I’m a virgin just short of 30, how can I get through to this friend how bad that really is?

[Anonymous]

FWIW, I spent 4 years in jail wrongfully. I received compensation, but I still left jail as a 25 yr old virgin. I am 29 and in the same situation and I turn 30 on September 29. I have a chance to lose it, and my woman friend is telling me **not to.** Also, I apparently have a rat amongst my male friends because she wasn't supposed to know about this.

The woman I want to lose it to is admittedly a felon (and accurately accused as opposed to me). She is 38 and has been accused of credit card fraud, assault and battery, grand theft firearm, and arson. She lost custody of her kids. So, my woman friend has semi-valid concerns, but an opportunity to escape wizarddom is an opportunity (screenshot available if you don't believe me).

My female friend was a hot cheerleader in high school, she doesn't know WHAT THE FUCK it's like to be a man in this situation. She keeps begging me not to do this and is afraid I'll wake up with "missing body parts." She is saying she'd rather me be 40 like this than dead. This wouldn't be an issue if she wasn't already planning a mass intervention tbh.

She doesn't know a damn thing about men like me, that much is obvious. How can I explain to her why I must do it?

[aquamint]

I get what your point is and I also get her point because there is a risk regardless of if you are a man or not. Unfortunately she’s not going to get it regardless of what you try and tell her because she’s more concerned about your safety ( rightfully so ), I personally don’t think you NEED to do this but if you think you must then the choice is yours.
I personally would avoided telling your friend about it if you actually go through with it. A. Because she’s already given you the reason why she thinks you shouldn’t and B. If some actually does happen to you then realistically it’s not on her conscious that she was part of what ended up happening.

[Stevepro68]

Dude if you want danger just find a nice commercial girl. Just spend and you get all of that with working about coming home and find your kids pet rabbit boiling inna pot on the stove ok..

[Avicenna]

It’s OK, just make sure nothing of value is accessible and be sure to wear protection

[Ariesman81]

Do NOT get attached to this broad! Fuck it and leave it!

[Twalli]

Probably not a goid idea to do it with a violent felon.

[msc545]

Try to stay out of jail and prison and away from women like this.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Fake and gay