Do you have trouble with giving off bad vibes?

[Anonymous]

I have had people turn on me, and other people tell me that I make them feel uncomfortable. I got ADHD, and I think it causes me to give off bad vibes. I am wondering if there is anyone else here on GAG, that feels like they give off bad vibes, and can't do anything to stop it.

I try to be kind and considerate. I try to not to say anything mean or too suggestive. And yet this is what I get from people, which is why I think it is bad vibes from my ADHD.

[NaultD]

I've got way too much good vibes I guess.

Half the battle is a soft smile. One your comfortable with all day and people follow up with you and that helps a lot. From there giving a single fuck with your best foot forward.

Nothing too crazy just proud at what your good at like showing off to a little kid. Then at stuff your bad at be like the kid that you want to teach. Being a good teacher and good student at the same time.

From there it's like playing catch. You have to be attentive of the other person. You should be competitive with another competitive person like a brother and rough house and be able to shift gears in a second to hug gently grandma then able to rough house with your bother again.

https://youtube.com/shorts/nAs9h0hEWdc?si=ULqm2BaaQY4E6VUv

[Anonymous]

no I genearlly give good vibes. I'd look in the mirror and check what you are thinking about.

Find Christ inside yoruself and heal the heart first, then you will project better.

[Account]

As far as I am aware I do not give off bad vibes, but I for sure give off awkward vibes if I don't follow a social prompt in my mind and/or if I don't mimick other's body language.
Of course that doesn't apply to my friends, they do not appear to feel weird around me and they know me by now.

[Asker]

Awkward is a good word for it.

[Vneila21]

Hey WonderingMan!

People are going to turn the other direction whether or not you have ADHD. It's their loss/issues, not yours. Forcing yourself to make friends stirs the pot representing how you feel. Stay who you are because people will come and go.

[Asker]

Thanks I try to stay the course. But it still hurts. And it is worse when it happens at your job, and it could cost you the job.

[alice55]

I think I have vibe of a nice person as no matter how many person are around me I'm always the one people ask for taking pictures XD

[Sevenpointfive]

i'm usually not the one doing it unless it's been initiated towards me

[DrPepper12]

It's a thing. I have a feel for it among teens from teaching. Can't place it but just a mental note to proceed carefully.

[Agape93]

Yeap that's why I mask

[Abbycado]

I don’t think that I do.

[exitseven]

Probably. I just don't care.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Especially bad body language.