IIs it normal to want revenge?

[Anonymous]

I just want to look my best to prove everyone who said negative things about wrong I been attack by people cruel comment now I'm trying to be my best

[Genie23]

I don't think it's good/normal to have revenge in your heart. It will wear you down. It will never relax or be truly happy. I have had some people make awful comments on my looks too and other aspects of my life too. I felt hurt and was quite taken aback because these comments came out of nowhere. I didn't do or say anything bad. So, although I felt they were quite unfair but I decided to forgive them because I felt that they must be really unhappy in their life. Dissatisfied with maybe their own looks too or maybe it's something else, but they don't know how to deal with that, so they take out their frustration on you to feel better about themselves. When you think it this way, you can't help but feel bad for them.

[Asker]

Ok I will forgive because maybe they hurting

[Genie23]

That's so kind of you. You're right. They must be hurting. Just work on yourself whether on your looks or your career to feel happy with yourself so that when you look back in life, you can say "Yeah, I made something of my life. I'm satisfied"

Take care.

[Asker]

Yes your right thanks for the advice

[Genie23]

You're welcome.

[lightbulb27]

Yes.
Read bible… normal… but not really good.
It is a challenge to yourself… so dont care what they think. Only some people will appreciate you so do prine friends that abuse your heart unless they mean well.

[DonaldDarko]

It's normal to want but for some reason it's hard to get. I suppose you could just beat someone's ass but if you want that pure poetic justice. For some reason that never seems to fall into place.

[Asker]

My revenge wouldn't be beating someone up it would be looking my best and doing good

[DonaldDarko]

That might work it's positive anyway.

[Twalli]

That's not revenge. It's a good goal, but your goal isn't revenge.

[Asker]

OK it's just a goal then

[dustybiker2]

Revenge, no. Justice, yes.

[LØRDOFÐΞBUG-RA]

So how are you thinking of taking revenge, then?

[Asker]

Getting fit looking my best

[Asker]

Even though people tell me I look good now I still feel there's room for improvement

[LØRDOFÐΞBUG-RA]

Did you start working out?

[Asker]

I just ear better I lost some weight

[LØRDOFÐΞBUG-RA]

Anyway, wanting to take revenge on the people here isn’t healthy or normal. It’s stupid to care what most people say you should first decide for yourself how you are.

[Asker]

Ok the other girl said forgive I will

[LØRDOFÐΞBUG-RA]

But this time you gave up too quickly after asking so many questions, don’t forgive those who wronged you right away. Wait a bit, or take a little revenge, then forgive them, boss.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[blackeagle007]

Who attacked you. Why?

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You are very cute.

[Asker]

Thanks

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