Is it normal for white men to dislike white women?

Question

I see a growing trend of white men who say they can't stand white women but love non-white women. Why?

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

Have you see how they talk? Many here are TOO MASCULINE to talk to. Always wanting to be in the spotlight or to be considered the best. Never letting an Asian woman breathe peacefully. Two very aggressive lesbians shamed me for having crushes on men. One of them didn’t even stop bullying me even after I gently reminded her that she was being to masculine and aggressive. She said “I don’t want to be feminine”. I haven’t had similar scary interactions with East Asian or even Indian girls. One white American girl was threatening to beat me up if I ever visited her country and another was talking about war even when I hadn’t said anything about waging a war against any country. They simply are too arrogant and not soft-spoken. Maybe the boys who were slaves in the bygone eras can find them attractive so black/Indian/Hispanics feel like they somehow “won” in life as the women who were historically seen primarily with white men are showing them some love these days. White men, on the other hand, can be liked anywhere even outside of the Western countries. Even in countries like India where white men are a lot more popular than black men so they have so many options like their female counterparts. From what I can normally see, these men give a lot more to these women without getting much back. When I compare them to the men around me, I realise that they work harder at being good partners and don’t think they’re automatically superior. I have seen Indian boys with unibrows judging women like they were some trophies. I have talked to white men too and they usually avoid unpleasant interactions. Other boys are often heard getting too disrespectful if the things don’t work out/during a breakup/ after being rejected etc. I have had real conversations with regular boys to figure out that white men are really submissive towards white women but dominate other women. Can a man really feel masculine enough if he has to be submissive? It’s like an Indian boy expecting a woman to settle in her feminine energy while still wanting her to be a career woman (most of them want a career woman for status, money etc) It exhausts the person eventually if he has to make breakfast and do dishes for a woman who doesn’t do the same more often and doesn’t let him dominate. Him telling her what behaviours, clothes etc. upset him feel like attacks on her freedom. Many are unwilling to stop talking to other men or have male friends. Many think a man sleeping around is the same as a woman doing it even when we are inherently different in many ways. Many also think like being traditional or feminine is somehow “wrong” and being a “powerful” woman is better. I think they lost the balance. Maybe Russia still has it if they really are following the traditional values but even countries like India have lost that balance as the men disregard women who aren’t high-achieving career women.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I hear a lot of white women are entitled midgets who want the guy to wipe floors with tears American fourth wave of feminism is dashit

Shiprex · Accepted Answer

I think the trope isn't so much about 'whyt' women but of modern feminists who tend to be privileged white middle class women who's whole identity is based around being a victim while being provided every thing they need and much of what they want  by men . They are entitled princesses who regard men as inherently  criminal, creepy  and  toxic  if they don't cow tow to them. They expect respect but offer none. Queens is their self image, witches how they're perceived.

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

White women lead the pack for unchecked privilege and entitlement.
It’s kind of like avoiding pitbulls. Sure, they’re not all bad, but if you make one bad judgement it can ruin your life. If you insist on playing the game, at least do your best to stack the odds in your favor.

Vevv123 · Answer

I don’t think it’s normal to dislike any ethnicity. It might just be a fetish or admiration for certain cultures or people. Or it might just be their own personal experiences, I don’t think it’s just a white men thing either, I think some people like to put labels and characteristics on people based on what they perceive/hear/experience, forgetting to think about everyone else. But this specific person that would say they “can’t stand” a certain kind of woman based on their skin tone or something they can’t control is questionable because there’s no possible way one person can be an accurate representation of an entire group of people.

Apple1996 · Answer

No I've noticed the opposite tho. I've overheard some really disturbing conversations between white men of them shit talking women of different races and only wanting white women. Im still shook from some of the things I heard because it was so crazy racist.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I have seen no such trend. And no, it is not normal. Everything I have observed and spoken to other men about indicates that at least here in the US, men are attracted to nice looking intelligent women with a well balanced healthy personality regardless of the color of their skin.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Frankly, a lot of white women are downright unpleasant to white men.

Sal_Monella · Answer

It is normal to be suspicious of their motives. Feminist Virus.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

White men will bed white women to dominate and control them, though about half the time, white lasses and lads truly love each other.(Besides, they bond to keep us POC at bay!!!)

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I think it's mostly Conservative White men who dislike Liberal White women.

TwoToTooTutu2 · Answer

It's a minority of white guys, but think of how many white men in history said "fuck home I'm getting into my boat and sailing into the great unknown to meet exotic people" and ask have we changed at all?

jshm2 · Answer

Mainly attitude.  White women can be schizophrenic in being all loud and dramatic, to psycho karens over the day.

Jackblue · Answer

Some incels and manosphere guys have convinced themselves that Asian women are more submissive. I spent years in Asia, the women there aren't that submissive.

DonaldDarko · Answer

Obviously it's not normal. It has to do with their behavior.

Avicenna · Answer

No, but some leftist women hate white men and/or simply are undateable.

Olivier24 · Answer

I'm white, and so is my husband, so I guess at least he likes white women.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I guess? I mean do all Asian men like Asian women? Do all black men like black women? Do all hispanic men like hispanic women? Do all white women like white men?

Anonymous · Answer

What you talkin' 'bout, Willis?

itsannalee · Answer

People are just curious about something they feel hard to get

Anonymous · Answer

I never heard or seen this before. Maybe you are just wishful thinking

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Not sure how the color of someone’s skin matters. Does it matter to you?

blackeagle007 · Answer

I’ve never seen this. I never go by skin color anyway.

qwerty2469 · Answer

White women? No. American woman most emphatically yes.

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's not.

exitseven · Answer

No, it is not normal at all.

In_Trance · Answer

You better take another look

DrPepper12 · Answer

News to me

Alex-Snow · Answer

Not at all

jimmy2 · Answer

No thatcis false

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