Are women avoiding good men?

[Anonymous]

It's just a theory for now but I am getting a greater picture, women are only going out with the worst possible choice and then ignoring who would have been the best person they could have met or even married.
There are now a total of 8 instances.
I have met so many single men who are genuinely nice, kind, caring, and very well behaved, with proper respect for the person in front of them. But when they ask someone out they are rejected in the most brutal way possible.
Why do women only consider them as friends why?, how?, those men do have feelings and are alive too. They all need just love. They will provide, do the job and everything in between.
And the worst people who are going to use women for their body, looks, and sex are getting more attention why?

[Amy_Mi]

Not exactly, women aren’t avoiding good men, they’re avoiding men who claim to be good.

Goodness without depth is noise.

Kindness without backbone is weakness.

Availability without ambition is emptiness.

Women who know their worth don’t seek perfection, they seek alignment.

And alignment isn’t about finding a “good man,” it’s about recognizing a man whose energy matches theirs.

So no, they’re not avoiding good men.

They’re simply not settling for almost good masquerading as greatness.

[Anonymous]

Yes. And that is their right.

Why do you care? You're not captain save-a-hoe. It's their life, let them live it.

Too many guys today get upset about this not realizing that woman is actually probably doing you a favor. You really think she'd make a good partner, let alone a potential wife.

Trust me when I tell you a lot of these women will come back to you after 40. Don't get wrong, some of these women's life will be a train wreck from beginning to end. But some will figure this 💩 out by the time it's too late to do anything about it. Then you'll get to have a good laugh.

[Anonymous]

women don't know what a good man is these days

a "good man" is whoever tolerates their bullshit

[FreyaRed]

Good, bad... doesn't matter. Handsome, ugly matters.

[Summeroflove]

Good women aren’t intentionally avoiding good men. Bad women intentionally pick bad men… Yes. Because a stable healthy relationship isn’t fun for people who are attached to drama, attention, and everything that comes with that.

Others make a good point of men who virtue signal but are disingenuous there is the female equivalent of this as well… People who are genuine after dealing with these people can start to sniff them out.

At the end of the day many people don’t start off as bad. They may start off as pretending to be everything someone wants them to be and say the things they think the other person wants to hear. After a while, a bad person learns how to manipulate someone with empathy. Into feeling sorry for them, into nurturing them, and believing that you can fix them or rescue them from themselves… and you can’t help someone who doesn’t really want help.

It happens to women as much as it happens to men. When you are trying to fix someone and change someone and rescue someone. Because you’re projecting yourself. You start to rationalize things and believe someone’s lies. Someone who believes if you’re stupid enough to believe them then you just deserve what you get.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

No, shitty men are really good at pretending to be good men in order to manipulate women. Why does everyone think the woman chooses the dogshit man on purpose?

[Asker]

I have an fresh example in my bag right no

[Asker]

I went out with a girl
I was always there for her.
I asked her out and rejected me went to the most shit guy, and got beaten every weekend by him, and the guy openly says he is just playing with her in front of her. Still she chose him. Over me who was ready to get married yesterday.

Another one, my friend dated this girl who was sweet, very studious and career focused.
She broke up with the guy who was helping her out to get better. Who was a PhD in physics.
Can u imagine who the girl chose?
She chose a guy who drinks, who married her and left her alone with the kids.
And now the PhD friend has given up on getting married all together just because she left him.
Now he lives alone, in Europe (Milan) works as an architect.
Now he believes that no girl can ever love him.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Well yeah, the first was an abuse victim who, more than likely, believed her partner would sooner kill her or herself than allow her to leave. The second was, again, you finding a victim that was popular and she went to someone else who was just as manipulative as the abusive guy. You’re blaming them for not being into you because the abusers knew how to better market themselves. If all you’re going to do is blame women for everything wrong in your life, I hope you stay alone

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

*himself, not herself

[Nikki1989]

They are not. They are just avoiding men like you.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

yea obviously. good men never offer women anything to brag about; which its their main priority in life

[Filthy_Immigrant]

also, do not listen to the women who say horse shit like "no they are avoiding men who pretend to be good"

this is just a coping mechanism of theirs to jusity their poor decisions and avoid accountability for their choice

[Anonymous]

Well ugly guys should stop dating hoof looking women

[AngryCarl2]

Because women want to be used for sex. Duh!