself as a very effeminate man, in order for a woman to even entertain a conversation with him, and got her opinions on several real world issues, and in the end, he flipped the script on her, became suddenly more masculine and exposed her viewpoints as flawed and fascistic, and she did not like that very much lol.

And whether this was real or not, it seems all too close the reality I see everywhere. We have a huge problem in this country.

[FunkyMonkee]

Sure looks that way, doesn't it? You're a very nice guy towards them, you care about them and treat them well in hopes that they'll like you enough to wanna be your girlfriend and they go chase after a guy that eventually beats the fuck out of them and treats them like shit and they come running to YOU for a shoulder to cry on and answers as to what they should do about him and why he treats them that way! You give them the SANE answers: LEAVE HIM!! HE'S EVIL!! FIND SOMEONE NEW!! And all they'll do is either say they CAN'T leave him because they LOVE him or, if they DO leave him, they WON'T choose YOU... or even someone else that'll treat them well!! They'll go right after ANOTHER guy that treats them like shit!!!

[beefcakebradybatson]

Those are the dumb bimbos whose IQ and bra size match.

[msc545]

As long as the men have a lot of money and are tall and good-looking, women aren't opposed to them.

[beefcakebradybatson]

And white.

[msc545]

Well they don't have to be white. If they're rich enough. Look at all the blonde Scandinavian girls that seem to be hooked up with or married to black guys from the NBA and the NFL. Those guys are rich because they get paid a ton of money to play and those girls certainly know that.

[Abbycado]

“I just watched a video, some guy disguised himself as a very effeminate man, in order for a woman to even entertain a conversation”

Yeah, and we are brainwashed. Your philosophy comes from internet videos. Smh. Quit whining.

@HollyK21

[Asker]

No my philosophy comes from a good upbringing (credit to my parents), my education and actual philosophy classes, plus years of experience out in the real world, and paying attention to how bad things have gotten.

I try to be as objective as possible when I say things like this, and we’ve allowed our emotions to take over far too much, as a people.

[Abbycado]

You think university philosophy classes apply to modern dating or women? XD

[HollyK21]

I wouldn’t give much energy to this sort of conversation about women with an anonymous man. He has absolutely no spine and clearly terrified of speaking his mind without the veil. Asker, how come you can’t ever have this conversation behind your actual profile? I mean you’re very passionate about these topics you throw out like every other day, so why hide? Probably because these talking points are ridiculous. “I’m educated and take philosophy classes but my reference point is some incel on YouTube doing a social experiment” lol no thank you sir!

[Abbycado]

@HollyK21 muted! See ya on the next ridiculous fuckwit. XD

[HollyK21]

Lol sounds good!💛

[MzAsh]

Well the woman was manipulated for the debate. Of course she didn’t like that.

[Asker]

Right, nor was she as smart and/or well intended as she thought she was. 🤨

She was a brick wall to start, why are we being so closed off to people, ideas, the overall betterment of things?

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I feel like it depends where you live ik some places woman are crazy and want to be all independent but ik where I live a lot of woman are still looking for that good guy

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

They’re not opposed to good men, you’re just not a good man

[888theGreat]

"Good guys" are boring to most chicks today.

[Anonymous]

What is a ”good man” in your opinion?

[Asker]

At this point I’d say any man who is still trying in this hellhole society. And I mean really trying. Gets up, works everyday, average to above average salary, doesn’t have a substance abuse problem, trying to build their own little empire, even when it feels like there just nothing left to work for anymore.

I’m personally really not distracted by all the entertainment and media anymore either so maybe I’m just not that much fun, but it’s like we’re all out here trying to be somebody, even if it’s just a husband and father with a modest home and whatnot you know? It’s become too much to ask for now apparently.

It’s like the TikTok brain has ruined everyone, everyone is high as a kite everywhere you go now. It’s not good.

[Opinion Owner]

So your definition of a good man is a man who has a job and isn’t on drugs. And women are opposed to that? No, they’re not. But it’s just the bare minimum. Nobody is going to fall for you just because you have a job and don’t have an addiction. You'd marry any woman who has a job and don’t do drugs? No matter her personality, looks, values, dreams, how she treats you and her friends and family and just anyone around, how you get along and how spending time with her feels? The problem isn’t that women are opposed to good men, they aren’t, the problem is your definition of a good man when it comes to relationships, thinking just having a job and not being a crackhead is/should be enough. Reality doesn’t work like that for men OR women.

[Asker]

Yes but there isn’t much openness on women’s part towards good men either. You can come to them, doing your best to get to know them, break the ice, have a conversation, but they all want the same performative song and dance. Jump through this hoop, that hoop. I’m not going to play that game where we talk for 2-3 months only for her to just move on anyway. And that’s even if you get that far. I don’t really feel like women are trying, based on my experiences.

[Asker]

Here’s the thing too. Even though it’s hard these days, I think a good man is always trying his best to level up and progress in life. That’s exactly what I’m doing. And I honestly think, women have such a vastly different experience, they don’t even know what that looks like or know the value in it, and I’m trying to simply encourage them to be a bit more understanding of what men have to go through. We aren’t some circus animal that just pops into your life to entertain you.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Most women are sensible.

[Asker]

So why is the media focusing on all these green haired beached whales that clearly are not and trying to rile up the whole country behind them? See what I mean?

[beefcakebradybatson]

"Beached whales!!!" GREAT fat broad descriptionladdie !!!